In response to some recent posts:
I do handload and was loading reduced recoil loads in her .243.
She also will be shooting my handloads with .65 Grain GameKings in the AR.
She has been shooting a .22 for many years, still shoots rabbits with her Model 60 and is very accurate.
I for the the first time fell into the trap that so many men call in to. I was wanting her to shoot what I thought was best instead of letting her make the choice.
I was throwing the idea of a bar out there to see what others thought. I know from personal experience that even without BOSS the BAR can reduce felt recoil substantially. On the other hand, even without my current situation if a less expensive solution is available I'm for it.
Thank you Steelhead for your words of wisdom.