R.H.,
The best advice you have gotten so far is to go buy a good loading manual. Better yet, buy two or three and read all the "how to's" until you fully understand what you are going to be doing. The Lyman manual, as Mathman said, is a very good one that is published by an equipment manufacturer. Another good one is the Hornady, a bullet maker.
Another good suggestion was to use a manual from a bullet manufacturer whose product you will be using.
After you kind of have a good grip on the procedures involved, then decide what products you want. There is a lot of good equipment out there. Keep reading on this thread and this Forum and you will learn what works best for your needs. Good luck and enjoy.
