I went to school with a guy that could hold a grudge forever. Man, I still hate that guy!
Kidding aside, I had two instances this week when thinking of Christmas gift ideas in which I changed my mind about where I would spend my money due to how they treated me for not wearing a mask during the Chiner One Niner.
I bet I have 50 places on my schidt list and zero plans to give them any business. Only 20 are local though.
[quote=Higginez]I went to school with a guy that could hold a grudge forever. Man, I still hate that guy!
Kidding aside, I had two instances this week when thinking of Christmas gift ideas in which I changed my mind about where I would spend my money due to how they treated me for not wearing a mask during the Chiner One Niner.
I bet I have 50 places on my schidt list and zero plans to give them any business. Only 20 are local though.
I’ve never been one for grudges. I’m usually the opposite. I get pissed and say some chit to clear the air and then move on from it without any hard feelings.
There are stores that I won’t go back to Menards especially. There’s other corporations that I try to avoid for woke politics, I don’t have all day to research alternatives to every Chinese product but will avoid them when I can or for high dollar items. I don’t see it as a grudge. It’s about trying to send a message however slight it may be when I can. It’s not a grudge thing but more of a pride thing. Don’t spit in my my face and expect me to buy your products or shop at your store.
Yes sir. FaceBook. Way back when the Suckerberg claimed he started FaceBook as a neat sort of way for friends and family to stay connected <while rolling those eyes and batting his eyelashes> I figured he was full of chit.
He was constructing a business model that would take my information as well as "friends & family" info to sell to advertisers. Then the sucker goes all left liberal using his money and influence to support commie/dem politicians. My response was to have nothing to do with FaceBook.
So enticing was FaceBook among some friends & family they transitioned to using it for heads up invites, a method of communicating where prior methods were phone calls, emails, snail mail invites, and so forth.
To some degree I've cut myself off from those folks due to refusal to use the FaceBook as I despise the fact that Suckerberg flat out lied about why he started that enterprise.
Fugg Suckerberg, FaceBook, Meta, in the azz with a flaming road flare.
Yes, I do hold a grudge. Now, let me tell you why I don't support Amazon. There is this bald head fugg that thought he'd sell books via online mail order. Local book stores are gone now. Then the fugg expanded. Owns a liberal rag newspaper trashing conservative values and politicians.
Then the fugg builds a rocket shaped like a phallus. Fugg Bezos and Amazon.
Hig's yes that was cool. One of our brethren loves them and takes his lovely bride to Vegas to see them when they're in town. I need to apologize since I was thinking more of Steel Dragon and Marky Mark. Dude thanks for the thread.
I went to school with a guy that could hold a grudge forever. Man, I still hate that guy!
Kidding aside, I had two instances this week when thinking of Christmas gift ideas in which I changed my mind about where I would spend my money due to how they treated me for not wearing a mask during the Chiner One Niner.
I bet I have 50 places on my schidt list and zero plans to give them any business. Only 20 are local though.
no, but my brother can, he can be a vindictive S.O.B.
Got one of those myself.... haven't spoke in a few years. Sucks.
We get along great, it's other people who get on his bad side that have to deal with him. He made his ex's life hell and even got custody of their kids.
Paraphrasing Marianne Williamson: Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and hoping the other person will die. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting. Reconciliation is optional and is a whole other issue. Lots of good reasons to just “let it go”.
Paraphrasing Marianne Williamson: Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and hoping the other person will die. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting. Reconciliation is optional and is a whole other issue. Lots of good reasons to just “let it go”.
Never tried to hold on to them because it hurts you more than those you are upset with.
But i will not ever trust them or have anything to do with them after.
Well said. It's just not worth the energy to hold a grudge. But with that said, it's for other people because I don't forget and I hold a grudge forever.