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Posted By: C_Hell R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
These have been the toughest couple days of my life. I got the tragic news on Thursday night that my girlfriend of four years Megan. Was killed in a car accident. She was sitting at a stoplight when i semi rear ended her without ever touching the breaks. She was my best friend- hunting partner. Megan had just turned 21 a little over a month ago. Don't see how things could get any worse then things are right now.

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Posted By: APDDSN0864 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
You have my deepest condolences, sir.

As well as my prayers.

She was a beautiful young lady. May she rest in peace.

Ed
Posted By: eyeball Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Unreal. I'm sorry to hear of this.

May God rest her soul.
Posted By: mcmurphrjk Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sorry to hear this. My deepest condolences.
Other than that, I got no words.
Posted By: Rancho_Loco Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Damn.. I'm so sorry.
Posted By: calikooknic Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So sorry to hear. My deepest sympathies and warmest thoughts to you and the families.
Posted By: Lawdwaz Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So sorry to read that, condolences to you and all involved.

R.I.P. Megan
Posted By: Magnum_Man Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Deepest prayers and condolences for you and both of your families. Magnum Man
Posted By: specialK Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Very sorry for your loss. Prayers sent.
Posted By: Klikitarik Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My deepest condolences to you. Let the tears roll as they will for her. It's obvious that you shared some great times together. Those memories are yours forever. Peace to you.
Posted By: sandcritter Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sorry to read this. Condolences and prayers sent.
Posted By: C_Hell Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
You always say to yourself it won't happen to you, but when it does you are totally unprepared. Everyone appreciate every single day you get with your loved ones.
Posted By: mark shubert Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Originally Posted by Magnum_Man
Deepest prayers and condolences for you and both of your families. Magnum Man


What he said - I can not say better!
Prayers sent.

Mark
Posted By: nifty-two-fifty Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My family will pray tonight for the families involved, and for you, young man. Remember the special times you had together. When you are able, continue to live your life as she would want you to. She will always hold a special place in your heart. She will be with you for the rest of your life.

From the pictures it is evident that she was a beautiful and special person. That she chose you to be with shows us that you are a special young man, also. God Bless You and the memory of Megan.
Posted By: luv2safari Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I don't even know what to say. She beamed beauty from inside.

What a loss. I am so sorry.
Posted By: handwerk Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Geez, sorry for your loss.
Posted By: C_Hell Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
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she could do it all clean fish/gut deer/ feed cows.
Posted By: kend Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I am so very sorry.
Posted By: dennisinaz Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Really sad, my condolences.
Posted By: C_Hell Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
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Posted By: 6MMWASP Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sir I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers sent.
Posted By: Salmonella Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Oh no.

How crushing, I send my most heartfelt condolences.

Don't know what to say other than this really upsets me and I'm so very sorry.
Posted By: crossfireoops Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
God Bless and Keep you Both, ....

....until you are re-united.

In hopes that some easing and restful times lay immediately ahead for you, I'm putting up a short poem.

Stay strong Mister, and grieve her well.

GTC



Death is nothing at all.
It does not count.
I have only slipped away into the next room.
Everything remains as it was.
The old life that we lived together is untouched, unchanged.
Whatever we were to one another, that we are still.
Call me by the old familiar name.
Speak of me in the old easy way which you always used.
Put no sorrow in your tone.
Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effort.
Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same that it ever was.
There is unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of your mind because I am out of sight?
I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner.
All is well. Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost.
One brief moment and all will be as it was before.
How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting, when we meet again.

Posted By: nifty-two-fifty Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
This was a very bad accident, involving eight vehicles. Three other people were hurt. Poor Megan was in the wrong place at the wrong time. Prayers sent for all involved.

http://www.minotdailynews.com/page/...illed--in-crash-near-Minot.html?nav=5010
Posted By: Apparition Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Such a tragic loss of a promising young life, I am so sorry for your loss!!
Posted By: DeerTracker Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I don't even know what to say other than you have my deepest condolences. I just attended a funeral this morning for a,co-worker who was involved in a very similar wreck on Monday afternoon. She was also rear ended by a semi going about 50mph. I wasn't real close with her but it was tough. I can't imagine what you are going through and I am so very sorry. If you need to talk, please talk to someone. If,you need to cry, cry. Prayers sent.
Posted By: tex_n_cal Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I am very sorry for your loss. Prayers sent from here, for you, and all the families.

And we are all diminished when such a fine young woman is lost. She was not only lovely, but also obviously of fine character as well.
Posted By: 280shooter Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My sincere condolences. At a loss of for anything more to say.
Posted By: BC30cal Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
C Hell;
Please accept my condolences as well.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and the folks she left behind.

Regards,
Dwayne
Posted By: Dennis81082 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
What a shame, prayers sent for all.
Posted By: 5sdad Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Thoughts and prayers from Iowa for all involved. Keep the good memories alive.
Posted By: 700LH Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Condolences.
Posted By: nimrod1949 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sad news
Prayers sent for all involved
Posted By: funshooter Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So Sorry to hear of your loss Prayers Sent
Posted By: EddyBo Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Prayers up, sad deal.
Posted By: byc Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Oh my! I just don't know what to say except please let any and all of us know how we can possibly help.

It seems that we are blessed through the best of friendships and then they are taken away. I feel you were certainly blessed sir but the loss is of course unimaginable.

Again, please let any of us here at the fire know of any needs that you or Megan's family may require.

Godspeed healing.

David



Posted By: MontanaMarine Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sooo sorry for your loss.

There are really no words....
Posted By: Scott F Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Words fail me. I cannot even begin to understand your pain. Prayers sent.
Posted By: 4xbear Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I am very sorry for your loos Sir.
Posted By: 2legit2quit Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
wow, am so sorry for your loss


hell of a thing to find a keeper and then have her taken from you.


the loss will never go away, but eventually the wound will form a scar.
Posted By: US_Patriot Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
This is so hard to imagine.
Prayers sent
Posted By: memtb Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Prayers are sent for your families! May your faith in God give you the strenght you all need to heal.

Todd and Marianne
Posted By: pira114 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I simply can't imagine what you're going through. You're in my prayers.
Posted By: Mac84 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Dear Lord, mercy. My condolences Sir.
Posted By: Hammerdown Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13

Such sad news, I'm so sorry.

I wish I could say something to take the hurt away,
but I can't. All I can do is pray. I will pray for you.

Sad :-(
Posted By: Cariboujack Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
You have my deepest sympathies. Cry all you can and get it out. Talk to someone about it. It won't ever make sense but it does no good let it break you. Prayers for you and the family.
Posted By: Ken Howell Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Looks like we ALL lost a treasure there.

You were blessed to be closest, and having been the closest makes you hurt the most, the deepest, the longest of all.

But we all grieve our loss, too.

Thanks for letting us share this agony.
Posted By: LBP Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I'm so very sorry, my deepest condolences sir. I will keep you in my prayers.
Posted By: RichardAustin Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
No words that could lend you comfort. You were choosen to share her time. Hold on to that and know that it was special and meant for you. Please look in to some grief counseling; this is a terrible burden to carry alone.
Posted By: Longbob Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So sorry to hear the news. My thoughts are with you.
Posted By: Seafire Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
As was already said.... there are no words that even come close..

read this and then just two days ago, one of my son's friends that he has grown up with, narrowly escaped death by meer feet, running his car off the road, trying to play "Fast and the Furious" with his Taurus.. kid has totaled two cars in less than 6 months... yet he has so far been spared injury by God...

and then I read a young woman like this is taken so early in life by a trucker, who evidently was high, on speed or was just plain tired and no paying attention...

May God be with you in your time of need, and may he comfort you and help you get thru this....
Posted By: FVA Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Words fail me but my thoughts and prayers to you and the families.
Posted By: EdM Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I just cannot imagine, at all.
Posted By: Qtip Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
May the Lord bring comfort to you and all who loved her.

Qtip
Soli Deo Gloria!
Posted By: aalf Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13

Words fail me.....

Keep friends and family close.

Posted By: MColeman Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I'm grieved to hear of this. My deepest condolences to you.
Posted By: Boggy Creek Ranger Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I am so sorry to hear of your loss Sir. Keep all the good memories of Megan close in your heart and allow all the evil to disolve in the mists of time.
Posted By: DigitalDan Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Condolences sir. Not only the good but the best............
Posted By: Bearcat74 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Unreal, very sorry for your loss. frown
Posted By: nsaqam Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Wow.

I'm so very sorry for all those who knew and loved her.
Posted By: The_Real_Hawkeye Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
What tragic news. Very sorry to hear this.
Posted By: Dantheman Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
May her memory be eternal. My condloences sir.

Dan
Posted By: slg888 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Damn, so young & beautiful. Sad...sad, must be devastating for you/her parents. Sorry.
Posted By: T LEE Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
OH MAN, I am so sorry for your loss Sir. May you draw comfort from the knowledge she now rests in a far better place.
Posted By: jmillo Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My heart goes out to you. So sorry.
Posted By: Razz Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Please accept my deepest sympathies and prayers.
Posted By: 6.5-06 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Condolences. Prayers to you and your families.
Posted By: hotsoup Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
very sorry to learn of your loss. prayers for the family at this most difficult time.
Posted By: ingwe Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
C> Hell: That is the worst news....you will be in my thoughts for a long time....

Posted By: Kenneth Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
There are few/no words which might help your feelings, and thoughts at this time. Passing on at the age of 21,

Very few ever have to endure such pain, so young.

Life is a card game, We can only play the cards we are dealt, We can only hope this game has very, very few times as low as this.

May the Lady rest in peace.
Posted By: wadevb1 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Damn shame. I looked over her FB page. It is apparant you two had a special relationship.

Looking over the pictures, we all lost someone special from our outdoor community.

Condolences from Michigan.
Posted By: stxhunter Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
i can't even fathom the pain you you must be going through, you have our prayers.
Posted By: SamOlson Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
C, very sorry to hear this tragic news. Just can't even imagine.

I always looked forward to reading about your shared hunts each Fall.

Very sad deal, you are both in my thoughts.
Posted By: schoolmarm Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Originally Posted by stxhunter
i can't even fathom the pain you you must be going through, you have our prayers.





Been sitting here trying to think of something to write that might help. Nothing happening. Rest in Peace..
Posted By: oulufinn Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Condolences and prayers sent for your loss. Please stay strong, as the pain has just got to be more than most of us can even imagine.
Posted By: hillbillybear Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Prayers on the way for everyone. May the Lord keep and comfort you.
Posted By: GSP814 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I'm so sorry for your loss, God Bless Megan.
Posted By: sactoller Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I'm so sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace.


Posted By: gmsemel Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sorry for your loss, since I spent some time driving a semi, the driver in this is going to have a tough time of it. Life for him is not going to be the same, as it is not going to be for you. Not good no matter how you look at it.
Posted By: Oregonmuley Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Please except my sincere condolences Sir, as many have already said a sad loss.
Posted By: Deans Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
What a tragic loss. My condolences to you and her family.
Posted By: Mannlicher Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
just awful news. I have said prayers for you and her family.
Posted By: oldtrapper Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I wish I had words that could make this better. I wish you and all of her family and friends God's peace and healing. So very sorry to hear this.
Posted By: cal74 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sorry for the loss, thoughts & prayers for you and her family/loved ones.
Posted By: thumbcocker Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
That is terrible. So sorry for your loss. Prayers sent.
Posted By: RS308MX Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I'm am very sorry to hear this. Prayers are on the way to all affected by this tragedy. May God bless you all.
Posted By: RickyD Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
How awful! So very sorry. Prayers for all she knew and touched. I'm sure that's lots of people. You were blessed for the time you had with her. We never know how long that will be but it's never long enough.
Posted By: Oldman03 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Prayers sent
Posted By: tjm10025 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13

So sorry to hear this.
Posted By: George_De_Vries_3rd Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Originally Posted by 5sdad
Thoughts and prayers from Iowa for all involved. Keep the good memories alive.


I second this. Sincerest condolences.
Posted By: waterbug Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sorry to read of your loss. My prayers go out for you and all who loved her.
Posted By: VinceM Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So sad,I am sorry for your loss . This is terrible,please hang in there,you gotta know , she would want you to.
Posted By: fish head Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I'm truly sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you.
Posted By: eh76 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My most sincere and deepest condolences.
Posted By: WyColoCowboy Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
What a tragic loss - she was such a beautiful young woman who obviously lived life to its fullest. Prayers sent to you and to her family.
Posted By: gitem_12 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
There arent any words that will make it better you you have my condolences and prayers
Posted By: FishN4Eyes Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So sorry to hear this.

Prayers for you and Megan's family.

Tough to understand stuff like this.

Posted By: RDW Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I am very sorry for your loss, I wish I could do more for your and your family.
Posted By: Scotty Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sorry to hear of your loss, you are in my prayers.
Posted By: raybass Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
RIP Megan and my condolences. Tragic loss, prayers for all involved.
Posted By: HughW Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Tragic loss. Very sorry for you and your family. All the best at this time and in the future.
Posted By: BOWSINGER Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
The Good Go First

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Posted By: amax155 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My Condolences
Posted By: bucktales Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Very,Very sorry for your loss.
Now C Hell, you take care of yourself.
Posted By: jwp475 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13


So sorry to hear of this horrible tragedy, you are in my prayers
Posted By: Waders Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Just saw this thread.

What a bad deal. These types of threads are really difficult for me--I want to say something meaningful/supportive/encouraging, but have no clue as to what words would be appropriate.

I have always enjoyed your posts and pics, most recently the one of Megan's new Buckmark. I was anxiously awaiting a range report, but now, that is a thread that will never happen.

Well, I have no clue what else I can say or do, but if you think of something that a guy out in Washington can help with, please let me know. Blessings on her family and yours. Tough days/weeks/months ahead. I wish you all the best. Really.
Posted By: Blacktail308 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My prayers are with you and all whose lives were touched by Megan.
Posted By: Proud_Dad Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Very sorry to see the news of your loss. From the pictures you've shared she was obviously a great young woman and the two of you enjoyed some memorable times together. Hang on to those memories. Sending prayers for you and her family.
Posted By: bea175 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
so sorry for you
Posted By: Aviator Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So Sorry prayers sent !
Posted By: C_Hell Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Originally Posted by Waders
Just saw this thread.

What a bad deal. These types of threads are really difficult for me--I want to say something meaningful/supportive/encouraging, but have no clue as to what words would be appropriate.

I have always enjoyed your posts and pics, most recently the one of Megan's new Buckmark. I was anxiously awaiting a range report, but now, that is a thread that will never happen.

Well, I have no clue what else I can say or do, but if you think of something that a guy out in Washington can help with, please let me know. Blessings on her family and yours. Tough days/weeks/months ahead. I wish you all the best. Really.



She thought that pistol was the coolest damn thing. We got to shoot it last weekend. She put about 50 rounds through it. It was with her in the crash. First shot was dead center ringer. She made it look easier then it was.
Posted By: Okanagan Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Can't imagine that kind of loss at your age. The photos you'd posted showed so much life and promise that it seems a double devastation. Praying for you this morning, and into the future.









Posted By: mjbgalt Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
i lost a dear friend a couple years ago at age 30. i know it's not the same but i do remember the suffocating feeling and the wanting to call her and she wasn't there anymore. wanting to share something with her and remembering i couldn't.

it really does get better with time. the only thing that helped me was to realign my ideas about the whole thing and learn to stop thinking about how unfair it was and start to look at it as, i didn't have to meet her to begin with but i did and i'm damn glad to share the time i got to.

i know that doesn't mean a damn thing right now but maybe in 6 months you can look back on this and it will.
Posted By: ColKlink Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Originally Posted by Okanagan
Can't imagine that kind of loss at your age. The photos you'd posted showed so much life and promise that it seems a double devastation. Praying for you this morning, and into the future.


+1

Really sorry to hear this. I can only imagine what you are going through.
Posted By: FlaRick Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Tragic, so, so sorry.
Posted By: GregW Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So sorry man -

I won't try to offer words as I've never been there.

I send my truest condolences -
Posted By: RenoH414 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Very sorry to hear this. My condolences and we will pray for you and those involved.

Reno
Posted By: thismortalcoil Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Prayers sent for you and her family
Posted By: mudhen Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Prayers for Megan and those that loved her, and sincere condolences to you.
Posted By: JPro Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I'll remember you in my prayers, as well as Megan's family. Hang in there. Something quite similar happened with my sister's boyfriend a few years ago. It took here a while to get her feet under her again, but things are good for her now.
Posted By: SKane Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I'm rarely at a loss for words but..........damn.
So sorry my friend. Uggghhh.
Posted By: C_Hell Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
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Posted By: mart Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My deepest condolences.

Mart
Posted By: kamo_gari Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sincere condolences from Boston for such a tragic loss. I'm very sorry to hear of your pain. Hang in.
Posted By: Whitebird Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So sorry to hear about your loss. Godspeed Megan.
Posted By: elkhuntinguide Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Damn...
Posted By: HawkI Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Can't even imagine the heartache and loss you are going through.

Stay strong.
Posted By: LRoyJetson Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Rest in peace Megan,
Prayers for family and friends.
Posted By: gunner500 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Very sorry C, you lost a helluva Lady there Bro, God Bless till you two are once again reunited.

Gunner
Posted By: wildhobbybobby Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
The happiness you gave her is obvious from the photos you posted. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Posted By: 7 STW Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So Sorry
Posted By: Ravenr2 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
prayers
Posted By: ribka Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
What a shame to lose a such a young beautiful woman
She was obviously special and one of a kind.

I remember those pics you posted

Hopefully some positive action will come from this tradegy.

Posted By: BIGR Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sorry for your loss, so tragic. Hang in there and stay strong, life has some bad bumps in the road and we have to deal with them the best we can.
Posted By: 257heaven Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Very sorry to hear this and I'm praying for God to comfort you and heal your pain.
Posted By: Lonny Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So very sorry to hear this....

My most sincere and deepest condolences. You, Megan, and your families are all in my prayers.
Posted By: RogueHunter Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So very sorry. Prayers sent Northward.
Posted By: gunchamp Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I'm so sorry. Prayers will be sent.
Posted By: Steelhead Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Stay the course.

Godspeed.
Posted By: willowcreek1996 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Based on your photos and posts, a lot of folks had to have been envious of your relationship with a beautiful woman that shared your love of being outside and hunting. Those folks are now praying your you and her family. Take care of yourself.
Posted By: Oldquailhunter Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Damn....what a shame.

Dink
Posted By: Slim_Jenkins Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Originally Posted by mjbgalt
i lost a dear friend a couple years ago at age 30. i know it's not the same but i do remember the suffocating feeling and the wanting to call her and she wasn't there anymore. wanting to share something with her and remembering i couldn't.

it really does get better with time. the only thing that helped me was to realign my ideas about the whole thing and learn to stop thinking about how unfair it was and start to look at it as, i didn't have to meet her to begin with but i did and i'm damn glad to share the time i got to.

i know that doesn't mean a damn thing right now but maybe in 6 months you can look back on this and it will.

I lost a dear friend several years back and couldn't stop questioning why someone with such a promising future would have their life snuffed out so soon. No matter how I tried to rest my mind, I couldn't stop thinking about it. Time and talking about it really does help. Or it did me. It was when a bud of mine and I were talking one day that he made a comment that finally brought peace. He knew I had been struggling for a while and he told me, "In the day/age we're living in, God is surrounding himself with good people." Maybe it will help you.
Posted By: ruffcutt Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
There are no words for how this makes me feel, but know that you have my deepest sympathy.
Posted By: roundoak Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Very sorry to hear of your loss. Prayers from here.

Wayne
Posted By: kcTbear Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
C Hell, I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that God will comfort you and your families.

Casey
Posted By: LBSmith Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I am very sorry for your lose. I know what you are going through as I lost a good friend in a freak wreak by Medicine Lake in 1999. She was 22. There isn't a day go by That I don't think of her, this just brought back a flood of memories for me. I feel your pain, we sometimes don't understand why they happen like this but we must live our life's without them.
Posted By: Plateau Hunter Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So so sorry to read this. Prayers sent for all.
Posted By: donsm70 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My most sincere condolences on your loss and condolences to her family, as well.

donsm70
Posted By: W7ACT Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Why must the young die so young? May Megan rest in peace and my thoughts and prayers go out to you and her family and friends.

Think of it as the good lord called her home for a higher order. may you all heal from this tragic loss.
Posted By: rockchucker Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My most sincere and deepest condolences.
Posted By: nifty-two-fifty Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Colton,

I see out my window that it is a beautiful Sunday morning, to remind us of God's love, in spite of the terrible things that happen on this earth.

Because you let your Campfire friends know of your troubles, concern for you and your families has rippled out in an ever widening circle. This morning hundreds, probably thousands, of people that you have never met in person, are saying prayers for you. Don't doubt the power of prayer.

When I was your age I didn't know what to believe. I am sure your whole belief system is shaken right now as it never has been before.

Please have trust and faith that if He brings you to it, He will bring you through it.

You may be able to actually feel all the prayers being sent up for you today, as so many believers ask God to wrap his love around you, but if not, still know that they are praying for you, and that God does love you.

In relation to time and the cosmos, our lifetime on this earth, no matter how long we live, is the mere blink of an eye. Know that you and Megan will be together in Heaven someday. She and others that go before you will have prepared a place for you. Know that the love you feel for Megan is just a preview of the love you will be surrounded with when you arrive in God's presence, and once again get to be with Megan, and family members and friends.

Now, do your best to carry on as Megan would want you to. She wants you to be happy and fulfilled. When you don't know what to do, ask God and Megan, because they are together now. Because you know Megan's voice, God will speak to you through her, if you are willing to listen and believe.

Now is a time to grieve. Just know that we love you, Colton, and in the weeks ahead you will be able to re-read these messages and I hope you will continue to feel support from those of us who feel we know you now more than ever before.

God Bless You today, and through the days ahead.
Milo
An old fart, and one of the friends that you have never met.

I am stuck inside, recovering from back surgery, spending time on the computer to distract me from pain and medications, but improving each day. I am dreaming of my next trip to the range in a few weeks and trying to pass the time without driving my poor wife crazy. I hope I am an encouragement to you, and if so, it is the best thing I have accomplished in a while.
Posted By: WyoCowboy Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I don't know where in MT you are but if there is something I can do let me know. I am truly sorry for your loss and can't imagine the pain you are going through
Posted By: Remington6MM Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
May God's warm arms wrap around your shoulders.

W. Bill
Posted By: GeoW Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
At a loss for words. Prayers..
Posted By: Hotload Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My deepest condolences
Posted By: Stormin_Norman Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My deepest sympathies, all of us here are truly sorry for your loss. I can't imagine your sadness, but it's road you don't have to travel alone.
Posted By: Powerguy Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Prayers Sir
Posted By: Coyotejunki Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sorry to read this. My condolences.
Posted By: CLB Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Prayers sent for you and her family. I am very sorry for your loss.
Posted By: EWY Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Prayers for her, you and the family. You have my sincere condolences, Sir.

Ernie
Posted By: bellydeep Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
That is just plain terrible. She seemed like one of the good ones.
Posted By: Leanwolf Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I'm very sorry to hear of Megan's tragic death, and your and her family's invaluable loss.

Sincere condolences.

L.W.
Posted By: WinModel70 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and all touched by this tragedy.
Posted By: AB2506 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
You have my condolences.
Posted By: 12344mag Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Very sorry to hear of your loss, I will say a prayer for You Megan and the families involved.

RIP Megan.
Posted By: Barkoff Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
What a loss, she looks like she was a real sweetheart. I'm very sorry for your loss.
Posted By: rong Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
no words from me can ease this hurt,as many here have mentioned.thoughts and prayers,treasure the positives of your time together
Posted By: RNF Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Such sad news. Condolences and prayers sent.
Posted By: frogman43 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My deepest sympathy for you....I'm sorry for your loss.
Posted By: WhiteTail48 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So deeply sorry for the loss of Megan. Prayers sent.
Posted By: claycrusher Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
So Sorry for your loss Prayers Sent.
Posted By: 7mmMato Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Condolences and prayers sent
Posted By: SLM Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Dam...You and everyone involved is our thoughts and prayers.
Posted By: m_stevenson Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
My sincere condolences on the loss of someone so special to you.
Mark
Posted By: 308scout Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers sent your way.
Posted By: Whelenman Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
The guys have said it all. I am so sorry!
Posted By: Steve Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
I can't imagine. I'm very sorry.
Posted By: Karnis Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Godspeed to Megan, you and the family. You have my deepest condolences.
Posted By: broomd Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/19/13
Story like this breaks the heart. Too young and so much life to live.

RIP.
Posted By: johnw Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
My condolences to you and to all who knew her...
Posted By: Birdwatcher Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Sir, I don't think it does get any worse than this.

In the very dark days ahead, remember those still here on earth who love you and need you.

Like all of us, I am so sorry for the loss of this beautiful young woman.

Birdwatcher
Posted By: MontanaMan Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
So very, very sorry to hear such news.

RIP

Heal, grow strong & live large; never forget though.

MM
Posted By: C_Hell Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Her grandfather yesterday gave me a 1951 browning superposed 20 gauge that he said he was going to give me a wedding present. I don't know if I'll ever be able to shoot that gun.
Posted By: mjbgalt Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
wow sounds like a great family too
Posted By: rockinbbar Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Saw this earlier... Didn't know what to write then, and still don't.

Prayers to all involved.
Posted By: Dale K Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
So sad to hear news like this. Peace and Strength to all involved.

Dale
Posted By: gitem_12 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Something else, Never forget that she loved you. And that she still loves you and while it doesnt seem so now. She is in a much better place to help you through life. And trust that when she sees fit she will send you someone just as good and more than she was to love you on this earth as she does from heaven. Keep her memories with you and when things get tough think of her and talk to her. Again god bkess you and everyone involved
Posted By: Odessa Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
This is just horrible news concerning your fianc�, Megan. I am very sorry for your loss, she appeared to be a very lovely young lady.
Posted By: ingwe Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Originally Posted by C_Hell
Her grandfather yesterday gave me a 1951 browning superposed 20 gauge that he said he was going to give me a wedding present. I don't know if I'll ever be able to shoot that gun.


Ultimately, you will be able to, and you will cherish it....it'll just take awhile.

No one, anywhere, under any auspices has ever been able to explain to me why young people die.
Posted By: colodog Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
This news has been grinding on me all day as well.
Hang on. We're all pulling together for you.
Posted By: gitem_12 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Ingwe... My best answer to that is. God needed them more than we do, i like to think that's the reason.
Posted By: JGray Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Saw this before heading to work this morning and have been stewing all day wanting to say something but just keep shaking my head. I know we don't know each other, but please know that you, Megan and her family are foremost in my thoughts. Prayers offered for all involved...
Posted By: 17ACKLEYBEE Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
When it comes to things like this what do you say words are just never enough.
Posted By: ken999 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
I'm very sorry....my deepest condolences.
Posted By: mtcurman Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
That is awful to hear. My sincerest condolences.

You and your's are in my prayers..

Ben
Posted By: highridge1 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
I am so sorry .Our families prayers are with you
Posted By: Dave93 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Her beauty is evident inside as well as out. Prayers to all who love her. We are very sorry for your loss.
Posted By: tx270 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
I am so very, very sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.
Posted By: Monkey_Joe Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
C., mere words will never be enough. Just know that our hearts go out to you and the families involved.

I know it sounds hollow now, but please take comfort in the quality of life Megan lived ,your time together, and the positive contributions that you both made to each other.

Posted By: iddave Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Thoughts and prayers bud. So sorry.
Posted By: tzone Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Our prayers are with you, yours, and Megan's family. May she rest in Peace.
Posted By: VarmintGuy Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
C_Hell: I wish there was some thing I could do to restore your girlfriend for you - sadly I can't.
Cherish your memories of her and stay strong - thats what she would want you to do.
In the future the lesson you are learning now will be of benefit - treasure those you love while you can.
These are the toughest times (the first several days after a tragedy) many of us have been where you are now and indeed things WILL get better.
So sorry for your loss.
Hold into the wind
VarmintGuy

Posted By: JMeier Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Prayers sent, if you need someone to talk with, just PM me.
Posted By: Sakoluvr Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
God's peace to you and the families involved.
Posted By: WV_Airedale Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Deep and sincere condolences from WV, I know the pain you are feeling and will be praying for you.
Posted By: 4214chip Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Prayers and our deepest sympathy from Nebraska.
Posted By: TnBigBore Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
I am so sorry for your loss.
Posted By: rost495 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
I'm so sorry to hear of this tragedy!

Words cannot compensate.

You are in our thoughts and prayers!

Jeff
Posted By: acy Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Very sorry for your loss. Some day you will be able to carry that shotgun in the field. Just having it with you will remind you of the good times you had hunting with Megan. It will also bring tears to your eyes, but you will be glad you have it.
Posted By: nifty-two-fifty Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Services are on Tuesday. I will say some extra prayers for you and the families. Bless you all.
Posted By: temmi Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
I am very sorry and My deepest condolences

Tom
Posted By: atvalaska Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
sad indeed....prayers from ak.....
Posted By: Cheesy Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Just came across this post, condolences from Missouri-
Posted By: savage62 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Sorry to hear about your loss U have wonder thought about her thats what counts R.I. P.Megan
Posted By: firstcoueswas80 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
So very sorry to hear this. If there is anything that I can do to help please let me know.
Posted By: troutslayer Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
My thoughts and prayers are with you and her family.
Posted By: Clint Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Sincere condolences. Such a beautiful young lady.
Posted By: darrenk75b Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
So sorry for your loss.
Posted By: Mink Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
So sorry to hear of this. I understand the pain you feel now (lost my oldest son this past July). Just try and keep your head up, and keep moving. Sometimes it takes all youhave to do just that.
Posted By: dogcatcher223 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
C_Hell:

I've always enjoyed your couple hunting pics in the past, really sorry. Hope to see more pics in the future when you are in happier times again. Good luck.
Posted By: Oldslowdog Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13

That's terrible.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

It won't be quick and it won't be easy, but you'll get through this...

Prayers sent.
Posted By: tomt53 Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Originally Posted by C_Hell
Her grandfather yesterday gave me a 1951 browning superposed 20 gauge that he said he was going to give me a wedding present. I don't know if I'll ever be able to shoot that gun.

You will know when the time is right, prayers from Central Florida.
Posted By: AkMtnHntr Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
There are no words that can ease the pain and only time can heal the hurt. I am very sorry for your loss.
Posted By: Diesel Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Tears and prayers shed for you and Megan's family and friends. From your descriptions, she was definitely a keeper. Only time can heal such a cavernous wound. No words can fill the void. Hang tough and prize her spirit. nick..
Posted By: Grizzly_Bill Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
Prayers on the way. Very sorry for your loss.
Posted By: Miss_Lynn Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/20/13
My thoughts and prayers are with you, and Megan's family and friends. May God bless you all.

Lynn
Posted By: Powerguy Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/21/13
Sorry for your tragic loss, prayers to you and the families involved.
Posted By: EdM Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/21/13
No words, none... I cannot imagine.
Posted By: nifty-two-fifty Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/21/13
This is from Megan's obituary in the Minot paper:

Megan really kept her parents busy all through school as she was involved in just about everything possible. She was one of the first girls in wrestling and was known as a scrapper in all of the sports she played. She put her heart into everything she did. Meg was one tough cookie! She strived to be unique, never following the crowd, and was well known for her fashion statements. Meg was also an excellent student and her family was very proud of all of her accomplishments. Always an animal lover, for a time she was a vegetarian until she met the love of her life, Colton Hellegaard, and became a mighty huntress! Megan's last four years were spent almost entirely with Colton. Together they hunted, fished, took care of their dogs, and spent much of their time on his family's farm. She was so looking forward to finishing school, getting married and moving to the Hellegaard farm with Colton. Her heart will always be there.

Megan graduated from Plentywood High School in 2010. She had just turned 21 in March and in early May had completed her third year at Minot State University, majoring in laboratory science. She worked as a phlebotomist at Trinity Hospital in Minot. She was a very reliable and valued employee there and was proud of her job. She was planning on staying in Minot to work this summer, but was just on her way out of town to come home for a long weekend.



She is survived by: her parents, Mark and Heather Shoal, and her brother, Jon. Megan is also survived by her soulmate, Colton Hellegaard, and his parents, Deanna and Clyde, and all of the Hellegaards and Solbergs who became her second family. Megan leaves behind many friends including her "besties," Kirsten Tryan and Shelby Vogel.

Megan's light touched so many people's lives. She was a gift. Though we dearly wish we could have had her longer, we thank God for the time we had with her. She made our lives "sparkle."

Pastor Mark Taylor will officiate at memorial services today, Tuesday, May 21, at 10 a.m. at Plentywood Lutheran Church.

Private interment of cremated remains is planned for a later date.

Fulkerson Funeral Home of Plentywood is in charge of arrangements.
Posted By: huntsonora Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/21/13
Originally Posted by nifty-two-fifty
This is from Megan's obituary in the Minot paper:

Megan really kept her parents busy all through school as she was involved in just about everything possible. She was one of the first girls in wrestling and was known as a scrapper in all of the sports she played. She put her heart into everything she did. Meg was one tough cookie! She strived to be unique, never following the crowd, and was well known for her fashion statements. Meg was also an excellent student and her family was very proud of all of her accomplishments. Always an animal lover, for a time she was a vegetarian until she met the love of her life, Colton Hellegaard, and became a mighty huntress! Megan's last four years were spent almost entirely with Colton. Together they hunted, fished, took care of their dogs, and spent much of their time on his family's farm. She was so looking forward to finishing school, getting married and moving to the Hellegaard farm with Colton. Her heart will always be there.

Megan graduated from Plentywood High School in 2010. She had just turned 21 in March and in early May had completed her third year at Minot State University, majoring in laboratory science. She worked as a phlebotomist at Trinity Hospital in Minot. She was a very reliable and valued employee there and was proud of her job. She was planning on staying in Minot to work this summer, but was just on her way out of town to come home for a long weekend.



She is survived by: her parents, Mark and Heather Shoal, and her brother, Jon. Megan is also survived by her soulmate, Colton Hellegaard, and his parents, Deanna and Clyde, and all of the Hellegaards and Solbergs who became her second family. Megan leaves behind many friends including her "besties," Kirsten Tryan and Shelby Vogel.

Megan's light touched so many people's lives. She was a gift. Though we dearly wish we could have had her longer, we thank God for the time we had with her. She made our lives "sparkle."

Pastor Mark Taylor will officiate at memorial services today, Tuesday, May 21, at 10 a.m. at Plentywood Lutheran Church.

Private interment of cremated remains is planned for a later date.

Fulkerson Funeral Home of Plentywood is in charge of arrangements.


Prayers sent for her family, Colton and her friends
Posted By: 8SNAKE Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/21/13
FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND

One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
Sometimes there were two sets of footprints.
Other times there were one set of footprints.
This bothered me because I noticed that during the low periods of my life
When I was suffering from anguish, sorrow, or defeat,
I could see only one set of footprints.
So I said to the Lord, "You promised me, Lord,
That if I followed you, you would walk with me always.
But I noticed that during the most trying periods of my life
There have only been one set of prints in the sand.
Why, When I have needed you most, you have not been there for me?"
The Lord replied,
"The times when you have seen only one set of footprints
Is when I carried you."



My thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathy go out to you and everyone who was touched by Megan's life. I pray that you find peace and strength in the story posted above. It has touched me in times of need and my hope is that it does the same for you.
Posted By: 65BR Re: R.I.P Megan - 05/22/13
Just reading this thread, prayers for you and her family and friends. My deepest condolences. Keep strong in your faith, and trust in God's plan, one us mortals often never understand.

VERY Sorry for this tragic loss.
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