Originally Posted by Seven_Heaven
A difficult situation, the key to which is the heart of this young man.

Best possible outcome IMHO would be that he receive help through a prison ministry for the next few years. And the young lady and her parents could stand some counseling & instruction also.

Is this a UMC church per chance?
Exactly what I was thinking. Let him be reformed in prison. How much will the church suffer if something else happens or it loses membership.