my tendency has been to not do "what everybody else is doing".
No vape pen
No retard glasses
Pretty much me. A contrarian.
cost money, hurt, risk infection.
My wife cuts my hair, (because I don't like it long).
I comb it or wear a cap when going out, shave because I look mangey .
Only 2 concessions to vanity here.
Never liked to stand out ok be noticed.