You can learn alot during your 1st divorce.
Good luck.
Even more during your 2nd and after the 3rd you'll be a Rhodes Scholar
I recall coming into a Denny's once up in Seattle and seeing a bunch of guys I knew from a church activity I was part of... being by myself, they insisted I come sit with them... must have been 12 to 14 guys there already...
they were busy trying to counsel one of the guys who was considering getting divorced from his wife of 20 years, because he had started banging this 20 something chick that worked at the dance studio he owned...
That lead him to start finding fault with everything his wife did, no matter how small, and the conversation just migrated in that direction.. guys complaining about women and being married... I just sat back and watched the floor show..
Finally one of the guys who was always MR "Lady's Man" at the church chimes in with his 'wisdom'... he goes off on his 'expertise' on the subject since no women from the church were around...
So after we endure a 15 minute lecture from him, I have to make a comment, that I don't think he is offering the guy, or anyone else any good advise.... and what makes him such an expert on the subject of women?
he gets all pissed off and announces to the group.. " I know all about women, there isn't a thing about them I can't tell ya! I've been married and divorced 3 times!!"
I couldn't resist... so I tell him, "That is like you claiming to be THE perfect driver, and your reason being, you've own and wrecked 3 cars"...
everyone started laughing, and he just turned red, told me "F.U." and walked out...
sorry but that is just how I saw it...