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Marriage lasts a long time and things happen. Sex is great but what can you live with if something happens and sex is no longer possible (getting old can do that, too). Can you still live with her happily? Is the marriage based on something stronger than sex? Brother RC throws down some wisdom and serious advice on THIS thread?  Of course. The situation was mentioned what if she went crazy and cut him. Is she a Lorena Bobbitt? Can he live with that?
“In a time of deceit telling the truth is a revolutionary act.”
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It's not over when you lose. It's over when you quit.
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For a more serious response, I would whole lot rather hang with a chick that was fun and cool as hell and a little bit tubby than a beauty queen who thought too much of herself. Just date her a while - if she's reasonably attractive and can hang with you doing the things you like to do, overlook the fact that she's a bit chubby and you may find a friend for life. For a more serious response, I would whole lot rather hang with a chick that was fun and cool as hell and a little bit tubby than a beauty queen who thought too much of herself. Just date her a while - if she's reasonably attractive and can hang with you doing the things you like to do, overlook the fact that she's a bit chubby and you may find a friend for life. I leaning this way. Thanks Bud. Don’t want to make the same mistake twice. I was married 24 years to a redhead. Pull this thread up on her computer and have her read it. She will most likely make the decision for you.
People who choose to brew up their own storms bitch loudest about the rain.
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Campfire 'Bwana
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She has a man’s personality. That’s my problem.
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Pass. Can she... 1) skin a deer 2) rebuild a carburetor 3) sharpen a chainsaw 4) pee standing up? I knew this girl in college who could literally piss in a urinal standing up, hands on hips. It wasn't a turn on.
If you put Taco Bell sauce in your ramen noodles it tastes just like poverty
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Campfire 'Bwana
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For a more serious response, I would whole lot rather hang with a chick that was fun and cool as hell and a little bit tubby than a beauty queen who thought too much of herself. Just date her a while - if she's reasonably attractive and can hang with you doing the things you like to do, overlook the fact that she's a bit chubby and you may find a friend for life. Just don't marry her without a rock solid prenup.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell
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Campfire Ranger
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She has a man’s personality. That’s my problem.
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Pass. Can she... 1) skin a deer 2) rebuild a carburetor 3) sharpen a chainsaw 4) pee standing up? I knew this girl in college who could literally piss in a urinal standing up, hands on hips. It wasn't a turn on. Had a girl on a construction crew who’d pee standing beside the truck. She was a good hand, but came up pregnant every time it rained us out.
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Campfire 'Bwana
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Since big Dave is fascinated with homo behavior, he should peruse other less gay sites.
For the others, I’m 52, she’s 40. She makes almost 100 per year, I’m almost triple that.
She loves sex and her and her daughter adores me. She’s just chunky. That is my hang up.
Should’ve asked the gay guy in a private message- BigDave If you make 300K per year you shouldn't be banging any chick over than 28 and sure shouldn't be considering marrying a masculine 40 year old.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell
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Campfire Kahuna
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A bit chunky is nothing. Obese? Well, that's something else entirely. You can't compare the 2.
“In a time of deceit telling the truth is a revolutionary act.”
― George Orwell
It's not over when you lose. It's over when you quit.
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Campfire Ranger
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Still waiting on those pics. I’m sorta partial to redheads.
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Campfire 'Bwana
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You got divorced once. Learn and never, never, ever, marry again.. All marriage issues/consideration aside, frolic, and let your heart and conscience be your guide in ‘committed relationships’ or lack-there-of; but ALWAYS paperless moving forward. I tell my best friend this same thing all the time. His position sounds similar. There’s some mental hurdle he needs to defeat. Best post of the evening. Thank you sir. I will be patient. BigDave keeps asking for my address??? WTF? I guess he is gay? And you guys didn’t tell me???☹️ Remember 80% of all divorces are filed by women. Divorce rates go up with each prior divorce. You didn't say how many times she's been divorced. If you've both divorced, that doesn't help the math either. What she makes is irrelevant, since that's "her money", and she'll still expect you to foot all the bills. Look for someone younger who's fit, feminine , cooperate, who loves sex but hasn't been run through by 200+ dude.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell
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Campfire Greenhorn
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For a more serious response, I would whole lot rather hang with a chick that was fun and cool as hell and a little bit tubby than a beauty queen who thought too much of herself. Just date her a while - if she's reasonably attractive and can hang with you doing the things you like to do, overlook the fact that she's a bit chubby and you may find a friend for life. For a more serious response, I would whole lot rather hang with a chick that was fun and cool as hell and a little bit tubby than a beauty queen who thought too much of herself. Just date her a while - if she's reasonably attractive and can hang with you doing the things you like to do, overlook the fact that she's a bit chubby and you may find a friend for life. I leaning this way. Thanks Bud. Don’t want to make the same mistake twice. I was married 24 years to a redhead. Pull this thread up on her computer and have her read it. She will most likely make the decision for you. I agree. Pretty sad to see any man talking about a woman this way.
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Campfire 'Bwana
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I agree. Pretty sad to see any man talking about a woman this way. Simp.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell
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For the others, I’m 52, she’s 40.
Pretty soon, you’ll be shooting pool with a rope, and she’ll be hitting menopause. How do you see that working out?
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6 pages in an hour. Must be a record.
If you're asking for marital advice here, the answer is no.
prplbkrr = Purple Biker
Can't score goals if all you do is pass.
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Campfire Greenhorn
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I agree. Pretty sad to see any man talking about a woman this way. Simp. Indeed. Because a lot of what's being discussed here is completely defensible.
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Campfire 'Bwana
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Every 2-3 months my wife and I have make up sex in the laundry room.
We keep things sexy.
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Campfire Outfitter
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Divorced and have banged a ton of women in the last three years.
Would you date or marry a sweet, pretty, redhead that loves to have sex? 10 years younger, but sort of chunky?
She has a man’s personality. That’s my problem.
Damn, she’s fun. But I’m used to moderate to skinny.
Triple D boobs. Red hair. Green eyes. If you are asking about her here, and speaking in this manner of her, you do not care enough about her to consider marriage. Do her a favor, and move on down the road. She deserves someone better. Well said...
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Campfire 'Bwana
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Move on. You're far too classy for her.
Slaves get what they need. Free men get what they want. Rehabilitation is way overrated. Orwell wasn't wrong. GOA member disappointed NRA member 24HCF SEARCH
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Campfire 'Bwana
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Rather ride the roller coaster than suffer regret.
Make Gitmo Great Again!!
Who gave the order to stop counting votes in the swing states on the night of November 3/4, 2020?
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Campfire 'Bwana
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Happy since we met in college in 1984... ![[Linked Image from i.imgur.com]](https://i.imgur.com/24GkElh.jpg)
Conduct is the best proof of character.
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You should probably be discussing this with the Lady involved.
These are my opinions, feel free to disagree.
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