I guess what pisses me off the most is that collections didn't address it to me. I don't open her mail. Only way I found out was when I dropped the ball on my kids bill. If that didn't happen, they eventually would have served me papers. Then I would have been really pissed.

Told them to send me a breakdown on charges...addressed to me, and we will take care of it. Also lit into my wife about not telling me.

I just didn't know if this was legal since I have no access to her medical/billing.