I'm in the camp of having no love for bushing dies either, for the reasons stated above. Another reason for disliking them is in necking down wildcat cartridges, they almost always cause more problems than they solve, compared to a good FL die.
Don't forget, you can have your Forster FL die honed to the neck diameter you want. That's the best of both worlds IMO.
The FL Forster die + honing service is the route I prefer...when available. I tried going that route last year on a .264WM and found that they did not offer a die for this chambering and wouldn't even quote me a cost or timeline when they could do a "custom" die for me because they were so busy.
I thought about going custom Lee collet but decided to buy a Redding bushing die since there was no wait. Having used it for several months now, I see no better results with the Redding bushing die than I have seen with my Lee collet (combined with Redding body) dies.