VAnimrod,

Sadly with some, if you're Christian, there's not enough Christ like (charity kind of) behavior, or if atheist, not enough of, just the Golden Rule, around these days. But I still stand by the position the good guys out number the bad.

Maybe a little Dale Carnegie would help. I still remember reading him years ago and the phrase, "Never criticize, condemn or complain" always stuck with me. Not that I have followed that counsel very well, but it is excellent advice.