Get a lawyer, and file for divorce NOW. It is only going to get worse. If it is not the dog, it will be something else later. I wasted ten of the best years of my life thinking it would get better, and it didn't. It started with the dog, BTW. Trust me.
Get a lawyer, and file for divorce NOW. It is only going to get worse. If it is not the dog, it will be something else later. I wasted ten of the best years of my life thinking it would get better, and it didn't. It started with the dog, BTW. Trust me.
+ 1000 A woman that doesn't like dogs is bad news.
IBTDT
Don't let that stop you from establishing dominance though.
Sounds like she's having a rough day and the dogs are adding to her stress. I'd say come home with some flowers and be understanding.
I can't believe anyone is saying get a lawyer and plan for divorce, but then again this forum is famous for people jumping to conclusions and making judgements based on little information and lack of specifics in a situation.
Who said anything about being fair? How many years of misery are you willing to burn in the interest of fairness? Like it or not, it WILL go downhill from here.BTDT
Sounds like she's having a rough day and the dogs are adding to her stress. I'd say come home with some flowers and be understanding.
I can't believe anyone is saying get a lawyer and plan for divorce, but then again this forum is famous for people jumping to conclusions and making judgements based on little information and lack of specifics in a situation.
I gaurantee if you kiss her azz now, you will need to do it again, and again, until eventually, you will either NOT be the man you are now and will stay, or you will leave when the demands get too extreme. Hopefully your judgement will remain intact through the process.
Knee jerk reaction here, tell her to back off, or you'll bring home a dog, a cat, a pony, and a snake. Establishing dominance imperative.
2-109# staffordshire terrier and 12# yorkie ......
It's sort of a catch 22 guys...... You see, she was making sure the reservations for my car rental we're still on so I could go down to the hog hunt in Tennessee and visit the guys, but the dogs were barking the whole time she was on the phone with Avis.....
I doubt it. I have been married to a wonderful woman for 18 years, and we have always had at least one dog. Our current dog is a 96 pound male German Shepard that lives with us and thinks the sun rises and sets on my wife.
That doesn't sound too bad. Reason I ask, if someone's not a dog-person, more than a few can accelerate the trip to your last nerve. Although the threat of firearms does sound a little beyond the norm
Sounds like she's having a rough day and the dogs are adding to her stress. I'd say come home with some flowers and be understanding.
I can't believe anyone is saying get a lawyer and plan for divorce, but then again this forum is famous for people jumping to conclusions and making judgements based on little information and lack of specifics in a situation.
Make arrangements to board the dogs, pay for her to visit her parents, go on the hunt. She will be away from the dogs, will soon get tired of her parents, and you can have a peaceful Hog hunt, In the meantime, don't leave any weapons unsecured.
2-109# staffordshire terrier and 12# yorkie ......
It's sort of a catch 22 guys...... You see, she was making sure the reservations for my car rental we're still on so I could go down to the hog hunt in Tennessee and visit the guys, but the dogs were barking the whole time she was on the phone with Avis.....
Is this the first occurance? Hell it would have taken a Mr. Science to just put the dogs outside. No there is more going on here. You could just get rid of her and get two more dogs and be money ahead. Then just rent her replacement a couple days a week and still be ahead.
Sounds like she's having a rough day and the dogs are adding to her stress. I'd say come home with some flowers and be understanding.
I can't believe anyone is saying get a lawyer and plan for divorce, but then again this forum is famous for people jumping to conclusions and making judgements based on little information and lack of specifics in a situation.
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I did not give that advice...
And sex after conflict resolution is best
Until it progresses to eternal conflict in order to prevent sex.
First off, find out what about the dogs are bothering her. Then ask yourself if she is reasonable in her aggravation. If she is being reasonable, ask yourself why you are not, and take measures to correct the situation. If she is being unreasonable, ask yourself why she is not and try to find out what you can do to correct the situation.
I need more detailed information to judge who is being unreasonable.
I had put dogs on the back burner for years (used to have running hounds and tree hounds). As retirement loomed I was looking at getting a retriever. Wife saw me looking at some breeder material, said, "What's this? You're not getting a dog. I won't have it."
Fast forward a couple of years. One morning the (new) wife says, "Get up, Honey. Today's the day we go get your puppy."
Make arrangements to board the dogs, pay for her to visit her parents, go on the hunt. She will be away from the dogs, will soon get tired of her parents, and you can have a peaceful Hog hunt, In the meantime, don't leave any weapons unsecured.
if you had to choose, I bet that dog can't make a sandwich worth a damn
No but you could always find another woman that could do everything better and not bitch about it. Plus being younger and better looking. Life is too short if this isn't a fixable problem with the only consessions being made on the male part.
Guys , She's a good wife....... Mebbe she's just getting stressed so we can play make up?
I can't for sure say that i really don't deserve to be shot......
She has for the most part had dinner on the table when I am supposed to be home and don't complain when im not..... And she's put forth much effort into the raising of our wonderful children
No but you could always find another woman that could do everything better and not bitch about it. Plus being younger and better looking. Life is too short if this isn't a fixable problem with the only consessions being made on the male part.
Much easier said than done. The more women I meet, the more I love my wife.
I'd venture to say throw backs outnumber keepers 10 to 1, at best.
Guys , She's a good wife....... Mebbe she's just getting stressed so we can play make up?
I can't for sure say that i really don't deserve to be shot......
She has for the most part had dinner on the table when I am supposed to be home and don't complain when im not..... And she's put forth much effort into the raising of our wonderful children
Then fix the problem. She is more important than any dog. Make sure she knows that. She just feels taken advantage of. Make her happy and you will be happy too. Don't listen to the Neanderthals, a good marriage is too people working together for the betterment of both.
Guys , She's a good wife....... Mebbe she's just getting stressed so we can play make up?
I can't for sure say that i really don't deserve to be shot......
She has for the most part had dinner on the table when I am supposed to be home and don't complain when im not..... And she's put forth much effort into the raising of our wonderful children
Then fix the problem. She is more important than any dog. Make sure she knows that. She just feels taken advantage of. Make her happy and you will be happy too. Don't listen to the Neanderthals, a good marriage is too people working together for the betterment of both.
LOL see what she says when you get home tonight and agree and tell her you've found a home for her Yorkie already!
He who cares the least wins. Walk in the door act like nothing happened ask when supper is going to be ready if she gives you lip tell her get in the car and take her out if she refuses leave her there and you go eat. You be the man DO NOT let her rule the roost. Marriage is a 100/100 Proposition she has to give and so do you BUT you are the man of the house let her know straight up. Remember she might have had a bad day and you are the one she has to take it out on also. He who cares the least wins always works. Just don't take it to far LOL.
Guys , She's a good wife....... Mebbe she's just getting stressed so we can play make up?
I can't for sure say that i really don't deserve to be shot......
She has for the most part had dinner on the table when I am supposed to be home and don't complain when im not..... And she's put forth much effort into the raising of our wonderful children
Then fix the problem. She is more important than any dog. Make sure she knows that. She just feels taken advantage of. Make her happy and you will be happy too. Don't listen to the Neanderthals, a good marriage is too people working together for the betterment of both.
LOL see what she says when you get home tonight and agree and tell her you've found a home for her Yorkie already!
Send it COD to Isaac, he loves Yorkies....................
You ever get another dog I'm going to shoot you! (then this) They absolutely are driving me CRAZY!
(then i sent her an android angel thingy)
(this was her reply) don't provoke me
So what recommendations do you guys have.....?
Grab a carton of cans, slip around to a mates place and get him to fire up the BBQ and sit around drinking and shooting the breeze until four in the morning...then wander on home and go to bed.
A few things you will have achieved by doing this, you will have had a feed (which you won't be getting at home), you will have had some good conversation, you will have forgotten all about the pissy mood your wife is in, and if you roll up at home as drunk as a monkey and reeking of grog there is a pretty good chance your wife will forget about the cranky dog text as well.
This is how Australians handle marital strife.
ps, and if she sends you a text about the state you were in...repeat process!
Guys , She's a good wife....... Mebbe she's just getting stressed so we can play make up?
I can't for sure say that i really don't deserve to be shot......
She has for the most part had dinner on the table when I am supposed to be home and don't complain when im not..... And she's put forth much effort into the raising of our wonderful children
See? It ain't even really an issue until or unless she throws down an ultimatum...