The two bullets I'd advise paying close attention to are the 200-gn Hornady SP, and the 225 Partition. RL7 and TAC will get the 200's sceaming along well over 2600 fps. TAC is the berries for the 225's... unless your gun hates it, I'd look no further. If your gun hates TAC, then you are likely going to be wrestling with powder compression with the alternatives (if you want speed). IMR3031 and... crap... I think it's 4895 but that's not for sure (it's been a while), are kind of the standard old-school powders for .358 and should get you around 2500 fps with 225's BUT, at major compression to stay under 2.800 COAL. You'll want to lightly crimp, which opens a can of worms, but trust me, getting an action full of 3031 powder sticks from the powder pushing the bullet out and the bullets sticking in the lands when you try to chamber it, then eject it, sucks. A BLR action is a fright to clean that kind of thing out of.
The Horn 200 at 2600-2650 fps will absolutely flatten deer with authority. The 225 NP kills a little slower at .358 speeds but is an excellent deer bullet too and, I presume, pretty good on bigger stuff as well. I've carried it for elk, but didn't get to try it.
Can't help you with 250's.
I resize WW .308 brass (new) in one pass using Obenhauf's boot dressing as neck lube. Works slick.
Is your rifle pistol grip or straight stock? Mine was straight.
Feel free to PM me; .358 can be a bit challenging. It was for me. But if you take one thing from this, take this:
TAC