Why is probate taking so long? Does someone want it to take a long time? Is that hat for sale?
Hat not for sale
LOL!!
FIL blew off final arrangements everytime i brought it up.
FIL blew off clarifying will issues after i had a real lawyer reveiw it while he was still alive.
SIL per will responsible per will for those cost
SIL inherited home per will, household items supposed to be equal between her and wife division.
SIL former Billy Idol groupie, biker trash.
Didnt pay 1 penny to cremate dear old dad
SIL didnt show up till after both of her parents died
All that drama thrown on wife and me.
SIL didnt have ta see her mom dying of breast cancer.
Didnt have ta see her dad getting paddled in E rooms and ICU s
Didnt have ta sign forms to keep dad alive cause he refused to adress that paper work his ownself.
Buncha bullschitt....
All throw on my wife and me twice.....
Me and wife paid 2 k to smoke dear old dad and cremate him
Seahag girlfriend of his paid other half.
Not gonna have my name dragged down in town I live in cause of deadbeat SIL hiding in Virginia.
We put claim thru county govt for reimbursement against the estate.
Seahag found out and did same thing, even though the money she used was out of his cash on hand after she cashed a check for 3k at "we know you planters bank schit" after totaling his blazer while he was still alive.
SIL and my wife each got a little over 60k apeice between 401 and life insurance stuff and around 9k apeice in checking and savings balance disbursements.
SIL probably aint paid property taxes either.
Justa a fugged up situation all around.
And all brought up by me months before about schitt needing to be addresssed numerous times.
More important things like him playing online pogo games, scratch off tickets, online gambling and facebook.
Just a fugged up situation.
Wife,s family all fugged up
Always has been.
Its the NA genes in em I think.
My side dont pull these stunts
They address schit that needs ta be addressed well before hand.
They dont fugg with the living from beyond.
Majority of Indians when they hear free money come a running.. my wife family not your typical Indians. Her mom passed she had it all planned out, even the cost of the funeral. Her family pretty good head in their shoulders.. like I said they were not your typical Rez Indians. Now me my side of the family if they found out I fell over dead my wife getting 400k life Insurance and over 125k in tsp are your typical Indians they will find someway to get to Alaska to try and get some free money lol..
I know man.......
Seen it my entire life .
Penobscot Rez in my Hometown.
Not all that way like you said.
But plenty of em are that way for sure.
Wifes family on her dads side.
Just dont wanna address schit.
Seen it with her squad of aunts and 2 uncles.
Good times till ya die , expect the living to cater to you hand and foot till you kick the bucket.
Dont address mortality when presented with anything concerning it.
Dude was a motar man in the Corps during the korean war in 52 and
53.
Seen and went thru plenty of schitt.
But was an absolute coward when it came to medical power of attorneys or living wills or his own DNR.
ICU,s unconcoius for days and weeks on end after e rooms then recovery then home x3 over 3 almost 4 months
Revolving door stuff.
Just to be babied at home .
Eat junk like a 3rd grader
Undo everything doctors did for him each time to have a chance at some level of health.
I took pics one time of all the junk food in his house.
Showed em to his cardiologist
Told him everything he has been telling you for the last 9 yrs
Is fugging bullschit
Doc,s face turned a little red.
Doc didnt say a word, he dgaf he was milking the medicaid system to the max anyways cause he knew patient refused numerous times to sign a DNR.
I told my wife several times
You will not sign a DNR on him, cause that schitt is gonna haunt ya down the line and you dont need that feeling you pulled the plug on him.
The medicaid system milked this fear of his not Signing his own DNR and taking ownership of his own destiny till the end of their treatment protocol,s
Last time in a ICU
Respirator
10 day pull protocol
14 day max you can be on it per medicaid protocols if your able to not plummet at x rate of time into single digit vital signs
Breath on your own test at end of 14 again
Last chance
If not your done.....
Final comfort care stuff
NOK gets phamplet and explanation of death throe signs
Ect ect ect
Angel of death nurse comes in when vitals go down to single digits in x amount of time for the 10 day pull
I was told to keep an eye out for the number threshold and tell her attending to another patient.
Gives a " comfort care" 50cc shot of morphine so the NOK dont see possible death convulsions.
Yeah right....
End of medicaid life treatment levels
No more money to be made is what it is....
50 cc of morphine shot for ya in single digit vital sign mode
Shut down the show for good.
I had ta go thru all this BS with my wife cause he would not sign his own DNR numerous times and not take ownship.
And I told my wife you aint gonna have his DNR crap on you.
It wasnt right and very unfair to her.
Specially while SIL was sitting here azz in virginia during this entire crap offering phone call support.......
And pep talks with her daddy.......
But yet 3 days after he kicked the bucket she was here acting all Important as executor of the will and the annointed one.
Fugging entire schitt and sequence of events pizzes me off to this day.