Last thing I would worry about
Now we need caskets. I was there when my folks had to do all of that for My Brother James.
Making your own arrangements is the smart thing to do.
Mine and my wife's plots have been bought and paid for for decades, our Bronze markers are already laid down filled out all except for the date of passing. We didn't want to burden our daughter with having to deal with it. My and her parents did the saame thing.