Ended up getting a Browning X bolt in .243 Win. The main features we wanted included an adjustable trigger and a detachable magazine. She "tried on" several different rifles but really like how the X bolt felt, came to her shoulder and fit her. We picked up a Nikon Prostaff BDC 4-12 to top it, we have taken it out and shoot a few boxes and she is very happy and not afraid of the recoil at all. We still have to do a good final sight in, I will let you all know how well it groups once we do.
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