Cocadori:
I think you're SOL for backpack sized space heaters. I checked REI, Cabelas and Campmor. This is the best that I could find. It uses 16 oz. propane canisters. Not exactly what I would call backpack sized equipment.
http://www.campmor.com/outdoor/gear/Product___81337 I own a small cheap single-burner propane space heater made by Texsport. You can get them at Amazon.com for $25-$30.
http://www.amazon.com/s/?ie=UTF8&am...b&hvdev=c&ref=pd_sl_8zqrmss3qh_bIsobutane would be the smallest and lightest way to go but I couldn't find any heaters that use Isobutane. You might consider a small butane lantern like this one.
http://www.rei.com/product/643063/snow-peak-giga-power-lanternOr you could just use a candle lantern. Might take a long time to make a difference to the temp inside a tent though.
If all you're going to do is run it for a few minutes to heat up your tent before you get out of the sleeping bag, then why not just use a butane canister stove?
KC