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Posted By: Fotis How long to wait - 11/13/19
OK so I "sold" an item here on 1 Nov. Buyer said that he would take it and that postal money order was enroute. He send a shipping address to send item to. No contact since then. My messages are still unread and has not posted anything on this site since. Still waiting and of course have not sent item.

Have I fulfilled my obligation and relist item?

Where does everybody stand on this?
Posted By: diamondjim Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
I'd say so.
Posted By: Fanofthefortyone Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Yes you have.
Ronnie
Posted By: 257heaven Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Has he been on site? You can see when he was last on the forums. If he’s been on site and hasn’t responded, I’d say you won’t be getting funds. The pm’s have probably been emailed to him and I’d bet he’s read them.
Posted By: jimdgc Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
10 days is plenty long enough. As I’ve been thinning out some things I know I’ll never use, I've been amazed by the number of folks that will tell you they’ll take something and then you never hear from them again.
Posted By: Fotis Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Buyer has not been on the site since he said he will take it
Posted By: DANNYL Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Relist
Posted By: opiewancanobie Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
You have more than tried to be stand up on this.
Posted By: Ducksanddogs Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
I think you’re good to go. I understand sometimes things happen, but if he said it was sent and it still hasn’t arrived and you haven’t heard from him, let er rip.

Personally, I work in the oilfield and from 6am - 6pm every day. If someone accepts payment by PayPal, I’ll pay them instantly. If they only want a money order or a check, I’ll make sure they’re okay with waiting until I can send it, sometimes a few weeks because of my schedule, before committing to buy it. Then, staying in contact with them is important until it’s sent and letting them know, usually with a photo of the money order and addressed envelope, that it’s on its way.

If you’re not hearing anything and it was supposedly sent two weeks ago, I’d say you’re in the clear to relist.
Posted By: 10gaugemag Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Relist.
Posted By: tikkanut Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Originally Posted by 10gaugemag
Relist.



Re list.........what cha selling ?????
Posted By: WeimGuy Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Realist it. You’ve waited what anyone would consider a reasonable amount of time.
Posted By: horse1 Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Originally Posted by Fotis
Buyer has not been on the site since he said he will take it


10 days w/0 contact is certainly plenty of time to wait. Given the time of year, the only thing that might give me pause to re-list would be a chance the buyer is out hunting and away from any internet access.
Posted By: John_Boy Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Ten days to two weeks is my limit.....
I've had one and only one campfire member do that to me.
No big deal.
Posted By: carlm Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Relist-You snooze, you lose.
Posted By: Fotis Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Vortex viper pst gen ii 5-25x50

Will be listing
Posted By: tikkanut Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Originally Posted by Fotis
Vortex viper pst gen ii 5-25x50

Will be listing



nice glass !

GLWYS !
Posted By: Fireball2 Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
I had a fella die on me. Glad I didn't wait. So inconsiderate.
Posted By: Reloder28 Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Over the course of my internet purchases I have had two people die. In one's case the son stepped up to the plate for me. Can't imagine how hard that was for him. The other deal, I lost $350 on.

I will allow two weeks maximum. I normally am preoccupied for a couple of weeks at a time so waiting that long is of no consequence to me.
Posted By: unahunt Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Reloder28 That happened to me on a Mod 37 20ga, I waited three weeks nothing so I wrote it off, week later his wife contacted me
wanting to if I wanted my money back or the gun. I took the gun.
Posted By: TheBigSky Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
I speculate he was a classified shopper only and simply forgot. How new or frequent of a member is he? Irrespective of that answer, I am with the others who say that you have given him due consideration.
Posted By: Dryfly24 Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
If he was serious about buying he would’ve stayed in touch. Re list it.
Posted By: Fotis Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Originally Posted by TheBigSky
I speculate he was a classified shopper only and simply forgot. How new or frequent of a member is he? Irrespective of that answer, I am with the others who say that you have given him due consideration.


Classified posts only......
Posted By: TheBigSky Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Originally Posted by Fotis
Originally Posted by TheBigSky
I speculate he was a classified shopper only and simply forgot. How new or frequent of a member is he? Irrespective of that answer, I am with the others who say that you have given him due consideration.


Classified posts only......

That sounds about right.
Posted By: Tarbe Re: How long to wait - 11/13/19
Originally Posted by Reloder28
Over the course of my internet purchases I have had two people die.


Dang! Not doing a deal with you! 😂
Posted By: Reloder28 Re: How long to wait - 11/14/19
Originally Posted by unahunt
Reloder28 That happened to me on a Mod 37 20ga, I waited three weeks nothing so I wrote it off, week later his wife contacted me
wanting to if I wanted my money back or the gun. I took the gun.



At least she knew about it. That was kind of her.
Posted By: Reloder28 Re: How long to wait - 11/14/19
Originally Posted by Tarbe
Originally Posted by Reloder28
Over the course of my internet purchases I have had two people die.


Dang! Not doing a deal with you! 😂



Hmmm, had not considered that. May be you’ve got something there.
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