My kids call them Momma deer. The 3yr old says it is fine to shoot Momma deer because they don't even have real names. I suppose lung-shooting Suzy or whistling an arrow through Molly would be a bit more personal.... (grin)
I used to default to "Betsy" and seeing one in the bean field during thanksgiving last year, I took out the ole 222 rem and went outside, followed by the grandson.
He asked what I was going to do, and I told him I was going to shoot Betsy in the head.
"MOM! GRANDPA JEFF IS GOING TO SHOOT BETSY IN THE HEAD!"
and bye bye went Betsy....