I would say you should check the fitment of the scope, the way the gun fits you and perhaps more importantly how YOU hold the gun. I think there is a very real chance you have and issue with one of these 3 things.
IF YOU ARE SHOOTING A NON MAGNUM AND HAVE AN ISSUE WITH BUSHNELL ELITE OR NIGHTFORCE EYE RELIEF YOUR HOLDING THE GUN WRONG OR THE SCOPE IS MOUNTED WRONG
I think you are right. A while back I tested eye relief on a number of scopes I had on hand, more out of curiosity than anything else. Out of the variables all had less than 4" when at maximum magnification, and several had eye relief under 3" (in fact several had about 2 5/8"). Of several fixed scopes only one had more than 4".
And yet none of these scopes, most of which I had been using for quite some time, has every bitten me. This has included shooting in all sorts of positions in the field, with rifles including big game calibres and some in light rifles.
The only time I've ever been bitten by a scope in fact, that I can recall, was one mounted on a rifle belonging to a mate - a Nikon IIRC, on a 7mm Rem Mag Sako, and that was on a range shooting from standing unsupported. That was simply because it was mounted too far back for me.
Whenever I set up a rifle I like to have things fit. In particular, I like the rifle and scope to fit, so that when I throw the rifle to my shoulder the reticle simply appears, superimposed on the animal or target. When I set the scope up I put it on maximum magnification if its a variable, and in the standing unsupported position I mount the rifle. With the scope loosened slightly in the mount I push the scope away until it is just a bit of a reach - just that little bit further away than might seem perfect, and fix it there. That way, at least for me, it will be pretty near perfect in positions like sitting or prone (where the scope's naturally closer to my eye) without there being a risk that it'll hit me.
YMMV.