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I'm in a situation that involves some back wages owed to me, and have been for some months now.
For a period of time I had been being paid at a rate that accounting (boss's wife) "thought" I was to be paid. However, that was not the rate I had been told I would receive and had agreed to work for. My records, as well as their admittance, shows a balance of just over $4000 owed to me.
I have received a substantial raise since that time period, but those back wages have still not been made right.
I had the 3rd conversation concerning this matter with my boss today, and I got the same answer as I did the past 2 times.... Quote; "I dont know, I'll have to talk to "name of wife" about it."
Again, that's the 3rd time I've been told this.
Call me skeptical or just aggravated, but it doesn't seem like this matter is a priority of concern to my boss... and I am feeling a bit blown off by lack of responsibility taken to rectify the matter.
Obviously I'd like to get PAID. I know all about catching more flies with honey than with vinegar, but my patience (and attitude) is running pretty thin.
That said, I'm wondering if some here might have some suggestions as to "what next."
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Get em together in the same room and ask again.
Is any of this in writing?
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Does your state have a wage division within it’s department of labor? This might be the nuclear option if you continue to get stiffed.
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Most states have a provision to file a lien. Some type of documentation would be needed. Legal advice is always good.
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Talk to them both, at the same time, with any and all documentation you have about it.
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Talk to them both, at the same time, with any and all documentation you have about it. This Then yell Are you MFer’s gonna pay me or not!!!
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Get em together in the same room and ask again.
Is any of this in writing?
Conversing with both, together, sounds like the answer. Unfortunately, No. None of it is in writing.
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Talk to them both, at the same time, with any and all documentation you have about it. This Then yell Are you MFer’s gonna pay me or not!!! Also, Politely mention it is far cheaper to deal directly with you than your lawyer !
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How about something like this, "Say boss, my check is wrong. I'm a dumbass for never mentioning it for the last 6 months but I was waiting to see what Jack Ryan said to do."
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Do you like your job??
They seem to like you, they gave you a raise...
Can they afford to write you a check for $4000????
Could you accept the amount owed in installments??
Do you want to hit them up for interest??
Like others have said: ALL 3 parties in the discussion at the same time. Ask when the remittance will start. Offer to take $500 additional per normal check, till balance is paid if you wish... Raise the subject of interest, if you wish.....
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Definitely talk to them together. Present a copy of the documentation, not the original. Tell them you need to get paid because you have bills to pay, too.
You do have legal options but that doesn't mean you can exercise them without practical impact. They can't legally fire you for it but they might find / create (and document) other reasons, so I'd say think carefully before doing or saying anything provocative unless you have already found another job. I've even seen that done by state / federal agencies (not over back-pay, but over other things) and in the private sector you're at least as vulnerable.
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Do you like your job??
They seem to like you, they gave you a raise...
Can they afford to write you a check for $4000????
Could you accept the amount owed in installments??
Do you want to hit them up for interest??
Like others have said: ALL 3 parties in the discussion at the same time. Ask when the remittance will start. Offer to take $500 additional per normal check, till balance is paid if you wish... Raise the subject of interest, if you wish.....
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If you like your job and wage, be delicate but firm about it. 4K is a lot but not enough to burn bridges over and be looking for a new job if that can be avoided.
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In the local market your skills are a hot item and I suspect you could start Monday for more than a few different employers.
All three of you in the same room at the same time is exactly right, IMO. Lots of property owners and managers are still waiting to get earthquake repairs done...Seems foolish for them to act that way now. Be direct but not aggressive and they should come around pretty quickly.
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This would a good way to start, harsher measures if this fail. I've never been stiffed, but then nobody wanted to see how far I'd go to collect!
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This would a good way to start, harsher measures if this fail. I've never been stiffed, but then nobody wanted to see how far I'd go to collect! I laugh just trying to wrap my head around the idea of someone seeing you coming with bad intent... Laughing!
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Do you like your job??
They seem to like you, they gave you a raise...
Can they afford to write you a check for $4000????
Could you accept the amount owed in installments??
Do you want to hit them up for interest??
Like others have said: ALL 3 parties in the discussion at the same time. Ask when the remittance will start. Offer to take $500 additional per normal check, till balance is paid if you wish... Raise the subject of interest, if you wish.....
Yes, I like my job, I like my boss, and I would like to see this resolved. The tough part is, I believe it was a simple miscommunication that went unnoticed for too long and now I "feel" awkwardly uncomfortable, like I'm the "bad guy" rocking the boat for pressing the matter.... but in reality I know I'm not out of order and further more that I'll not receive those wages unless I press for them.
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Be direct but not aggressive and they should come around pretty quickly. Yes. I probably needed to hear that Art.
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If you like your job and wage, be delicate but firm about it. 4K is a lot but not enough to burn bridges over and be looking for a new job if that can be avoided. Bingo
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The substantial raise is/was likely intended by wife to cover the initial shortage. Now, you asking for the back pay, cuts into her plan for giving you a bigger raise than they normally would have.
Pitting him vs wife is not good, therefore you need to speak to both at the same time.
FWIW
I have been in your exact situation before. It was a big annoyance. I let the guy pay me in installments after getting a decent raise. He never finished the installments, and they too became late and some shorter.
I knew he had $$$ problems and home problems, and he needed the $ more than I did, so honestly I let it go.
He was a very deeply troubled, but also a very very good man. I am sure we all know someone like him.
He lost his business (no surprise) then his house, and family, and then his life. I think he was 50.
I hope yours works out better. Just made me think of Dennis.
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