I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
She is either completely crazy,or less likely a lonesome lady who hasn't dated very much at all who needs someone to replace someone she lost. Either way,probably best to get out while you can.
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
I take it you've hit that. Some chicks think men experience the same kind of bonding they do. Just ain't so.
There are about 157 million females in the U.S., Why would you put the first one you catch on the stringer and go home?
Runnnnnn, or at least slow way down. Takes at least a year to see someone’s true colors. Tell her it’s in her best interest as well. If they fall hard and fast, they are usually very “co-dependent”. Some want something they think you can/will provide and are afraid if they go slow, you will find out their true motives, charachter, or dysfunction. A good relationship is built in steps based on validated trust, communication, and giving of yourself to another. Just my 2cents.
Runnnnnn, or at least slow way down. Takes at least a year to see someone’s true colors. Tell her it’s in her best interest as well. If they fall hard and fast, they are usually very “co-dependent”. Some want something they think you can/will provide and are afraid if they go slow, you will find out their true motives, charachter, or dysfunction. A good relationship is built in steps based on validated trust, communication, and giving of yourself to another. Just my 2cents.
I agree. I try to tell her this and she gets defensive.
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
Next time out, fart a few times, that ought to slow things up a bit.
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
If you haven't had a root in 10 years WTF are you doing on the forum, get out there and drain the tank.
Christ, you have to ask about this? She's phugged up in the head! Use her, abuse her, and when she starts to catch on, use her a little more, until you can't stand her! Just DO NOT GET EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED!
I'm guessing you hit it around 3rd date. You should have known the and made it clear right then and there. If a woman wants to be a whore don't make her a wife.
Christ, you have to ask about this? She's phugged up in the head! Use her, abuse her, and when she starts to catch on, use her a little more, until you can't stand her! Just DO NOT GET EMOTIONALLY INVOLVED!
He is already emotionally involved which is why he asked the question.
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
Dear Abby didn't answer your inquiry? So you "Dear Abby" the campfire...
And you're one of the "Oregon is Victimhood" Clowns...
This thread is priceless.....
If you haven't had a date in 10 yrs, that is a lot of pocket pool time...
I'd say you better get what you can get, while the gettin is good...
Why not! Have fun until you decide if you want to make this a permanent arrangement. Just drag your feet about marriage until either you want it too or you decide to part ways.
Under no circumstances should you consider any sort of permanent tie to this gal until you've been dating for six months at least. Then, if all is well, get engaged for least another six months, and like the other guy said, don't give up your place, or let her give up hers until if and when you tie the knot. These are bare minimums. I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt and consider that she's just a bit desperate and lonesome, and that you seem like a good guy that will make her happy (an impossibility, she has to decide to be happy herself), but the indications are she's not thinking straight about this, and neither are you for even considering getting in any deeper at this point. Put her off on this, gently but firmly, citing common sense and caution as the reasons, or even that you want to enjoy the romance before settling down, and if she can't handle that, you know she's a loon and you need to escape, and quickly. There's no good reason to rush into this, only bad, and really bad ones.
Don't teach her to shoot, or buy her a gun, and don't rely on her for baby prevention.
Sheesh. A guy finds someone who is evidently attractive enough for him, works hard, makes money, self sufficient, good cook, likes sex and everyone says to screw her over. Then those same people talk about what biotches women are and cant figure out why.
Unreal.
Ten years with Rosie Palm and a real woman comes along and then a guy thinks hes too good for her. Sounds like some women Ive known.
Sheesh. A guy finds someone who is evidently attractive enough for him, works hard, makes money, self sufficient, good cook, likes sex and everyone says to screw her over. Then those same people talk about what biotches women are and cant figure out why.
Unreal.
Sir, I get it.....but it's been two weeks. If she can't wait at least three the smoke alarms go off and some investigation is prudent..... as is more lovin' during the discovery portion of the case. Win/Win.
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
You have to ask yourself, would you really want to get into a long term commitment with someone that would have anything to do with you.
Never under any circumstances make any type of commitment, even the slightest, to ANY woman you have not had the pleasure of sharing a single Menstrual cycle with.
Two weeks? And you don't think this is a reason for concern. All the poontang in the world ain't worth being shackled with Psychowoman. Run fast, run low, but mainly RUN! Two weeks and she's looking for a lifetime commitment is insane. Me thinks there's a few floats missing from her parade.
I know I said run in a previous post, but hey I do not know the situation, nor do I know you or her. If she floats your boat dude, then by all means do what you think is right. I personally think that the commitment thing at this time frame is a little premature. Also you can be in a committed relationship and not live together. Good luck in whatever direction you choose.
So you're worried that after only 2 weeks she's all in love and wants to get married,
Yet, in another post, after only 2 weeks you are all ready to move in with her?
Seems double standardish to me.
2 weeks is 2 weeks of dating, you don't even know each other yet, WAY to early to move in, in either direction. Keep dating, you want to go through seasons, holidays, meet family, get through or at least into next hunting season, see how all that goes, THEN discuss the next steps.
Heck, have you even had a fight yet? You need to see each other through good and bad times and talks. Nothing brings out the inner personality like a good disagreement.
2 weeks????? That's insane. If it's true love, you guys will still be together a year from now. What's the hurry? Remember, this is forever. If it doesn't work out, you're screwed in more ways than one.
You haven't been together long enough to find out the bad habits that each of you have that bother you yet. Even then, women have a way of tolerating your bad habits until you do get married. Then they try to change you and that never works. I would at least wait until after hunting season to make sure she will tolerate you being gone on a regular basis. If she's "clingy" alwaysoutdoors, you can forget about being always outdoors. I've been married for 31 years and we love each other. We went through a period during the first 10 years where she didn't like me hunting "all of the time". Then there was the dirty socks on the floor. I didn't do enough dishes. I was messy. My schit stinks. On and on. She tried her damnedest to change me, but I am who I am. Everything piled up through time and got to the point where she hated who I was even though she loved me. It took a marriage counselor to straighten her out after 11 years. You're only in it for 2 weeks. That's nothing.
Take your time and go on several long vacations together. That way you might find out who she really is. Even then, you still won't know. Then if things go South, no harm, no foul. And then run like hell.
I had a very similar experience to yours about 10 years. Talked about marriage and all of that stuff in the first two weeks. Said she loved me the first night we were together. She has lots of money and once worked for one on the biggest law firms in NY state. I dated her for three years. Turns out she had a personality disorder . Accused me of sleeping with every woman I saw . There were many other issues that went along with her disorder. Anyway I broke it off with her and never looked back.
Slow down , Stick around for a while. Your woman may actuality be normal,but it does smack of desperation. If she does not want to slow down , she get defensive about taking it easy it may be a clue that you might should move on. Other the other hand she may realize you are the catch of her lifetime .
You will ignore the warning signs and try to make a career as a porn star with her. Life is too short! Go for it. Just plan for the worst case scenario and don't give up anything that you would need to move on with your life if she turns her head 360* one night. Ask me how i know.
It will take a few years, or less, for her true colors to come out. Just keep a safety net in place until then.
PLEASE do not tell her about this thread, and update it often. I have become sort of an expert in this arena. Taking me 3 years to get out of a 1 year awesome relationship as we speak.
Oh... and ... vasectomy.... best $88 i ever spent!
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
CAUTION with that one! I dated my Wife for three years before I ask her to marry me, had to make damn sure she knew what she was getting into ;]
Im the worst person to give woman advice. That said, if the sex is good keep after it til it all blows apart.....but NEVER move in with THEM. Made that mistake years ago. Took me a bit to get back on my feet. This latest one, I moved her in with me. Threw her out a month later. Im sittin pretty in MY home, that was oct 15th. Shes still moving place to place, wrecked her car, laid off from her temp job, and on POF looking for a meal ticket.
Side tip, when it blows apart, dont go out the next weekend, by a couple rounds for everybody flashing money and pound 7 alabama slammers in an hour, get a bj from the bar maid in the parking lot and then try to make it up steps to your house. It dont end well. Went 4 steps up fell the whole way back down hit my head on the front door, bar maids bf now highly pissed, but on the bright side you now have a schitload of new friends that expect you to pay their tab the next time you come in.
If she makes more than you that kinda rules the 'gold digger' type out, so thats good. Id say if you move in with her, keep your own place for at least 6 months, so she knows you have options and she doesnt have you locked in. It takes a while to get to know someone...
But I know a man who was warned about a unmarried woman several years his senior. She was desirably beautiful and produced her own income. 40 years later, he only wishes he had met her earlier...
I have a friend who got back into dating after a divorce. He told me that every woman he dated for two weeks wanted to get married unless he drooled a lot or missed his mouth and hit his forehead with the fork when he ate. I asked him what he did about it. He said that he drooled a lot and hit his forehead with his fork while eating. It took him a while, but he finally met the right one and, after a proper courtship, has been happily married for about 20 years.
This has all the makings of one of Flaves April 1st posts. Brewing another pot of coffee (NOT Starbucks) for the continued reading.
Same here, been out with cattle a couple hours this morning haying and busting ice on the ponds freezing my ass off, another hot pot of coffee and crazy reading sounds good.
What I found were women that fell into 3 classifications in most all cases.
1) Looking for someone to save them.
Whether they have money or not. They may be broke to the bone, or may have a decent job that pays well. But they were wanting to saved from something. Even if one has a good job, it's always "better" to quit and spend hubby's money, right?
2) Looking for a daddy for their kids.
That one's pretty self explanatory.
3) Crazy.
I know. They are ALL crazy... But the question is, to what degree? There's "acceptable crazy" and then there's "Holy chit! I gotta get outta here before she wakes up again!" crazy.
Then, you toss "unfaithfulness" into the mixture. That can go into any of the above categories.
Next toss in sex drive. Not just hers... but yours too. It's better to have compatible ones, for obvious reasons.
To find a woman that you are attracted to, that will be faithful, not fall into any of the three categories above, and you can be compatible with, and will do you no harm, is pretty rare.
While there's no "Time Limit" on how fast things proceed, you both have nothing to gain by rushing things... Slow and Easy. The only race that matters is the long run.
If she makes more than you that kinda rules the 'gold digger' type out, so thats good. Id say if you move in with her, keep your own place for at least 6 months, so she knows you have options and she doesnt have you locked in. It takes a while to get to know someone...
Not always, some woman want a guy with money to pay all their bills. That way they can spend all their money on shoes, clothes, etc. Many men and woman, who make a very good paycheck, are in debt up to their eyeballs because they can't stop spending.
I have a friend who got back into dating after a divorce. He told me that every woman he dated for two weeks wanted to get married unless he drooled a lot or missed his mouth and hit his forehead with the fork when he ate. I asked him what he did about it. He said that he drooled a lot and hit his forehead with his fork while eating. It took him a while, but he finally met the right one and, after a proper courtship, has been happily married for about 20 years.
This one will be successful...
they will be happily married for about 20 days...
things will go downhill as soon as the electric bill comes and they argue over who is going to pay it...
It can easily take a year to finalize a divorce, some drag out longer. If it takes that long to get out of trouble, you should take at least that long to get into it.
get a bj from the bar maid in the parking lot, bar maids bf now highly pissed
The least you could have done was give her a piece of gum or a Starburst, before she breathed on him......
At that point I didnt know she was with anyone. Found out hes the bouncer and she does this all the time. Im sure he'll get over it, if not he'll just have to get more pissed the next time I do it.
Shes still moving place to place, wrecked her car, laid off from her temp job, and on POF looking for a meal ticket.
It's hard living in this modern world of acronyms!
Is she Pakistani? Is she into Pakistanis? Does the 'pa' in your handle mean you are a Pakistani?
Why is she looking for love at the Pakistani Ordnance Factory???
Coffee's done. I've got to go get my first cup and ponder this.
Nah, from Pennsylvania...shes just pa trash. Married 3 times, lived with 4 (5 if you include me), grew up here, moved to poconos, then to WV to get away from crazy ex ( her story), lived with a guy for 5 yrs til I took her from him which wasnt hard. Self admitted whore when she drinks, does have tightest puzzy I ever been with but cant suck cock without draggin her teeth, apparently all that whorin didnt learn her nothin.
About 10 years ago at 45 years of age, I found myself suddenly single. I can be a total dipshidt about certain things, but I tend to be very observant of human behavior and the human psyche. If you find a 40 something+ YOA single person, that person is single for a reason. Yes, even that person in the mirror. It is more likely that women carry substantial emotional damage from previous relationships. I was blown away about one thing in particular. Almost every woman I went out with had experienced physical or sexual abuse at some point in the past. Now you'd think that would make them gun-shy, but often it has the opposite effect. As soon as they find a decent person who treats them respectfully and makes them feel loved an appreciated, they latch on.
Then some of us are simply of a different emotional constitution. Some of us turn on like a light and some of us warm up like an oven. When I examine the relationships of my family and friends, some of them were first loves from high school, some met at a bar and married immediately, some dated for a long time before getting married, some lived with each other for a while before getting married and some choose to stay single. There is no one best way to do it. There are no guarantees.
OP I suspect that your woman carries some emotional damage. Hell, talk to her about it. Have a frank discussion. Tell her what you think and how you feel, and let the chips fall where they may. Try to learn about her past. She well may be insane, but it's just as likely she's a good woman. Early on in my dating I had several women want me to go exclusive after a few dates. That was fine with me. I had no need to be a player. Those few didn't work out. I started dating another woman. I had gone out with her about 5 times. Thinking back to how the other women seemed to need to know I wasn't dating around, I told this one that I wasn't seeing anyone else. I figured it would bring her a measure of comfort. WRONG. She kinda flipped out. "I AM NOT READY FOR THAT!" Everyone is different. Try to understand and respect those differences. We are all fuuking crazy. It's just a matter of determining whether your respective levels/types of crazy mesh.
If they looked good enough and seemed to share a similar set of values, I gave 'em a chance. One thing I found very valuable was asking them why their last relationship failed. If you find one who will not own any of the failure, RUN.
Second big red flag for me... First one was the fake DD's.
Both are good indicators that she has some serious self-esteem/insecurity issues.
If you do decide to jump in, I strongly suggest that you get some serious pre-marital counseling. It would be good for both of you and possibly identify the "why" for the sudden need to get married.
It's your life, no one can live it for you and no one else has the answer but you.
That might be ok, might not. Absolute perfect and absolute disaster are often closer together than two "meh, maybe"s.
If you're not interested in her, you owe it to both of you to get the hell gone. Now.
If you are interested, or somewhat, but concerned about what you're seeing, then it's time for you two to have a very calm talk. Lay the cards out, get her explanation. If it works, great, if not, then again, time to get the hell gone. Now.
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
Seeking dating advice on a public forum? Just priceless.
I have found incredible advice of all sorts on the internet. Just as there is a breadth of hunting and shooting experience here, so too is there an abundance of relationship experience. Juts what kind of advice do you think people shouldn't subject themselves to on the internet?
And some of the idiots come out of the woodwork. Thanks for the sound advice.
I haven't seen any bad advice. But looking at your posts I see your torn between the pit of your stomach telling you a woman that wants to marry after knowing you for 2 weeks is a big red danger sign, and really wanting to make the relationship work for a variety of reasons.
Even if she doesn't suffer from issues of self esteem which will result in her being controlling, you're going to have to make some major concessions in your lifestyle. If are truly always outdoors as your handle says, unless you're always outdoors with her, that's coming to an end.
Ultimately it doesn't matter how long you know someone, either you make the relationship work or you don't. The question to ask yourself is at this point in your life are you interested in and willing to complete change your lifestyle to be married, becoming a different person for the betterment of the relationship. Is that the over riding most important thing in your life. If the answer is yes, then maybe it will work out. If on the other hand you want to mostly live your life as you see and spending time with your women when it fits your desires and schedule, then the relationship is doomed to failure.
If it were me, knowing what I know about women and knowing what it's taken to make a successful marriage, if I were single and the woman I dated talked about marriage after 2 weeks I'd politely say you know I realize we are fundamentally different people and this isn't going to work out. Be an adult, be polite, but move on with a clear understanding that the relationship is over.
Guess I got lucky (pun intended). My GF and I both agreed right off that the M word would not be brought up until we had been together for at least two years. I've been married 2x (7yrs and 13 yrs) her 1x (15yrs) neither of us is in any hurry to get hitched again. I'm an empty nester, her youngest is 1/2 way thru his sophomore year in college. Tons in common and get along great. We've been together now about a year and a half. Never knew it could be this good.
Definitely take your time brother. Sit down and explain it out to her that it's way too soon and you're not ready to take that kind of big step. Until y'all have been together long enough that it's comfortable and the new has worn off. Take a trip with her and see how that goes. That'll show you a good bit of her character.
A woman being a woman wouldn't scare me. Look at the big picture stuff.
If you have been the victim of a psycho bitch you wouldn't have such a cavalier attitude.
I believe that is where the big picture stuff comes in. But I was very fortunate to avoid "psycho birches" by using common sense.
Point taken. You have to understand the crazy people are experts at hiding the crazy, therefor learning and heeding the warning signs are an important life skill.
A woman being a woman wouldn't scare me. Look at the big picture stuff.
If you have been the victim of a psycho bitch you wouldn't have such a cavalier attitude.
I believe that is where the big picture stuff comes in. But I was very fortunate to avoid "psycho birches" by using common sense.
Point taken. You have to understand the crazy people are experts at hiding the crazy, therefor learning and heeding the warning signs are an important life skill.
I had to learn this the hard way-but learn it I did.
One of the things I mentioned earlier can provide a glimpse into the psychological constitution. Ask what went wrong with their last long-term relationship. A woman who won't own any of the responsibility for the failure is giving you one of the warning signs. Some can hide it for a long time. You can leave others immediately and not totally escape the crazy.
One of the things I mentioned earlier can provide a glimpse into the psychological constitution. Ask what went wrong with their last long-term relationship. A woman who won't own any of the responsibility for the failure is giving you one of the warning signs. Some can hide it for a long time. You can leave others immediately and not totally escape the crazy.
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One of the things I mentioned earlier can provide a glimpse into the psychological constitution. Ask what went wrong with their last long-term relationship. A woman who won't own any of the responsibility for the failure is giving you one of the warning signs. Some can hide it for a long time. You can leave others immediately and not totally escape the crazy.
This is so true, took me almost a year to get the last one I threw out, to actually finally go away and look elsewhere. There will be no live ins for quite awhile. I do not even care if she is filthy rich, she will have her own place.
Second big red flag for me... First one was the fake DD's.
Both are good indicators that she has some serious self-esteem/insecurity issues
The only gal I know with fake tits got 'em to address her past HUSBAND's insecurity / need for arm candy, wasn't her. I wouldn't write her off just on the strength of that .. maybe a warning, maybe worth investigating (what tits aren't? :)), but not an automatic "run" signal.
It can easily take a year to finalize a divorce, some drag out longer. If it takes that long to get out of trouble, you should take at least that long to get into it.
It will take even longer to fix your credit rating.
I think you should keep seeing her and post about it here. It'll have a calming influence and the sound advice you receive here will carry you through difficult times you may encounter with your new love interest.
Let her know how much you love her right away, agree to move in, that's solid. Share bank accounts to show her how much you care and trust her. Get your truck put in her name as a way to make yourself vulnerable and transparent (they love that). If there's a way you can adopt her 7 kids from 6 previous relationships, I think you should do that, again, to show her you're all in and not just screwing around trying to take advantage of her amazing fake body.
Be sure you always offer to take the kids to the dentist and pick them up after school so she can go about her career and keep seeing that guy from the office uninterrupted. She'll need an evening or two a week to go out with the girls and "keep up appearances", you need to be big about it and fix the kids dinner and keep the diapers changed while she's gone. Maybe you could forego hunting season too, after all, you're being selfish wanting to spend so much time away from your new family. Aren't they awesome anyway? Be sure and tell her how much you love it all and that she and the kids are worth every minute of it. Oh look, there's another one, and you thought there was only 7. What a blessing precious little #8 will be!
When she's had a hard day at work or at the motel, you need to rub her feet (or her back) and keep the laundry up, you know, if momma ain't happy ain't nobody happy! You are paying all the bills right, because she needs her own money. A woman needs her own identity away from the responsibilities of being a great wife to you, which frankly, hasn't been that great a deal for her, admit it. You stink, you're grumpy, you constantly bitch about the kids ("you don't love them waaaaaa!") and she can't spend time out and on her back like she could when she was single.
Really, she needs to dump you, you're a real drag. But don't sweat it, the fire is here for you.
I think you should keep seeing her and post about it here. It'll have a calming influence and the sound advice you receive here will carry you through difficult times you may encounter with your new love interest.
Let her know how much you love her right away, agree to move in, that's solid. Share bank accounts to show her how much you care and trust her. Get your truck put in her name as a way to make yourself vulnerable and transparent (they love that). If there's a way you can adopt her 7 kids from 6 previous relationships, I think you should do that, again, to show her you're all in and not just screwing around trying to take advantage of her amazing fake body.
Be sure you always offer to take the kids to the dentist and pick them up after school so she can go about her career and keep seeing that guy from the office uninterrupted. She'll need an evening or two a week to go out with the girls and "keep up appearances", you need to be big about it and fix the kids dinner and keep the diapers changed while she's gone. Maybe you could forego hunting season too, after all, you're being selfish wanting to spend so much time away from your new family. Aren't they awesome anyway? Be sure and tell her how much you love it all and that she and the kids are worth every minute of it. Oh look, there's another one, and you thought there was only 7. What a blessing precious little #8 will be!
When she's had a hard day at work or at the motel, you need to rub her feet (or her back) and keep the laundry up, you know, if momma ain't happy ain't nobody happy! You are paying all the bills right, because she needs her own money. A woman needs her own identity away from the responsibilities of being a great wife to you, which frankly, hasn't been that great a deal for her, admit it. You stink, you're grumpy, you constantly bitch about the kids ("you don't love them waaaaaa!") and she can't spend time out and on her back like she could when she was single.
Really, she needs to dump you, you're a real drag. But don't sweat it, the fire is here for you.
Sorry that didn't work out for you. At least you have Seafoam.
I may have missed it, how old is she and has she been married before? Keep your distance for at least another year. Why would you consider moving in?? That would be a dumb ass move. Of course you may be as crazy as she is.
Just kidding. I'm not marrying anyone unless like has been said I've known them a couple years and see what's really going on.
I will however bang her and eat her food as long as possible. The thought of moving in sounded alright. She cooks,cleans ,bangs etc...but that's what I keep saying you are not right if you fall in love and wanna get married after 2 weeks. She has more than one ex hubby.
Thanks for all the advice. I knew I could count the on the Fire.
I guess I'm just meeting the real crazy ones lately. Hopefully 2018 is a less crazy woman kinda year .
I like her. I think she's got real untapped(not a pun, that would be disrespectful) potential for you.
Yep, after seeing fireballs post about his marital woes I am not sure I would follow his advice. Was a train wreck that one, I think he deleted a lot of it though.
I like her. I think she's got real untapped(not a pun, that would be disrespectful) potential for you.
Yep, after seeing fireballs post about his marital woes I am not sure I would follow his advice. Was a train wreck that one, I think he deleted a lot of it though.
Partsman, Your avatar is sweet. "Kermie! I want a cookie, Kermie." 😎😎
I like her. I think she's got real untapped(not a pun, that would be disrespectful) potential for you.
Yep, after seeing fireballs post about his marital woes I am not sure I would follow his advice. Was a train wreck that one, I think he deleted a lot of it though.
No see, I'm the perfect guy to give marital advice. BTDT!
I think you should keep seeing her and post about it here. It'll have a calming influence and the sound advice you receive here will carry you through difficult times you may encounter with your new love interest.
Let her know how much you love her right away, agree to move in, that's solid. Share bank accounts to show her how much you care and trust her. Get your truck put in her name as a way to make yourself vulnerable and transparent (they love that). If there's a way you can adopt her 7 kids from 6 previous relationships, I think you should do that, again, to show her you're all in and not just screwing around trying to take advantage of her amazing fake body.
Be sure you always offer to take the kids to the dentist and pick them up after school so she can go about her career and keep seeing that guy from the office uninterrupted. She'll need an evening or two a week to go out with the girls and "keep up appearances", you need to be big about it and fix the kids dinner and keep the diapers changed while she's gone. Maybe you could forego hunting season too, after all, you're being selfish wanting to spend so much time away from your new family. Aren't they awesome anyway? Be sure and tell her how much you love it all and that she and the kids are worth every minute of it. Oh look, there's another one, and you thought there was only 7. What a blessing precious little #8 will be!
When she's had a hard day at work or at the motel, you need to rub her feet (or her back) and keep the laundry up, you know, if momma ain't happy ain't nobody happy! You are paying all the bills right, because she needs her own money. A woman needs her own identity away from the responsibilities of being a great wife to you, which frankly, hasn't been that great a deal for her, admit it. You stink, you're grumpy, you constantly bitch about the kids ("you don't love them waaaaaa!") and she can't spend time out and on her back like she could when she was single.
Really, she needs to dump you, you're a real drag. But don't sweat it, the fire is here for you.
Partsman, you need to read this sheit ^^^^^, it's spot on man! Our man would be wise to heed such sage advice.
I think you should keep seeing her and post about it here. It'll have a calming influence and the sound advice you receive here will carry you through difficult times you may encounter with your new love interest.
Let her know how much you love her right away, agree to move in, that's solid. Share bank accounts to show her how much you care and trust her. Get your truck put in her name as a way to make yourself vulnerable and transparent (they love that). If there's a way you can adopt her 7 kids from 6 previous relationships, I think you should do that, again, to show her you're all in and not just screwing around trying to take advantage of her amazing fake body.
Be sure you always offer to take the kids to the dentist and pick them up after school so she can go about her career and keep seeing that guy from the office uninterrupted. She'll need an evening or two a week to go out with the girls and "keep up appearances", you need to be big about it and fix the kids dinner and keep the diapers changed while she's gone. Maybe you could forego hunting season too, after all, you're being selfish wanting to spend so much time away from your new family. Aren't they awesome anyway? Be sure and tell her how much you love it all and that she and the kids are worth every minute of it. Oh look, there's another one, and you thought there was only 7. What a blessing precious little #8 will be!
When she's had a hard day at work or at the motel, you need to rub her feet (or her back) and keep the laundry up, you know, if momma ain't happy ain't nobody happy! You are paying all the bills right, because she needs her own money. A woman needs her own identity away from the responsibilities of being a great wife to you, which frankly, hasn't been that great a deal for her, admit it. You stink, you're grumpy, you constantly bitch about the kids ("you don't love them waaaaaa!") and she can't spend time out and on her back like she could when she was single.
Really, she needs to dump you, you're a real drag. But don't sweat it, the fire is here for you.
Partsman, you need to read this sheit ^^^^^, it's spot on man! Our man would be wise to heed such sage advice.
I think you should keep seeing her and post about it here. It'll have a calming influence and the sound advice you receive here will carry you through difficult times you may encounter with your new love interest.
Let her know how much you love her right away, agree to move in, that's solid. Share bank accounts to show her how much you care and trust her. Get your truck put in her name as a way to make yourself vulnerable and transparent (they love that). If there's a way you can adopt her 7 kids from 6 previous relationships, I think you should do that, again, to show her you're all in and not just screwing around trying to take advantage of her amazing fake body.
Be sure you always offer to take the kids to the dentist and pick them up after school so she can go about her career and keep seeing that guy from the office uninterrupted. She'll need an evening or two a week to go out with the girls and "keep up appearances", you need to be big about it and fix the kids dinner and keep the diapers changed while she's gone. Maybe you could forego hunting season too, after all, you're being selfish wanting to spend so much time away from your new family. Aren't they awesome anyway? Be sure and tell her how much you love it all and that she and the kids are worth every minute of it. Oh look, there's another one, and you thought there was only 7. What a blessing precious little #8 will be!
When she's had a hard day at work or at the motel, you need to rub her feet (or her back) and keep the laundry up, you know, if momma ain't happy ain't nobody happy! You are paying all the bills right, because she needs her own money. A woman needs her own identity away from the responsibilities of being a great wife to you, which frankly, hasn't been that great a deal for her, admit it. You stink, you're grumpy, you constantly bitch about the kids ("you don't love them waaaaaa!") and she can't spend time out and on her back like she could when she was single.
Really, she needs to dump you, you're a real drag. But don't sweat it, the fire is here for you.
Partsman, you need to read this sheit ^^^^^, it's spot on man! Our man would be wise to heed such sage advice.
Oh man. I need to save this one! BTDT, though with only 1 kid, not 8. 😃😃
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
RUN!!!!!! Do not pass go, do not collect $200, do not stop to take a pee, run blindly into the night, and every day and night left in your life. She is NOT a keeper !
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
RUN!!!!!! Do not pass go, do not collect $200, do not stop to take a pee, run blindly into the night, and every day and night left in your life. She is NOT a keeper !
But how do you really feel about this?
P.S. Hope you had a Merry Christmas, and have a Happy New Year!
Are you kidding, it was awesome. Then I found out she put the toilet paper on backwards and I said "No way. Nuh uh. Not going there. I am so outa here. I do not have to put up with this sheit. You and Frank, Jim, Les, and Rich are going to miss me, you'll see."
And I left. (After I got her to sign off on the truck). I do miss my guns but hey, small price to pay. My paper rolls over the top now. Screw her.
This is the best time of year to be single. I try to manage from Thanksgiving through Valentines day. No gifts, no family visits, no BS holidays that you have to take her along to. Lots of parties, etc. Enjoy them alone. You will likely have more money at the end, and no relationship problems. Would rather be happy and single, than together and miserable.
If you're not interested in having kids, do yourself a favor and get the boys snipped!
Women seem to be progressing from crazy to scary these days.
Every married woman that gets fake tits always seem to be outbound on their marriage with the poor bastard that originally paid for them.
Someone who loves you from the beginning is one thing, but to want marriage after 2 weeks is another! Tread with caution, brother!
If your mom or sister are around, bring her over to spend time with them! If they say she's crazy as all hell, listen to them - only another woman knows how to detect the veils that woman use to cover up their craziness.
Good luck and please have the decency to start up a follow up thread!
One of the things I mentioned earlier can provide a glimpse into the psychological constitution. Ask what went wrong with their last long-term relationship. A woman who won't own any of the responsibility for the failure is giving you one of the warning signs. Some can hide it for a long time. You can leave others immediately and not totally escape the crazy.
i had this girlfriend in college in 1970. that is when i found out what a psycobitch was. one night she called my dorm room, i wouldn't pick up the phone, it rang for about three hours. Seven story dorm. she went and knocked on every door in the dorm looking for me. her brother who i am friends with a few years ago said i skated real big bullet.
Two weeks? And you don't think this is a reason for concern. All the poontang in the world ain't worth being shackled with Psychowoman. Run fast, run low, but mainly RUN! Two weeks and she's looking for a lifetime commitment is insane. Me thinks there's a few floats missing from her parade.
as I have been saying for years, there is nothing more exciting than a bi polar bed squirrel off her meds.
Move in with her, not the other way. Do not start giving her money, pay your way like a man should, no more. Sure it is her house, her rules. That may actually give you a head start in seeing how she would treat you.
Keep your place, a looong time.
Don't take anything you value with you. If things go totally to crap, you lose a few clothes, a pair of shoes and a toothbrush. You go home to your stuff, your bed in your house.
If she moves in with you, you could come home to an empty/trashed house. Her living in your house will give her a cess to your personal and financial info. In this area is is not unknown for a woman to call the cops on a guy, and he gets thrown out of his house for a couple of nights. Untill she makes other arrangements.
Back when we were in our late 30's, a buddy of mine got engaged to a chick after about 2 months of dating her. He had been playing the field up until then and he had never been married before. We had a long talk. They broke up a week later. I'm not sure if our talk had anything to do with it, but I'd like to think I saved his ass.
The LAST thing I'd do is ask a bunch of crusty old farts who haven't dated in 40 or 50 years for advice. Most of these guys forgot what a hardon is and still think puzzy has hair on it.
Move in with her, not the other way. Do not start giving her money, pay your way like a man should, no more. Sure it is her house, her rules. That may actually give you a head start in seeing how she would treat you. Keep your place, a looong time. Don't take anything you value with you. If things go totally to crap, you lose a few clothes, a pair of shoes and a toothbrush. You go home to your stuff, your bed in your house. If she moves in with you, you could come home to an empty/trashed house. Her living in your house will give her a cess to your personal and financial info. In this area is is not unknown for a woman to call the cops on a guy, and he gets thrown out of his house for a couple of nights. Untill she makes other arrangements.
If you do go this route, make sure she doesn't have the keys to your house. If she goes full blown psycho and you need to leave for your own place, change the locks anyway. She may have just gone and made a copy of your keys when you weren't looking.
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused. What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
Better not let this one slip away......maybe Rick will make it a sticky.....
They can be a lot of fun when they are auditioning, because in my experience once they hear "I do", they don't anymore. Honestly guys, from what I've seen there are a lot more guys out there with issues than there are women with issues. A good woman won't put up with the BS, and when they do find a good one, they want to latch on to them. Early on like a lot of you, I was just looking for a warm place to put it, but as you mature you can be a lot more discriminating. If you have something to bring to the table you are going to be in demand, so don't sell yourself short. A woman wants the security of having a good guy in her life, but it is a two way street. Sure it is going to take some compromise and why shouldn't it, she is 50% of the package too. Sweetness didn't want me up north hunting all the time either, so she kicked in $120,000. so that we could buy a house that we both liked next to a mile of hunting woods out the front door. Those kinds of women are out there and no good guy needs to settle. Life can be great with a good one, just adjust your picker. 52% of the population have girl parts, so that should not be that big an influence on your life picker. Compatibility counts.
Relationships are a dance, if ya skip steps, you'll fall down.
Some very good stuff here.. One of Elam's lines really hit me. "The degree of a man's mental health is directly related to his ability to say no to a woman" or something along those lines. I bookmarked his YouTube channel.
The bad news is that the Warhols got the worst of it.
The good news is that the Monet made it out unharmed.
Lindy Lou Layman, 29, has been charged with criminal mischief in Houston, Texas, after prosecutors say her first date with Anthony Buzbee, a prominent Texas attorney and collector of art, took a turn for the destructive on Dec. 23, KTRK reports.
Layman destroyed three original paintings and two abstract sculptures at Buzbee’s 12,000-square-foot mansion that evening, according to a criminal complaint, leaving at least $300,000 in damage. She tore the paintings off the wall, poured liquid on them and threw sculptures across the room, the complaint said.
She also pulled a Renoir and a Monet off the wall. Luckily those weren’t damaged.
Oh my gosh, this thread is hilarious! However I really I think I need to move away from where I live to find a woman that will pay for half of my dream house on a large plot of land that I can hunt on.
...Uhhh... good barrister is at least an oxymoron...
Well, I could have referred to him as "Esquire", which according to my lawyer friends, is the same as a public announcement that the person claiming that title is an unbridled azzhole.
Calling someone "my good man" or "my good lady" is akin to the old southern expression "well bless your heart". IOW, "phuque you".
Alwaysoutdoors: MANY years ago (55+ years ago!) one of my uncles opined to me that the one thing in life he had learned for sure was "if it has tires or tits on it you'll eventually have troubles with it"! For the very most part he has been proven right. I will say this though, the VarmintWife and I have been together for nearly 45 years and we get along great still. I say give her another chance but let her know you indeed want to take it slower. Best of luck to you. Hold into the wind VarmintGuy
The bad news is that the Warhols got the worst of it.
The good news is that the Monet made it out unharmed.
Lindy Lou Layman, 29, has been charged with criminal mischief in Houston, Texas, after prosecutors say her first date with Anthony Buzbee, a prominent Texas attorney and collector of art, took a turn for the destructive on Dec. 23, KTRK reports.
Layman destroyed three original paintings and two abstract sculptures at Buzbee’s 12,000-square-foot mansion that evening, according to a criminal complaint, leaving at least $300,000 in damage. She tore the paintings off the wall, poured liquid on them and threw sculptures across the room, the complaint said.
She also pulled a Renoir and a Monet off the wall. Luckily those weren’t damaged.
She should do a FEW years in prison - hard labor - and have to pay back every red cent owed for the damage .
Advance slowly with this one. Sounds like the "Stage 5 Clinger".
My buddy had one some 10 years ago. Same kinda deal. She was "in love" and wanted to move in before his dick was dry from the first bang.
She was in his house within 3 weeks. He thought he'd "help her out" because she was low on income and it makes sense". I kept warning him about how she was acting. Our other friends didn't want to "stick their noses in". He kept saying "don't think outside the box" (meaning her box).
A real b!tch. She was doing her damn best to drive his friends away, and keep him home. She was oh-so-sweet when he was around, but very confrontational and insulting to his friends as soon as he was out of earshot. Everyone but him saw it.
One night we were over for a BBQ. To her it was "our fridge", "our couch" "our this-and-that". She'd been in all of a month. Maybe.
I went to give his lab a chip. She says "oh, we don't feed our dog people food". I said "oh really....cause I've known this dog from a pup, and that's not the case". It went on for a bit with her getting increasingly bitchy when he was back in the house out of ear shot. When one of us would say something she'd say "don't interrupt me". I finally said "I don't know who you think you are, but you don't talk to his friends like we are children". She starts yelling "I will NOT be talked to like that IN MY HOUSE". Says I.... "listen b!tch, he has owned and worked on this house for 20 years. You showing up out of nowhere, falling on your back and spreading your legs in this house does not make it your house!"
Oooh boy, it was on then.
Wasn't long after....maybe 6 months.....he'd had more than enough of her chit, and tried to get her out. Crazy ch!t. He'd walk in the door, put his things away and head for the shower, and she'd have head in his lap smelling for snatch. No kidding. If he dared step out for a drink with the guys, she was all over his azz. She wouldn't leave. She said she had "established domicile, and if you want me out, you have to evict me". He got a lawyer. On advice of his lawyer and after a month or so of effort, he ultimately paid her $10k cash to leave (instead of going through the eviction process).
One night he called me over to help him change locks on some interior doors and garage. First time I'd been back in the house since that night. That b!tch was crazy as I'd rarely ever seen.
He did finally get her out, but not before one of her rage sessions where neighbors called the police. The showed up, and my bud is sitting on the couch. They ask him what happened, and he told them. She was losing her chit. They saw the gunsafe in the corner, and asked him if there were guns in it. He replied there were. They told him he had to open the safe so they could remove the firearms from the house because this was a "domestic disturbance". He refused. They told him to open it, or they'd have a search and seizure warrant there in the hour, along with a locksmith who would "break it if he has to" to get in. He relented. He did not get all of his guns back for almost a year. Had to "prove ownership" on several of them which were handed down by his father. Once he got them back, they were all rusted to chit, to include his Smith 41, and a very sweet Colt 1911 his father gave him.
All over "the box".
Nah, man. Smart, confident, independent and strong women DO NOT act like that. They take their time to see what they are getting into before they leap. If they are NOT those things, they can get clingy FAST. And it's best to avoid them. Let her know this is moving too fast. Her reaction to that will tell much of the story.
Like I tell my son...."even the crazy ones can stand on their head for months and appear normal and perfect....until they've got their hooks in you. But I've yet to meet a bad one that made the one year mark without showing their true colors. Tread cautiously during this period.
my buddy hooked up with a psycho bitch 25 years ago when his first wife went nuts and left him with 2 little kids. this bitch moved in within a month or so and it was "my house", "my kids", etc real fast. she tried to pressure him into getting his vasectomy reversed but thankfully he didn't have the money. long story short, she's still there, her name is on the deed to the house his dad gave him and he spends a lot of time at the bar. a LOT of time. she drove a wedge between him and his friends, including me and he is a beaten man and she has a schit eating grin while tooling around town in the cars he buys her. she is truly fuggen evil.
oh and the kids grew up ok, hate her and rarely visit him anymore.
Thanks for all the advice. I knew I could count the on the Fire.
I guess I'm just meeting the real crazy ones lately. Hopefully 2018 is a less crazy woman kinda year .
I don't know how old you are, but you haven't seen crazy 'til they hit menopause..........
I think that was an issue with my ex. She was in her late 40s when we were involved. She was also a Denver city girl and business executive. What a jug f!@# that was.
Alwaysoutdoors, all the sheit going back and forth between you and I, I'm telling you straight up as a man, two weeks is not enough, and the fact that you want to move in with her tells me you have some issues being objective, (no offense!). You need to put some space between you and let your head clear. I'm sure based on your posting that you'll be alright but man you gotta clear your head. You need a few weeks. Trying to help you stay outa trouble brother. PM anytime.
Alwaysoutdoors, all the sheit going back and forth between you and I, I'm telling you straight up as a man, two weeks is not enough, and the fact that you want to move in with her tells me you have some issues being objective, (no offense!). You need to put some space between you and let your head clear. I'm sure based on your posting that you'll be alright but man you gotta clear your head. You need a few weeks. Trying to help you stay outa trouble brother. PM anytime.
For the record, my immediate response to her in love, let’s get married talk was that we don’t know each other. But after a while longer I may stay at her place some because she’s tall, brand new fake boobies, can cook like mutherfugher, is a pleaser (wink,wink). There’s really no downside. I’m sure as hell not getting married anytime soon unless she starts buying me guns. Hahaha
Edit: she’s also OCD about cleaning so all I gotta do is go to work, come home and be nice. It sound like a nice change from the usual.
Alwaysoutdoors, all the sheit going back and forth between you and I, I'm telling you straight up as a man, two weeks is not enough, and the fact that you want to move in with her tells me you have some issues being objective, (no offense!). You need to put some space between you and let your head clear. I'm sure based on your posting that you'll be alright but man you gotta clear your head. You need a few weeks. Trying to help you stay outa trouble brother. PM anytime.
Alwaysoutdoors, all the sheit going back and forth between you and I, I'm telling you straight up as a man, two weeks is not enough, and the fact that you want to move in with her tells me you have some issues being objective, (no offense!). You need to put some space between you and let your head clear. I'm sure based on your posting that you'll be alright but man you gotta clear your head. You need a few weeks. Trying to help you stay outa trouble brother. PM anytime.
For the record, There’s really no downside.
Yer screwed.
This. OP, sounds to me like you made up your mind before you started the thread.Good luck, buddy.
For the record, my immediate response to her in love, let’s get married talk was that we don’t know each other. But after a while longer I may stay at her place some because she’s tall, brand new fake boobies, can cook like mutherfugher, is a pleaser (wink,wink). There’s really no downside. I’m sure as hell not getting married anytime soon unless she starts buying me guns. Hahaha
Edit: she’s also OCD about cleaning so all I gotta do is go to work, come home and be nice. It sound like a nice change from the usual.
Alwaysoutdoors, all the sheit going back and forth between you and I, I'm telling you straight up as a man, two weeks is not enough, and the fact that you want to move in with her tells me you have some issues being objective, (no offense!). You need to put some space between you and let your head clear. I'm sure based on your posting that you'll be alright but man you gotta clear your head. You need a few weeks. Trying to help you stay outa trouble brother. PM anytime.
For the record, my immediate response to her in love, let’s get married talk was that we don’t know each other. But after a while longer I may stay at her place some because she’s tall, brand new fake boobies, can cook like mutherfugher, is a pleaser (wink,wink). There’s really no downside. I’m sure as hell not getting married anytime soon unless she starts buying me guns. Hahaha
Edit: she’s also OCD about cleaning so all I gotta do is go to work, come home and be nice. It sound like a nice change from the usual.
Is this your way of saying she does anal?
That's cute the way you make it sound like she has a choice.
Alwaysoutdoors, all the sheit going back and forth between you and I, I'm telling you straight up as a man, two weeks is not enough, and the fact that you want to move in with her tells me you have some issues being objective, (no offense!). You need to put some space between you and let your head clear. I'm sure based on your posting that you'll be alright but man you gotta clear your head. You need a few weeks. Trying to help you stay outa trouble brother. PM anytime.
For the record, my immediate response to her in love, let’s get married talk was that we don’t know each other. But after a while longer I may stay at her place some because she’s tall, brand new fake boobies, can cook like mutherfugher, is a pleaser (wink,wink). There’s really no downside. I’m sure as hell not getting married anytime soon unless she starts buying me guns. Hahaha
Edit: she’s also OCD about cleaning so all I gotta do is go to work, come home and be nice. It sound like a nice change from the usual.
alwaysoutdoors, your girlfriend sounds like fun. Take it slowly, be careful, and you should make out alright. That being said every woman is a bit crazy it's a matter of how crazy.
Always Outdoors, Thanks for the entertainment, but please listen to Fireballer's advice and take heed. He is a stable, upright, fabulous Christian man that has been a wonderful example to fire members everywhere. Check his old posts and you will surely see the goodness, mercy and love that oozes from every post. From past experience, I am sure he prayed, fasted and spoke in tongues before giving you the life guidance you needed to not fail. He works overtime to pattern his life after the big guy. You should be honored that he has dispensed his godly life plan to you and I pray that you will heed his words. You should not be engaging in premarital relations, but let he who is without sin cast the first condom. Have a nice evening and if you have any nudies of this middle age, big boobed, fat chick please PM them to Ringman. He's a weight watchers counselor. I think.
For the record, my immediate response to her in love, let’s get married talk was that we don’t know each other. But after a while longer I may stay at her place some because she’s tall, brand new fake boobies, can cook like mutherfugher, is a pleaser (wink,wink). There’s really no downside. I’m sure as hell not getting married anytime soon unless she starts buying me guns. Hahaha
Edit: she’s also OCD about cleaning so all I gotta do is go to work, come home and be nice. It sound like a nice change from the usual.
I got a chill reading that. Dejavu all over again. First gun was 4 months in.
Alwaysoutdoors, all the sheit going back and forth between you and I, I'm telling you straight up as a man, two weeks is not enough, and the fact that you want to move in with her tells me you have some issues being objective, (no offense!). You need to put some space between you and let your head clear. I'm sure based on your posting that you'll be alright but man you gotta clear your head. You need a few weeks. Trying to help you stay outa trouble brother. PM anytime.
Always Outdoors, Thanks for the entertainment, but please listen to Fireballer's advice and take heed. He is a stable, upright, fabulous Christian man that has been a wonderful example to fire members everywhere. Check his old posts and you will surely see the goodness, mercy and love that oozes from every post. From past experience, I am sure he prayed, fasted and spoke in tongues before giving you the life guidance you needed to not fail. He works overtime to pattern his life after the big guy. You should be honored that he has dispensed his godly life plan to you and I pray that you will heed his words. You should not be engaging in premarital relations, but let he who is without sin cast the first condom. Have a nice evening and if you have any nudies of this middle age, big boobed, fat chick please PM them to Ringman. He's a weight watchers counselor. I think.
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
RUN!!!!!! Do not pass go, do not collect $200, do not stop to take a pee, run blindly into the night, and every day and night left in your life. She is NOT a keeper !
Lynn,
you are not considering AOD... regardless of who or what this gal is.... she's an improvement over what he's had the last 10 years... seems to me, she would be the one taking a chance... not AOD...
but then again, if this fails... he's always got Rosie Palm and her 5 sisters ready and waiting..
She sounds like the better of the two......
but why am I not surprised....
Seems he found her 'running blindly into the night....' I'd wager it involved alcohol.. and lots of it.. at a real classy bar... 5 miles up a dirt road...
The bad news is that the Warhols got the worst of it.
The good news is that the Monet made it out unharmed.
Lindy Lou Layman, 29, has been charged with criminal mischief in Houston, Texas, after prosecutors say her first date with Anthony Buzbee, a prominent Texas attorney and collector of art, took a turn for the destructive on Dec. 23, KTRK reports.
Layman destroyed three original paintings and two abstract sculptures at Buzbee’s 12,000-square-foot mansion that evening, according to a criminal complaint, leaving at least $300,000 in damage. She tore the paintings off the wall, poured liquid on them and threw sculptures across the room, the complaint said.
She also pulled a Renoir and a Monet off the wall. Luckily those weren’t damaged.
She should do a FEW years in prison - hard labor - and have to pay back every red cent owed for the damage .
Sounds to me the lawyer got exactly the type of girl he was looking for...
he just didn't anticipate she'd get violent...
the article didn't exactly say what lit her fuse.. and him being an attorney, a rich one at that.. well I am sure he's a social winner also...
I'm sure most of you boys have no idea who Ernie Larsen is...
but I use to listen and attend some of his lectures back in MN...
One of the things he said in a presentation, I think applies her to this situation..
"one can walk into an event, that has 30 people, 300 people or 3000 people attending it...and you can bank on it every single time...If you are dysfunctional, no matter what your dysfunction is....you'll meet the only other person there whose dysfunction plugs right into your dysfunction.... its like beacons in the night"...
yeah, I am sure it describes AOD and his dream girl...
guy who hasn't dated for 10 years, finds a counterpoint, who wants to "fall in love" and get married after 2 weeks... that translates from the language of love, into the language of English... " I'm needy as hell, and I'll do anything to get you to think otherwise because you strike me as stupid enough to fall for it..." not dating for 10 years.. I'm sure as soon as she found that out, she knew she had found her pigeon... and she knew exactly what to do.. the same thing that had worked a dozen times or more before, for her..
I look forward to the follow up thread in 90 days or so... it'll even be a better Dear Abbey thread than this one is...
The bad news is that the Warhols got the worst of it.
The good news is that the Monet made it out unharmed.
Lindy Lou Layman, 29, has been charged with criminal mischief in Houston, Texas, after prosecutors say her first date with Anthony Buzbee, a prominent Texas attorney and collector of art, took a turn for the destructive on Dec. 23, KTRK reports.
Layman destroyed three original paintings and two abstract sculptures at Buzbee’s 12,000-square-foot mansion that evening, according to a criminal complaint, leaving at least $300,000 in damage. She tore the paintings off the wall, poured liquid on them and threw sculptures across the room, the complaint said.
She also pulled a Renoir and a Monet off the wall. Luckily those weren’t damaged.
She should do a FEW years in prison - hard labor - and have to pay back every red cent owed for the damage .
Sounds to me the lawyer got exactly the type of girl he was looking for...
he just didn't anticipate she'd get violent...
the article didn't exactly say what lit her fuse.. and him being an attorney, a rich one at that.. well I am sure he's a social winner also...
Sounds like the two deserved each other....
You're very likely right , it's just that people who often times ain't got squat seem to love to destroy other peoples stuff .
I worked with a guy years ago , offshore drilling , he found a fast mover woman , ball of fire type . She wanted to move in with him immediately , he told me about her on the Rig , well she calls him while on duty at work . He's away 7 days at a time , anyway she's begging to move in NOW so he relents and is trying to contact his Mom to let her in . Another phone call from her stating her brother jimmied the door [broke in] and she was in and there . Now calling Long Distance to the Rig constantly .
Anyway he got home -they were partying at a rough kind of place that she wanted to go to - a real biker bar , bandito bikers there were a bunch of them around biloxi .
She gets boozed up starts partying with bikers and wants her and him to go off partying with the bandito's -NOPE- he said -she tells him she's going with them . She doesn't make it home before time for him to leave to go back to work . Her stuff was packed sitting at the front door . but she never came for it because her body was dumped out somewhere beaten and raped and dead . He went through attorney fees - all kind of stuff until they finally found the bikers who did it etc. 3 of them convicted od murder , about 1984ish .
Alwaysoutdoors this was just a story I threw in here , not directing it towards your circumstance .
I'm sure most of you boys have no idea who Ernie Larsen is...
but I use to listen and attend some of his lectures back in MN...
One of the things he said in a presentation, I think applies her to this situation..
"one can walk into an event, that has 30 people, 300 people or 3000 people attending it...and you can bank on it every single time...If you are dysfunctional, no matter what your dysfunction is....you'll meet the only other person there whose dysfunction plugs right into your dysfunction.... its like beacons in the night"...
yeah, I am sure it describes AOD and his dream girl...
guy who hasn't dated for 10 years, finds a counterpoint, who wants to "fall in love" and get married after 2 weeks... that translates from the language of love, into the language of English... " I'm needy as hell, and I'll do anything to get you to think otherwise because you strike me as stupid enough to fall for it..." not dating for 10 years.. I'm sure as soon as she found that out, she knew she had found her pigeon... and she knew exactly what to do.. the same thing that had worked a dozen times or more before, for her..
I look forward to the follow up thread in 90 days or so... it'll even be a better Dear Abbey thread than this one is...
Lectures in Minnesota? That about sums it up.
Don’t you and Roy have a date ? Oh wait ,you just got home from it.
Pardon me for saying that you may have found a GEM of a woman (though I wouldn't bet on it). - It's FAR more likely that you've found "something quite different".
Let me tell you my story briefly:
I met my beloved "Vickie K." at an antique glass show in Dallas in May 1983. ( She asked me to pass her an antique vase off a high shelf.) - I turned around & saw the MOST beautiful girl that I'd ever seen & "fell headfirst into" her utterly lovely violet-colored eyes. When I finally got my breath again, I asked her out for coffee. (She said YES.). - We talked for 3-4 hours at a coffee-shop in Dallas & then I asked her out to dinner. (She said, YES.) FOUR days later I finally went home (I was at that time on 10 days annual leave & my leave was up the next day.), as she had to go to NY & then to Paris on a modeling shoot. (She employed as a top fashion model with Elite Models of NYC.) She said, "I cannot stand being without you. Can you come to Paris with me?? - My treat." (As I was on active duty, I said, "No way can I get off on short notice. Soldiers cannot 'just go places' like that, no matter how romantic that going to Paris with you sounds.")
She went to NY & then Paris & came home about 3 weeks later, to tell me that she was "Head over heels in love." & wanted to get married. (I told her that, "I'm in love too. - Let's see how we feel in 6 months." ====> She said, "OK" & she spent every available minute with me, flying out for a few days, as often as she could get away to TX from wherever she was working.)
Because I went TWICE on a long "TDY" (OCONUS), we got married 14 months later, instead of in 6 months. - Vickie owned a house in Dallas & we split our time between her house & my (leased) townhouse in Killeen, TX. - We were extremely happy for about 2 years, until she said that she had "missed 2 periods" & thought that she was probably pregnant. = When she went to her first OB-GYN appointment, the doctor found that she was about 2 months along AND that he also found that she had ACUTE PROGRANULOCYTIC LEUKEMIA. (Five months & 4 days later, I lost my angel & our unborn daughter. - TRUST ME, dying from Leukemia isn't at all like Erich Segal's famous book/movie, LOVE STORY. = It isn't at all "pretty"; The patient doesn't just fall asleep one day like "Jenny Cavalleri" did in the movie. Instead, that five months was AWFUL for both of us, with 3 rounds of chemo, whole-body radiation & 2 bone-marrow transplants.- She was six days from her 30th birthday, at the time of her passing.) "VK" has been gone now for >3 decades but I still think of her, WITH PURE LOVE, every day.,
I told you all that to tell you this: You just MAY have found YOUR "Angel walking on Earth" but you MAY have met a CRAZY woman or even a DANGEROUS LUNATIC. ======> My sincere advice: GO SLOW, buddy. GO SLOW, as things don't always turn out the way that you want.
Nonetheless, I wish you (and possibly the 2 of you) WELL.
SORRY to hear that. BUT you are LUCKY (imVho) to find that out before you're "in too deep". - BETTER to find out NOW, than "find out the HARD WAY", in 6 months or a year.
After my divorce in 2013 I decided it would be smart to be more selective in my dating, so tried dating professional women. I soon found this means "lawyers"... seems single female doctors and accountants are rare, but there's a LOT of lawyer gals out on the market. Anyways, long story short, I dated a string of lawyer gals, and pretty much all of 'em were crazy. Fun for a short time, but the batscjtt was strong in ever one of 'em. Also, a couple of 'em were married but didn't bother to tell me until we after we had bumped uglies.
After my divorce in 2013 I decided it would be smart to be more selective in my dating, so tried dating professional women. I soon found this man's "lawyers"... seems single female doctors and accountants are rare, but there's a LOT of lawyer gals out on the market. Anyways, long story short, I dated a string of lawyer gals, and pretty much all of 'em were crazy. Fun for a short time, but the batscjtt was strong in ever one of 'em. Also, a couple of 'em were married but didn't bother to tell me until we after we had bumped uglies.
Speaking of careers...
I have a fondness for nurses. Something about their very nurturing nature that pushes them to become nurses in the first place.
But, I'm sure you wouldn't know anything about that...
Hammer away but keep things separate in case it goes sour. Don't buy anything together that you aren't willing to give away. Keep a back-up plan because they all do. Is she the jealous type? Some that cling right away can be overbearing and show their crazy once the initial spark burns out. Maybe you just hit the jackpot. Be cautious and careful.
100% SPOT ON. = In many ways, women are SMARTER & more SCHEMING than men are in relationships.
One thing that tells a smart guy that's she's NOT "head over heels" over you is if she does her hair, makeup & dresses to suit her girlfriends, instead of the way that you prefer. Also, IF she doesn't always wear the jewelry that you bought her: BEWARE. (My Darla no longer cuts her hair, is growing it down to long enough to sit upon & is NEVER seen outside the house W/O full makeup & her jade bracelet/necklace, as she KNOWS that I like for her to look that way.)
My thing seems to be that once I see that I am being taken advantage of, things tend to go off the tracks right then and there. When I am paying all the mortgage, paying all the money to maintain the house, it is my house. Not our house! Just because they are giving up the booty, does not make up for the fact that they are paying for nothing to live there. Cooking meals, cleaning, laundry, etc, are all things that I can do myself, appreciate their efforts in all of that, but it does not make the house partly theirs, or my truck partly theirs. Also when you are busting your ass on 12 hour days at work, and you find out that they are cutting shifts or not going to work at all to run around and do this or that, or to go hang out with this person or that person, then at the end of the month, they cannot pay their own bills, and they are either asking you and/ or expecting you to help them out, I tend to have issues. Because when things have gotten tight and I needed money, they look at you like you are a worthless piece of trash because you cannot afford or will not spend any money on them, I sold countless guns to come up with money to just get by, things that I never wanted to sell, and no offers from them to step up and help out. I cannot look at someone and cherish that person when they have no interest in rolling up their sleeves and helping out. You know what , screw that! I will remain single in my own house that I pay for my own [bleep], and continue to rebuild my collection of guns, and the stuff that makes me happy.
I am not the savior they are seeking, nor am I the step in , step up daddy either. 50 / 50 or nothing!
100% CORRECT.= For any relationship to work long-term, I believe that everything should be shared. Finances/chores/cooking/pastimes/everything. =====> Share & share alike works for me. (My current lady makes a LOT more money than I do & is good at splitting expenses, especially when it comes to "luxury items".)
Oh, then on top of that, you get a text message one day " I think we should get married" then "here is a picture of the ring I want" . I look it up, it has a $10,000 dollar price tag. Then "I think we should go to Jamaica for the honey moon, the trip is only $9,000 dollars". Then: "I want to be married in less than a year"
After my divorce in 2013 I decided it would be smart to be more selective in my dating, so tried dating professional women. I soon found this means "lawyers"... seems single female doctors and accountants are rare, but there's a LOT of lawyer gals out on the market. Anyways, long story short, I dated a string of lawyer gals, and pretty much all of 'em were crazy. Fun for a short time, but the batscjtt was strong in ever one of 'em. Also, a couple of 'em were married but didn't bother to tell me until we after we had bumped uglies.
Pretty much guaranteed that when a woman puts aside her personal life for her career, by the time she hit's her 40's she's going to be the nastiest sullen vindictive bitch you'll ever meet. Throw a divorce in the mix and look the f@#! out.
My wife's professional experience is that the majority of lawyers are bitches and [bleep].
I have met a few female attorneys that are nice women, happen to be married to one. To a woman they married at the beginning of their career, raised a family and stay married. They are normal women who happen to practice law. But those that identify as lawyers, there is a good reason for the stereotype.
After my divorce in 2013 I decided it would be smart to be more selective in my dating, so tried dating professional women. I soon found this means "lawyers"... seems single female doctors and accountants are rare, but there's a LOT of lawyer gals out on the market. Anyways, long story short, I dated a string of lawyer gals, and pretty much all of 'em were crazy. Fun for a short time, but the batscjtt was strong in ever one of 'em. Also, a couple of 'em were married but didn't bother to tell me until we after we had bumped uglies.
I made mistake of dating one in early 40's who chose career over family. Feminism sure has screwwed up a lot of women who believed the myth of career vs family. Many bitter professional women in 40's and 50's who never chose children over their career
I had a former female attorney girlfriend crawl through my bedroom window at 2 in the morning drunk. This was a month after I broke it off because she was craaaaazy.
A friend dated a female attorney at work in our legal department. I warned him about her. Anyway he broke it off and it got bad at work and they ended up firing her and escorting her out of office, She came in during the weekend, must of still had a key, and took a big dump on his desk and left a note.
Lindy Lou Layman, 29, has been charged with criminal mischief in Houston, Texas, after prosecutors say her first date with Anthony Buzbee, a prominent Texas attorney and collector of art, took a turn for the destructive on Dec. 23, KTRK reports.
Layman destroyed three original paintings and two abstract sculptures at Buzbee’s 12,000-square-foot mansion that evening, according to a criminal complaint, leaving at least $300,000 in damage. She tore the paintings off the wall, poured liquid on them and threw sculptures across the room, the complaint said.
She also pulled a Renoir and a Monet off the wall. Luckily those weren’t damaged.
She should do a FEW years in prison - hard labor - and have to pay back every red cent owed for the damage .
Sounds to me the lawyer got exactly the type of girl he was looking for...
he just didn't anticipate she'd get violent...
the article didn't exactly say what lit her fuse.. and him being an attorney, a rich one at that.. well I am sure he's a social winner also...
Sounds like the two deserved each other....
Your very likely right , it's just that people who often times ain't got squat seem to love to destroy other peoples stuff .
Oh I am sure she was a methhead.. doper etc...
Those kind of people never have any sense of value... they never had to earn anything, much less take care of it...
kinda like the liberal leftist types... good at spending other people's money...
Mr Attorney got what he deserved... and so did she...
I'm sure most of you boys have no idea who Ernie Larsen is...
but I use to listen and attend some of his lectures back in MN...
One of the things he said in a presentation, I think applies her to this situation..
"one can walk into an event, that has 30 people, 300 people or 3000 people attending it...and you can bank on it every single time...If you are dysfunctional, no matter what your dysfunction is....you'll meet the only other person there whose dysfunction plugs right into your dysfunction.... its like beacons in the night"...
yeah, I am sure it describes AOD and his dream girl...
guy who hasn't dated for 10 years, finds a counterpoint, who wants to "fall in love" and get married after 2 weeks... that translates from the language of love, into the language of English... " I'm needy as hell, and I'll do anything to get you to think otherwise because you strike me as stupid enough to fall for it..." not dating for 10 years.. I'm sure as soon as she found that out, she knew she had found her pigeon... and she knew exactly what to do.. the same thing that had worked a dozen times or more before, for her..
I look forward to the follow up thread in 90 days or so... it'll even be a better Dear Abbey thread than this one is...
Lectures in Minnesota? That about sums it up.
Don’t you and Roy have a date ? Oh wait ,you just got home from it.
Sorry to hit a nerve...
But then HoMo fantasies.. probably explain why you haven't been on a date in 10 years....
Then again, I can see why Dear Abby, didn't answer you, so you Dear Abby'ed the campfire...
and lets take notes... MN and Oregon Bad.... Thinks someone from Tennessee with a Blue Collar TRailer Park attitude.. and asking Dear Abby Advise about some gal who he met in a bar two weeks ago...on the internet...
just making sure I didn't miss anything...
Personally I think you and Ms Godzilla in a woman's body need to hook up for a long term 90 to 120 day relationship... it will be the basis for you getting thru the next 10 years.. just you, Rosie Palm and her 5 sisters.. but hey, you don't have to worry about Child Support...
Sober up.. and maybe it will all be a little clearer to ya...
Life can be great with a good one, just adjust your picker. 52% of the population have girl parts, so that should not be that big an influence on your life picker. Compatibility counts.
be careful, because many of that 52% used to have guy parts.
To the best of my knowledge, yes. But apparently a lot of women don't know that. When I ride my cycle cross-country I wear leathers, and it's a rare trip where I don't get at least one gal in a bar or restaurant chattily remarking about my "assless" chaps. It got so bad in Wisconsin I started wearing jeans under my chaps... women... sheesh...
To the best of my knowledge, yes. But apparently a lot of women don't know that. When I ride my cycle cross-country I wear leathers, and it's a rare trip where I don't get at least one gal in a bar or restaurant chattily remarking about my "assess" chaps. It got so bad in Wisconsin I started wearing jeans under my chaps... women... sheesh...
For the record, I have never dated a nurse in my life. I screwed around with one briefly for a time, though. Never again. There's something in the DNA of nurses that is like kryptonite to my dick...
Cooking meals, cleaning, laundry, etc, are all things that I can do myself, appreciate their efforts in all of that, but it does not make the house partly theirs, or my truck partly theirs.
Exactly, those things do not make the house partly theirs. The Judge does.
Two weeks? And you don't think this is a reason for concern. All the poontang in the world ain't worth being shackled with Psychowoman. Run fast, run low, but mainly RUN! Two weeks and she's looking for a lifetime commitment is insane. Me thinks there's a few floats missing from her parade.
as I have been saying for years, there is nothing more exciting than a bi polar bed squirrel off her meds.
Good Lord. What i would have given to have that told to me in 1970, so very true.
Your very likely right , it's just that people who often times ain't got squat seem to love to destroy other peoples stuff .
Oh I am sure she was a methhead.. doper etc...
Those kind of people never have any sense of value... they never had to earn anything, much less take care of it...
kinda like the liberal leftist types... good at spending other people's money...
Mr Attorney got what he deserved... and so did she...
Holly came from Miami, F.L.A. Hitch-hiked her way across the U.S.A. Plucked her eyebrows on the way Shaved her legs and then he was a she She says, "Hey, babe, Take a walk on the wild side." Said, "Hey, honey, Take a walk on the wild side."
Your very likely right , it's just that people who often times ain't got squat seem to love to destroy other peoples stuff .
Oh I am sure she was a methhead.. doper etc...
Those kind of people never have any sense of value... they never had to earn anything, much less take care of it...
kinda like the liberal leftist types... good at spending other people's money...
Mr Attorney got what he deserved... and so did she...
Holly came from Miami, F.L.A. Hitch-hiked her way across the U.S.A. Plucked her eyebrows on the way Shaved her legs and then he was a she She says, "Hey, babe, Take a walk on the wild side." Said, "Hey, honey, Take a walk on the wild side."
Careful Ethan.. you may be talking about the future Mrs AOD....
having not had a woman in 10 years, he might get a little offended there...
In my young/wild/single days, I lived near a LARGE general hospital & went out with a LARGE number of "ladies in white".
My experience was that RNs love sex and MOST are QUICK to get nekkid at the drop of a hat. = Of course that was in the wild/wooley 1960s & most everyone that I knew back then was playing "musical beds". (One trick that I often used was to NOT make a move on them even after the 2nd/3rd date. = YL cannot stand being ignored, in my experience.)
I was a paramedic at a hospital in the eighties and nineties. Small town in central Georgia. My word! Some of those RNs did not behave as Southern Ladies, even on the first date! Yes those nurses are some wild girls I had some real good times with them. Not many men working at a hospital it is a target-rich environment.
I didn't bother to read 17 pages of comments but if you don't run now you might as well buy her a house and give her half your [bleep]. Put on your running shoes!
In 1969-71, I resided IN the Nurse's BOQ at an Army Hospital in USAREUR. = Out of 5 floors of "itty bitty" apartments, there were 2 other males in our building & they were both unmarried/male RNs. (The 3 of us had LOTS of fun, playing with the nurses & a couple of single teachers..)
I ran into a few DOD teachers overseas, too. Most of them weren't that good looking and their personalities seemed a bit off. Rather a strange lot, in my experience. The nurses were a lot more fun to be around.
Alwaysoutdoors, all the sheit going back and forth between you and I, I'm telling you straight up as a man, two weeks is not enough, and the fact that you want to move in with her tells me you have some issues being objective, (no offense!). You need to put some space between you and let your head clear. I'm sure based on your posting that you'll be alright but man you gotta clear your head. You need a few weeks. Trying to help you stay outa trouble brother. PM anytime.
For the record, my immediate response to her in love, let’s get married talk was that we don’t know each other. But after a while longer I may stay at her place some because she’s tall, brand new fake boobies, can cook like mutherfugher, is a pleaser (wink,wink). There’s really no downside. I’m sure as hell not getting married anytime soon unless she starts buying me guns. Hahaha
Edit: she’s also OCD about cleaning so all I gotta do is go to work, come home and be nice. It sound like a nice change from the usual.
Something to remember is that when she cleans up around your stuff, you won’t be able to find half of it.
One of the 2 DoD teachers was a HOT & about 25YO REDHEAD (Don't tell my lady but I have a "thing" for HOT-looking redheads.) & the other teacher was "hard to look at". (.500 is a VERY good batting-average in BB.)
Sadly, the Redhead wouldn't "give me the time of day". =!@#$%! (I heard after I returned to CONUS that she met/married a BG/0-7 but don't know that is fact.)
I haven’t dated in 10 years. I met a woman two weeks ago . We went out on a handful of dates. Now she fell in love,wants to get married and be together forever. What happened to keep going on dates and see how things go? I’m confused.
What am I missing here? I’m thinking she’s got issues.
. First dates and she is nuts and you think you are going to hit the perfect one on the first test. LOL. Women are the best thing in the world and I think I picked the best one ever. Glad I don't have to try that again. LOL
never have had a crazy girlfriend. my first wife and i are still good friends, hell whenever i'm in alice tx i can stop her home and she will make lunch. her husband on the other hand don't like it.
Here in The Alamo City, "BMW" as a abbreviation (unless you mean the car brand) is: BIG MEXICAN WOMAN, who looks as though she weighs about as much as the average Buick.
I know a fellow over in Southside SA who is married to a lady that must weigh at least 500# & she's about 5' tall (or rather: 5 feet SHORT)
Here in The Alamo City, "BMW" as a abbreviation (unless you mean the car brand) is: BIG MEXICAN WOMAN, who looks as though she weighs about as much as the average Buick.
I know a fellow over in Southside SA who is married to a lady that must weigh at least 500# & she's about 5' tall (or rather: 5 feet SHORT)
I spend a lot of time in the San Antonio area, driving around in the big rig. Those Latina gals are real cute when they are young, but in their late twenties, too many quesidillas I guess, they all turn to fat. Got a figure like an Irish potato.
I was a paramedic at a hospital in the eighties and nineties. Small town in central Georgia. My word! Some of those RNs did not behave as Southern Ladies, even on the first date! Yes those nurses are some wild girls I had some real good times with them. Not many men working at a hospital it is a target-rich environment.
Lots of x-ray techs and lab techs, also.
Had a friend say he got so many BJ's in janitor closets he got a hard on from the smell of Pinesol. When I went to PM school in the 80's they were over it. The PM program was about 15 years old by then.
LIKELY SO. ====> My grandfather used to say, "NEVER ask a skinny person where to eat, 'cause they don't know."
My grandfather was born on 02MAR1873 on the Texas Prairie, when foodstuffs could be scarce. Therefore, he used to also say, "If you get a chance to eat a full-size man's meal, best eat it even if you aren't hungry, as it might be a long spell till you get another chance to have one."
Btw, he survived the last Comanchero Murder & Slave-taking Raid into NETX on 08MAY1873, as a "babe at the breast". = THE FRANKLIN COUNTY GAZETTE-MESSENGER "Historic Edition", published during the Centennial of TX in 1936, lists names/ages/residence of all the known survivors/victims of that raid, as well as all the known survivors who were still alive in 1936. (56 young children & "comely young women" were listed as "taken as slaves to sell into Mexico", 42 corpses were found by the Sheriff's officers & the Rangers over the next 2 days & at least 28 persons were, "wounded & left for dead by the raiders". - Four of the "wounded & left for dead" persons are known to have survived their wounds.)
Note: Local LE officers & the Rangers pursued the raiders until they crossed into Indian Territory (Now: Oklahoma), where a group of tribal police & US Marshals took up the chase. (I've NOT been able to find information as to whether the Indians and/or Marshals recovered any of the "taken" or not.)
SOME of the older Latinas do NOT "blow up after childbirth" but MANY definitely do. - Lorenzo __________ wife "Lita" is at least 50YO & she's still good to look upon after birthing 5 kids.
my babysitter, lifelong friend of my mothers, was from monterey, mexico. even as a young child i knew she was hot. She remained that way into her 90's. Think sophia loren.
SOME of the older Latinas do NOT "blow up after childbirth" but MANY definitely do. - Lorenzo __________ wife "Lita" is at least 50YO & she's still good to look upon after birthing 5 kids.
yours, tex
Originally Posted by RoninPhx
my babysitter, lifelong friend of my mothers, was from monterey, mexico. even as a young child i knew she was hot. She remained that way into her 90's. Think sophia loren.
In my experience, those Hispanic women that run heavier on the Native American bloodlines tend to get heavier, and those with the stronger Spanish bloodlines tend to look trimmer.
I've sure seen some beauties on both sides of the border.
Fwiw, my buddy's lady is 41YO & goes shopping sometimes with my Darla, (Darla was with her when Debbie special-ordered a bra at Nordstrom's. - She said that it was a size 36M. = Talk about a "over the shoulders boulder holder".)
I would guess that Debbie is about 5' 6" & may weigh as much as 130-140#.
never have had a crazy girlfriend. my first wife and i are still good friends, hell whenever i'm in alice tx i can stop her home and she will make lunch. her husband on the other hand don't like it.
Same here, after talking with a buddy I think I know why, we all may have had crazy women, but, if they think you're crazier than they are, they aint gonna fu-k with ya, they aint gonna pull the door off that closet, I believe most of em give dudes chit because they can, can't believe so many men allow it.
I spend a lot of time in the San Antonio area, driving around in the big rig. Those Latina gals are real cute when they are young, but in their late twenties, too many quesidillas I guess, they all turn to fat. Got a figure like an Irish potato.
A true metamorphosis on the order of the life cycle of butterflies but in reverse.
never have had a crazy girlfriend. my first wife and i are still good friends, hell whenever i'm in alice tx i can stop her home and she will make lunch. her husband on the other hand don't like it.
Same here, after talking with a buddy I think I know why, we all may have had crazy women, but, if they think you're crazier than they are, they aint gonna fu-k with ya, they aint gonna pull the door off that closet, I believe most of em give dudes chit because they can, can't believe so many men allow it.
To the best of my knowledge, yes. But apparently a lot of women don't know that. When I ride my cycle cross-country I wear leathers, and it's a rare trip where I don't get at least one gal in a bar or restaurant chattily remarking about my "assless" chaps. It got so bad in Wisconsin I started wearing jeans under my chaps... women... sheesh...
never have had a crazy girlfriend. my first wife and i are still good friends, hell whenever i'm in alice tx i can stop her home and she will make lunch. her husband on the other hand don't like it.
Same here, after talking with a buddy I think I know why, we all may have had crazy women, but, if they think you're crazier than they are, they aint gonna fu-k with ya, they aint gonna pull the door off that closet, I believe most of em give dudes chit because they can, can't believe so many men allow it.
Good point and no doubt gunner!! I think men have been brainwashed to put up with that crap by feminist and psycho bitches
Good point and no doubt gunner!! I think men have been brainwashed to put up with that crap by feminist and psycho bitches
Not all are brainwashed, some do it by choice. Many years ago I did it by choice, she was a prize winning lay! worth every bit of crazy until the butcher knife came out, then it was no longer worth it..........
never have had a crazy girlfriend. my first wife and i are still good friends, hell whenever i'm in alice tx i can stop her home and she will make lunch. her husband on the other hand don't like it.
Same here, after talking with a buddy I think I know why, we all may have had crazy women, but, if they think you're crazier than they are, they aint gonna fu-k with ya, they aint gonna pull the door off that closet, I believe most of em give dudes chit because they can, can't believe so many men allow it.
Good point and no doubt gunner!! I think men have been brainwashed to put up with that crap by feminist and psycho bitches
10-4 STX.
And yessir Irfubar, you know, if women really knew what went on in our heads, or, the level of instantaneous protective psycotic rage that simmers just below the surface with us, no way in hell could they close their eyes and sleep next to us.
Good point and no doubt gunner!! I think men have been brainwashed to put up with that crap by feminist and psycho bitches
Not all are brainwashed, some do it by choice. Many years ago I did it by choice, she was a prize winning lay! worth every bit of crazy until the butcher knife came out, then it was no longer worth it..........
or, the level of instantaneous protective psycotic rage that simmers just below the surface with us, no way in hell could they close their eyes and sleep next to us.
or, the level of instantaneous protective psycotic rage that simmers just below the surface with us, no way in hell could they close their eyes and sleep next to us.
Let me speak heresy and say that you can be screwing a hot woman and still not be having a good time if she ain’t right. But screwing the wrong woman ain’t gonna cause the Yellowstone Caldera to erupt and wipe out mankind or whatever. So do what you want, yer both grownups.
Good point and no doubt gunner!! I think men have been brainwashed to put up with that crap by feminist and psycho bitches
Not all are brainwashed, some do it by choice. Many years ago I did it by choice, she was a prize winning lay! worth every bit of crazy until the butcher knife came out, then it was no longer worth it..........
How did she feel about it after metaphorically having cut you loose, Paul?
It was so close Gunner, Lol. I credit a bud with saving me, she thought he was me and almost got him he called me and warned me so I was ready.
I was at the club doing RO work a few month's ago and a guy and his wife came in and said he wanted to buy a member ship so I gave him the forms to fill out, when he was writing down his name I saw that it was the same unusual last name as hers was so I asked him how long he had lived in the area and he said all his life.
I mentioned i had dated a gal with his last name and he said "No schit, thats my little sister, Dude let me tell you how lucky you are!"
Long story short she has been married 5 times had 4 kids by 4 different guys and is now single, he laughed and said "I got her number do you want it?" we laughed pretty hard on that one.
It was so close Gunner, Lol. I credit a bud with saving me, she thought he was me and almost got him he called me and warned me so I was ready.
I was at the club doing RO work a few month's ago and a guy and his wife came in and said he wanted to buy a member ship so I gave him the forms to fill out, when he was writing down his name I saw that it was the same unusual last name as hers was so I asked him how long he had lived in the area and he said all his life.
I mentioned i had dated a gal with his last name and he said "No schit, thats my little sister, Dude let me tell you how lucky you are!"
Long story short she has been married 5 times had 4 kids by 4 different guys and is now single, he laughed and said "I got her number do you want it?" we laughed pretty hard on that one.
Holy chit, talk about a damn nightmare in the making, DAMN!
Threads like these make me appreciate the hell outta my little woman, she fell asleep on the pit behind me, I'll have to take her TV watching glasses off and let her sleep there tonight, I'll sack out with my DW 10mm in the recliner.
Well, isnt that about par for the course? Of course, many have gone on to kill their man, for being such a turd of course, then sat there bawling because their one true love was history. Of course, it was his fault. If only he had done things as he was, of course, supposed to.
How did she feel about it after metaphorically having cut you loose, Paul?
She was so fuggin' crazy she didn't want to break up she just wanted to kill me at the time.
Hell no. If you break up how do you expect her to make your sorry assed life miserable, you sorry pos. You dont deserve to be free. You need to pay for not making her happy, you worthless asswhole.
How did she feel about it after metaphorically having cut you loose, Paul?
She was so fuggin' crazy she didn't want to break up she just wanted to kill me at the time.
Hell no. If you break up how do you expect her to make your sorry assed life miserable, you sorry pos. You dont deserve to be free. You need to pay for not making her happy, you worthless asswhole.
How did she feel about it after metaphorically having cut you loose, Paul?
She was so fuggin' crazy she didn't want to break up she just wanted to kill me at the time.
Hell no. If you break up how do you expect her to make your sorry assed life miserable, you sorry pos. You dont deserve to be free. You need to pay for not making her happy, you worthless asswhole.
To be truthful she had every right to be pissed at me but cut me up.........Damn.
A couple of days later she wanted to start back up, fuggin' nuts I tell ya.
How did she feel about it after metaphorically having cut you loose, Paul?
She was so fuggin' crazy she didn't want to break up she just wanted to kill me at the time.
Hell no. If you break up how do you expect her to make your sorry assed life miserable, you sorry pos. You dont deserve to be free. You need to pay for not making her happy, you worthless asswhole.
To be truthful she had every right to be pissed at me but cut me up.........Damn.
A couple of days later she wanted to start back up, fuggin' nuts I tell ya.
But of course, you were still nuts and you still had yer nuts.
To the OP...... I have no advice to give you as to your situation, but I think you're a fairly stable guy for seeing through SeaBiscuit's BS (Blizzard of Schit) early on. He seems fixated on trailer houses. Maybe it's what he's most accustomed to.
One of the things that I find "interesting" about the DAMNyankees & "THE SMART SET" is that they LOOK DOWN UPON people who work with their hands & live in trailer-houses. = At the same time they constantly talk, talk & talk about how much that they care for "the poor & downtrodden".
Fyi, during the 2014 campaign I counted 8 members of Congress & the "DIMocRATS national "leadership", who LOUDLY ridiculed "low class people from trailer parks" (Nancy Pelosi) who "are so stupid that they have to do manual labor" (Chuck Schumer), "Bible-believing, ignorant hillbillies" (Debbie Wasserman-Schultz) & "are just ignorant, racist white trash" (Maxine Waters).
TELL ME, Friends: How can the DIMocRATS win anywhere but in the BLUEST urban areas, if they continue to insult everyone, who is NOT "well to do" & who is NOT from the BIG cities??
HYPOCRITES, every damn one of the Sweet Old Boys!!
You haven't lived until a psycho bitch from hell has you arrested a few times, just because she can. The really good ones will tear the door off it's hinges when you won't let em back in and try to burn you out. Lots of fun all around.
To the OP...... I have no advice to give you as to your situation, but I think you're a fairly stable guy for seeing through SeaBiscuit's BS (Blizzard of Schit) early on. He seems fixated on trailer houses. Maybe it's what he's most accustomed to.
Best of luck.
ah one of the trolls that love to follow me around... spreading his manure of wisdom,
naw not fixed on house trailers.. its just that so many people like YOU, AOD etc... live in them if you aren't living in mom's basement.....
just go sit in the outhouse and fire up your bong.. you'll feel a lot better...
I'd tell ya to GFY, but I'm sure you've been doing that most of today, while watching Oprah... waiting for the mail man with that welfare check...
Yeah, nice to look at , but when she loses the looks and turns psycho, while she is sitting on her ass, spending your money! Problem I am finding, everybody I meet expects to be treated like a princess, well honey, your Daddy was wrong! You aren't a princess. Well I take that back the , you are the "trailer park princess"
did I mention along the way that I have three ex wives? Hope springs eternal, and I scored big time with wife #4. No drama, practical, hard working, thrifty, and she puts up with me, no strings attached.
To the OP...... I have no advice to give you as to your situation, but I think you're a fairly stable guy for seeing through SeaBiscuit's BS (Blizzard of Schit) early on. He seems fixated on trailer houses. Maybe it's what he's most accustomed to.
Best of luck.
ah one of the trolls that love to follow me around... spreading his manure of wisdom,
naw not fixed on house trailers.. its just that so many people like YOU, AOD etc... live in them if you aren't living in mom's basement.....
just go sit in the outhouse and fire up your bong.. you'll feel a lot better...
I'd tell ya to GFY, but I'm sure you've been doing that most of today, while watching Oprah... waiting for the mail man with that welfare check...
LOL..!! You are so incredibly predictable and one dimensional in your responses to anyone who doesn't buy your line of BS. To be morally effective at all, you really need to expand your arsenal of personal barbs that you direct to the lower masses in life.
Do I now get one of your customary accusatory "you're white trash" PM's to go with this comedy drivel? In the first PM like that that I received from you you told me to GFY in your, "I'm superior to all" mode.
To the OP...... I have no advice to give you as to your situation, but I think you're a fairly stable guy for seeing through SeaBiscuit's BS (Blizzard of Schit) early on. He seems fixated on trailer houses. Maybe it's what he's most accustomed to.
Best of luck.
ah one of the trolls that love to follow me around... spreading his manure of wisdom,
naw not fixed on house trailers.. its just that so many people like YOU, AOD etc... live in them if you aren't living in mom's basement.....
just go sit in the outhouse and fire up your bong.. you'll feel a lot better...
I'd tell ya to GFY, but I'm sure you've been doing that most of today, while watching Oprah... waiting for the mail man with that welfare check...
LOL..!! You are so incredibly predictable and one dimensional in your responses to anyone who doesn't buy your line of BS. To be morally effective at all, you really need to expand your arsenal of personal barbs that you direct to the lower masses in life.
Do I now get one of your customary accusatory "you're white trash" PM's to go with this comedy drivel? In the first PM like that that I received from you you told me to GFY in your, "I'm superior to all" mode.
So what's new? Help me out here, champ........
Superior to ALL? that's your words, not mine.. so evidently you're programmed for this type of response...
Don't see, the victim tone in your response trying to save face?....
simple fact is... your critical posts always follow something I post.. which means you are stalking..
ya don't see me following you around to tell you what a fool you are...its obvious, so why go look for ya to repeat it over and over...
ya don't like my posts, which weren't directed at you... then quit reading them...
tell us you aren't some 30 something that has nothing better to do that trolling the internet and acting like you are some all knowing maul ninja...
personally I look at you about the way I'd think of DogShitt on the bottom of my shoe.. as nuisance at best that is easily cleaned off, and if that effects your sense of personal value, that's your cross to bear, not mine there sweetpea...
trying getting a life instead of making your big goal in life to be an internet troll... you really aren't very good at it anyway.... seems you never developed past 13 mentally or emotionally...
which is not only obvious, but hilarious...
If you have an Identity crisis, deal with it...its not the Campfire's Job to make you feel better about yourself....maybe consider getting a job and quit being a stoner and a welfare bum...
Go and try to [bleep] with someone else... maybe you'll find someone else who actually gives a crap about you and what you have to say... and then get all butt hurt for your enjoyment... I don't happen to be on that list..
so FOAD and have a nice day.............................................Dork..
To the OP...... I have no advice to give you as to your situation, but I think you're a fairly stable guy for seeing through SeaBiscuit's BS (Blizzard of Schit) early on. He seems fixated on trailer houses. Maybe it's what he's most accustomed to.
Best of luck.
ah one of the trolls that love to follow me around... spreading his manure of wisdom,
naw not fixed on house trailers.. its just that so many people like YOU, AOD etc... live in them if you aren't living in mom's basement.....
just go sit in the outhouse and fire up your bong.. you'll feel a lot better...
I'd tell ya to GFY, but I'm sure you've been doing that most of today, while watching Oprah... waiting for the mail man with that welfare check...
LOL..!! You are so incredibly predictable and one dimensional in your responses to anyone who doesn't buy your line of BS. To be morally effective at all, you really need to expand your arsenal of personal barbs that you direct to the lower masses in life.
Do I now get one of your customary accusatory "you're white trash" PM's to go with this comedy drivel? In the first PM like that that I received from you you told me to GFY in your, "I'm superior to all" mode.
So what's new? Help me out here, champ........
Superior to ALL? that's your words, not mine.. so evidently you're programmed for this type of response...
Don't see, the victim tone in your response trying to save face?....
simple fact is... your critical posts always follow something I post.. which means you are stalking..
ya don't see me following you around to tell you what a fool you are...its obvious, so why go look for ya to repeat it over and over...
ya don't like my posts, which weren't directed at you... then quit reading them...
tell us you aren't some 30 something that has nothing better to do that trolling the internet and acting like you are some all knowing maul ninja...
personally I look at you about the way I'd think of DogShitt on the bottom of my shoe.. as nuisance at best that is easily cleaned off, and if that effects your sense of personal value, that's your cross to bear, not mine there sweetpea...
trying getting a life instead of making your big goal in life to be an internet troll... you really aren't very good at it anyway.... seems you never developed past 13 mentally or emotionally...
which is not only obvious, but hilarious...
If you have an Identity crisis, deal with it...its not the Campfire's Job to make you feel better about yourself....maybe consider getting a job and quit being a stoner and a welfare bum...
Go and try to [bleep] with someone else... maybe you'll find someone else who actually gives a crap about you and what you have to say... and then get all butt hurt for your enjoyment... I don't happen to be on that list..
so FOAD and have a nice day.............................................Dork..
I think I'm permanently wounded by your 100% predictable response.
you and me both brother... I actually like women with some brains... and an IQ way above average....
Speaking of brains and beauty, Wifey behind me curled up on the couch doing some weekend homework in her cute little secretary glasses...........DAMN........................ ;]
She doesn't understand that you are just looking for a free Hooker the rest of your life. Make her understand that you just want to use her body for sex and you want no commitment no responsibility whatsoever. Hopefully after making that very clear she can go out and find a more honorable man that can give her what she wants.
Good point and no doubt gunner!! I think men have been brainwashed to put up with that crap by feminist and psycho bitches
Not all are brainwashed, some do it by choice. Many years ago I did it by choice, she was a prize winning lay! worth every bit of crazy until the butcher knife came out, then it was no longer worth it..........
Been there as a younger man. In my mid-20's, back in 1990 or so, stationed in Germany. Was dating this girl in Holland. Very pretty, body out of this world, a set of tits that were just a dream. Seeing her naked was like watching a playboy centerfold jump to life right off the pages. She had done a lot of modeling (magazines, catalogs, etc). About 5 months was all I could manage...and believe me I was trying to "manage" it due to the upside. But that chick was nuttier than squirrel chit. Last time I saw her she was throwing her TV down the stairs at me as I was leaving.
Two weeks later I got called into the CO's office. A complaint had been made against me for assault against her. She said I drove up to her place, told her I wanted to talk, and beat the chit out of her. She made one mistake. The schedule I'd worked for years had changed upon my last trip back from her place in Holland as I'd gotten promoted and made a shift leader. My old days off were now my working days (5 days on / 5 days off, 12 hour shifts....man I had a lot of free time as a young man in Europe!), and my hours swapped as well (where I had been working p.m. shifts, I was not on a.m.. shift). The day and time she claimed this happened, I was sitting in an underground command center bunker in Germany. The fact I could be proven to be at work when she said this happened saved me a lot of trouble. CO ordered me to never see her again. Uhm, yes sir! No argument from me!
Never spoke to her again, though she tried. As recently as 8 years or so ago she had contacted me on facebook, and months later emailed my brother. Never responded, and told the brother to not respond to her.
Was quite happy to put the Atlantic ocean between myself and that one. Glad I bailed when I did. But it was a hell of a ride!
Good point and no doubt gunner!! I think men have been brainwashed to put up with that crap by feminist and psycho bitches
Not all are brainwashed, some do it by choice. Many years ago I did it by choice, she was a prize winning lay! worth every bit of crazy until the butcher knife came out, then it was no longer worth it..........
Been there as a younger man. In my mid-20's, back in 1990 or so, stationed in Germany. Was dating this girl in Holland. Very pretty, body out of this world, a set of tits that were just a dream. Seeing her naked was like watching a playboy centerfold jump to life right off the pages. She had done a lot of modeling (magazines, catalogs, etc). About 5 months was all I could manage...and believe me I was trying to "manage" it due to the upside. But that chick was nuttier than squirrel chit. Last time I saw her she was throwing her TV down the stairs at me as I was leaving.
Two weeks later I got called into the CO's office. A complaint had been made against me for assault against her. She said I drove up to her place, told her I wanted to talk, and beat the chit out of her. She made one mistake. The schedule I'd worked for years had changed upon my last trip back from her place in Holland as I'd gotten promoted and made a shift leader. My old days off were now my working days (5 days on / 5 days off, 12 hour shifts....man I had a lot of free time as a young man in Europe!), and my hours swapped as well (where I had been working p.m. shifts, I was not on a.m.. shift). The day and time she claimed this happened, I was sitting in an underground command center bunker in Germany. The fact I could be proven to be at work when she said this happened saved me a lot of trouble. CO ordered me to never see her again. Uhm, yes sir! No argument from me!
Never spoke to her again, though she tried. As recently as 8 years or so ago she had contacted me on facebook, and months later emailed my brother. Never responded, and told the brother to not respond to her.
Was quite happy to put the Atlantic ocean between myself and that one. Glad I bailed when I did. But it was a hell of a ride!
Life is dangerous when we let or dicks guide us................
I dated a crazy for a short while. A body you couldn't believe and a face to match. You would never put her with me in a million years. Talk about conflicted! She could put out!! ANYTHING GOES (anywhere) And she was demanding about what she got back but what a thrill. And then she would want to go to church to ask Gods forgiveness.Like right after if it was a nooner or at the crack of dawn the next day. And she liked the Pentecostals where people rolled around and spoke in tongues. It was bizarre. Talk about a roller coaster. At least she didn't want to slit my throat.
I dated a crazy for a short while. A body you couldn't believe and a face to match. You would never put her with me in a million years. Talk about conflicted! She could put out!! ANYTHING GOES (anywhere) And she was demanding about what she got back but what a thrill. And then she would want to go to church to ask Gods forgiveness.Like right after if it was a nooner or at the crack of dawn the next day. And she liked the Pentecostals where people rolled around and spoke in tongues. It was bizarre. Talk about a roller coaster. At least she didn't want to slit my throat.
I dated a crazy for a short while. A body you couldn't believe and a face to match. You would never put her with me in a million years. Talk about conflicted! She could put out!! ANYTHING GOES (anywhere) And she was demanding about what she got back but what a thrill. And then she would want to go to church to ask Gods forgiveness.Like right after if it was a nooner or at the crack of dawn the next day. And she liked the Pentecostals where people rolled around and spoke in tongues. It was bizarre. Talk about a roller coaster. At least she didn't want to slit my throat.
pastor's wife? Nice.
Both of you are real idiots there is nothing "nice" about any of that.
I dated a crazy for a short while. A body you couldn't believe and a face to match. You would never put her with me in a million years. Talk about conflicted! She could put out!! ANYTHING GOES (anywhere) And she was demanding about what she got back but what a thrill. And then she would want to go to church to ask Gods forgiveness.Like right after if it was a nooner or at the crack of dawn the next day. And she liked the Pentecostals where people rolled around and spoke in tongues. It was bizarre. Talk about a roller coaster. At least she didn't want to slit my throat.
pastor's wife? Nice.
Both of you are real idiots there is nothing "nice" about any of that.
I dated a crazy for a short while. A body you couldn't believe and a face to match. You would never put her with me in a million years. Talk about conflicted! She could put out!! ANYTHING GOES (anywhere) And she was demanding about what she got back but what a thrill. And then she would want to go to church to ask Gods forgiveness.Like right after if it was a nooner or at the crack of dawn the next day. And she liked the Pentecostals where people rolled around and spoke in tongues. It was bizarre. Talk about a roller coaster. At least she didn't want to slit my throat.
pastor's wife? Nice.
Both of you are real idiots there is nothing "nice" about any of that.
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