I'm guessing you already have a regular lower. If that's the case, I would suggest getting a couple of Mean Arms 9mm magpul mag inserts so you wouldn't have to purchase either a dedicated lower or interchangeable mag block.
I would still suggest using a heavier (9mm--6 oz or heavier) buffer when you're using the 9mm upper of your choice.
I have a PSA 9mm bolt and barrel and have shot the dickens out of it. I built my own upper but their bolt and barrel and whatever stripped upper receiver is about all you'd probably have to get. While you can mix/match various manufacturers bolts/barrels I generally suggest that you use the same for at least the bolt/barrel if you don't outright buy a completed upper.
That would be the easiest cheapest and most straightforward that you could easily swap out with your other regular lowers.