I use the old Jon-E handwarmers. My kids can't believe I carry fire in my pocket. I mainly do it for nostalgia. They work pretty good though!
Yeah, i have about half a dozen of those. They do get hotter than the disposables, but the "scentless" fluid ain't, and it is getting hard to find locally. Only place i CAN find it is online, and the cost works out about the same per use.
You can use lighter fluid in them, but they will smell like that forever more.
I use them only for football games, and parades, where the smell doesn't matter, and the added wieght makes no difference.
I'm actually thinking the best use for them would be a heated scent dish for doe scent.