I don't reload for the 410ga but I do for the 28ga and 16ga. For the 16ga I first tried what is the Ward's version Lee's Load All (NOT THE Load All II which is a press)handloading set and I could never get anything remotely resembling an decent crimp. Next I tried a Precision Reloading roll crimper which is better but is slow and the crimps are not perfect either. I reload the 28ga on a Mec Sizemaster and while the crimps still are not as nice or consistent as other people get they are decent. Having used all types things to reload shotshells with I can definitely say that a press other than the Lee Load All II is the best way to go unless you need a loading that is not factory available and shoot only a few boxes (maximum of 10 boxes/year) a year.
While I have nothing against Ballistic Products I actually use some of their products but I would be careful what I buy from them. First off they are excellent at promoting their products but many of their products are either more expensive, poorer quality, or don't work as well as similar products from other companies. Secondly they offer nothing to a person who is making target loads but they are the place to got if unusual stuff like 28ga slugs, 28ga 7/8oz and 1oz load datat, and 1350fps+ 28ga load data. Two things to be careful about in regards to B.P.I load data is that some loads will not fit with the specified components and that there is scuttlebutt that B.P.I does not pressure test their load. It is all computer generated pressures.
A for what you need here is my list of things pretty much anything you will need.
At least a case or two of Winchester 410ga AA loads to use as hulls. Remember save the boxes.
Lyman's 5th edition reloading manual, it is not really for the load data which can be found on hodgdon's website but for its very through covering of the steps of shotgun reloading.
410ga Mec 600jr or Sizemster press or a 12ga/20ga press and covert to 410ga.
Whatever powder you can find that will work for your purpose. Maybe Hodgdon H110/296 or Alliant 300MP.
Whatever wad that goes with the type of powder you bought, perhaps the Clay Buster clone of the Win. AA HS wad.
Whatever primer you can find and will work with the load you want. I use Win. 209 or Noble Sport 686/209.
At least five containers three to hold hulls, primer, and wads while reloading and two to hold powder and shot if you ruin a hull or such. As TvTech said a container to hold load shells would be helpful.
A cutting board, exacto knife, pliers, pick, and a screw driver to disassemble shells if needed.
Containers to hold every thing while not in use.
Either a good quality balance or digital scale to weigh powder and shot.
I can't think of anything else expect a tile or wood floor but if I think of anything I will add it.
