the o.p.’s stepdaughter has multiple problems, the first being her disregard of the fifth commandment, “honor thy father and mother.” o.p. is trying to be a good stepfather, driving a long way to unite a mother and child. if the stepdaughter cannot be more accommodating i suggest a hotel. the firearms are the stepdaughter’s excuse to exert power. next it may be the gasoline engine in the car, the meat served on the table. is a wuhan flu jab card, a negative pcr test and a mask required for entry? perhaps the mother should fly solo to florida. life is too short for such trouble.