Does your camper not have a black water hose fitting? If it does, simply connect a hose to that fitting and turn it on. There is a device inside the tank that will spin and spray water, helping some what. For real help, try the RVForum.com they have a complete library that has that subject covered.
No, this is an old camper, '95 maybe, and the valve you open is stuck shut. This stays in the woods and due to some surgery, I forgot to empty it this year. Yes, I'm a dummy.