I agree, most store bought patches, they are for suckers that don't know any better. They often are to dry from sitting on the shelf for months-years.
www.trackofthewolf.com you want the blue & white pillow tick patches.
Buy the dry patches and lube them yourself. You can use the wonder lube or bore butter, thats fine but you just want to work it in with your fingers, dont soak them as that can cause all kinds of accuracy issues. Track of the wolf sells a patch lube called Mink Oil or mink lube, Ive heard that is some great stuff to use and I feel that would be a great starting point for you.