All that is true but it is all of a evolutionary rather than revolutionary nature. Consider the designs of the late 1950s and early 60s like the F-108 Rapier, the XB-70, the A-12 and SR-71. The performance of those designs has never been equaled, or in some ways even approached since then.
Sure, advances in missile technology made those designs dead ends but in lots of ways, designs like the F-16 and F-15 represented regressions, or scale backs in ambitions. Designers realized that lots technology needed for those other designs hadn't caught up to reality and while they were great advancements, the F-16 and F-15 were designed to fight in ways that the designers of the 1950s thought was going to be long gone by then.
Like I said, those guys given the advancements they had seen and the designs they were working on BACK THEN, would probably be surprised and disappointed that in 2015 there weren't bombers cruising a Mach 10 at 120,000 feet or space planes taking passengers from New York to Tokyo in 2 hours.
The performance hasn't been equaled that you know of. There are a lot of things that aren't made known to the public for obvious reasons. The Blackbird officially didn't exist for a very long time.
I flew the F/A-18 for a while in the mid-90's. I can tell you that there is a very large capability differential between a 1960's era fighter and what we fly now. Raw speed, maybe not so much, but that's not where the combat capabilities of an aircraft lie. The advancements in avionics and weaponry are staggering. The precision of targeting compared to what was available then allows you to do with one JDAM what would have taken multiple sorties to accomplish back then, all with little collateral damage. The advancements in stealth and radar technology are amazing, there's so much information available to a pilot now that wasn't in the older aircraft that it's almost overwhelming trying to process it all in a fluid environment. I really can't emphasize enough how much more capable the later generation F/A-18's, F-15's, F-16's, F-22's, and F-35's are over their predecessors. It's night and day.
If raw speed is what impresses you then you likely won't see the differences, but trust me they're there. Nobody has seriously challenged American air superiority since the Vietnam era, there isn't anyone capable of it.