,..about 18 years ago I went through the great midlife disruption.
Major decompression time was required.
I rented a 3 room apt on the 4th floor of an old building downtown that used to be the dorm of an old forgotten college which existed back in the mid 1800's.
I had a futon, a coffee pot, and a small stereo.
I spent many nights sitting up there alone and content with a bottle of decompression fluid,..... listening to Dwight inform me that what I was experiencing was nothing new.