Dealer wants 325. I think I'm gonna grab it. It looks like a cool gun. Will they handle +P loads? I don't know much at all about the 44 special round
The CA revolvers are great guns for the money. Like all current "J-frame" revolvers they will handle +P loads, but not as a regular diet. My preference in small-frame.38 specials is to avoid +P loads and stick with wad-cutters or semi-wadcutters for all kinds of shooting, including personal defense.
With any small handgun it takes a lot of practice to achieve any sort of proficiency -- 500 rounds would seem to be the norm for the average shooter, plus about 50 rounds per month to maintain (and hopefully improve) a satisfactory level of marksmanship. That being the case the .38 special has a clear advantage over the .44 special (especially in small revolvers) in terms of both cost, and recoil. It also scores higher in terms of ammunition availability, the .38 special being as ubiquitous as .22 or 9mm, and definitely less expensive to shoot than .44 special.
The .44 special is certainly the more effective defensive round, but as with any round fired in self defense, it is effective only if it hits the intended target. Like they say, a miss with a .44 isn't nearly as impressive as a hit with a .38.