So you have to check the arm patch to tell what gender someone is ?? GMAFB..... It's clearly someone pretending to be someone they are not. I won't ridicule people with mental health issues because that is truly insensitive and cruel, but I also won't enable those who suffer from mental health issues. So as usual, I would be condemned either way. You can't win with these people.
The irony of Steven Tyler singing Dude Looks like a Lady. Years back niece and nephew are over at house watching Superbowl with Aerosmith the half time act. Don 't remember the show at all but remember my nieces daughter asking why that man is wearing a dress? I think they were showing promos of Aerosmith and Tyler was in his usual abundance of scarves etc....
I use my own generic gender pronoun for others. PIG. When they get angry at being called PIG, I explain that it is an acronym that stands for Person of Indefinite Gender.
I think it's simple. If you get to choose your own pronouns, the same logic applies to me and I, therefore, get to choose whichever pronoun I want to ascribe to you. It's all about individual desires and wishes don'cha know?.