If you do not have a mentor to piece you through your selections, get a Lee stater kit. It makes good ammo and it may be all you'll need with a few nice to have additional purchases. If you decide that reloading isn't your cup of tea, then you don't have a whole lot of money tied up in stuff you'd be lucky to get .20cents on the dollar back.
If you do "outgrow" it, you can always pass it on to a young beginner.
