The #1 most unattractive thing out there to a woman is a cuck. Don't be that guy! Have enough self-respect to take out the trash and leave it out. YOU deserve better! Further, you're not healed up enough to be in another relationship right now. You should cut the other gal loose you've picked up on the rebound til you do. You're gonne end up hurting her too! BTDT.
Where you're at is a crappy place to be emotionally. If you're at all a religious person, go to church and learn to forgive your ex. That is the only way to truly move on. Do you have a close friend or two? Family? Confide in them and trust their judgment while yours is so emotionally clouded. Lastly, get enough sleep while you're going through this.
The #1 most unattractive thing out there to a woman is a cuck. Don't be that guy! Have enough self-respect to take out the trash and leave it out. YOU deserve better! Further, you're not healed up enough to be in another relationship right now. You should cut the other gal loose you've picked up on the rebound til you do. You're gonne end up hurting her too! BTDT.
Where you're at is a crappy place to be emotionally. If you're at all a religious person, go to church and learn to forgive your ex. That is the only way to truly move on. Do you have a close friend or two? Family? Confide in them and trust their judgment while yours is so emotionally clouded. Lastly, get enough sleep while you're going through this.
other than the religion part, this is pretty much what I said....then I got a death threat......bob
~~~Now I was a stranger in love and in town You set me up then you put me down You had your way with me every time But leaving would take that load off my mind You wanted love and you wanted more People and places like never before You ran around like you thought I was blind But leaving would take that load off my mind
Now you had me fooled from the day that we met Sweet lies you told me I'll never forget But you can't keep lying on love or you'll find Cause leaving will take that load off my mind
Now don't you be waiting for my knock on your door That kind of loving I don't need no more You had your day until it came time For leaving will take that load off my mind~~~
Ex wife toyed with my emotions talking about getting back together. Now she is running around with a guy who declared bankruptcy. Had $3000 in assets and over $700,000 in debt including $80,000 in taxes. How does that even happen. Anyway, looking for some words of encouragement to help with the hurt.
Is she a Narcissist?
One think more men need to do is educate themselves about Narcissist women:
Ex wife toyed with my emotions talking about getting back together. Now she is running around with a guy who declared bankruptcy. Had $3000 in assets and over $700,000 in debt including $80,000 in taxes. How does that even happen. Anyway, looking for some words of encouragement to help with the hurt.
Stay away.... Trust me..
Ex- USN (SS) '66-'69 Pro-Constitution. LET'S GO BRANDON!!!
Yep,,That's been my mo in the past,,& sisters and Aunts too !!
Start with the Aunt. It's usually been awhile for them and they'll go all night. Gatorade and a sick day is all you need. Well, maybe some popsicle sticks and a roll of duct tape too.
Ex wife toyed with my emotions talking about getting back together. Now she is running around with a guy who declared bankruptcy. Had $3000 in assets and over $700,000 in debt including $80,000 in taxes. How does that even happen. Anyway, looking for some words of encouragement to help with the hurt.
Friend had one better than that. After a couple of years she calls him up one night. Says she wants to get pregnant.................................wants him to watch.
Bob, I'm not sure what you are trying to say, but pretty sure you wouldn't say it to my face. I'm looking for advice from guys who have had similar experiences. If you can't contribute shut the hell up.
Originally Posted by BobMt
Originally Posted by blairvt
I've already got another one underneath me. Just having a hard time dealing with her wanting to be with that loser. Jealousy thing maybe. I don't know. Just having a hard time shaking this funk I'm in.
you could write to dear abby…...wait a minute....you already did
I can see someone posting my balls itch....what have you boys been using for ball itch...………..but to ask for advice....on the internet.... on how to handle your ex wife toying with your emotions?
I will take ….has no balls in the first place....for $1,000 alex………..bob
I will make it easy to understand...….you are being a wiener…...women don't like guys who act like wieners....that is contributing....in time you will agree......bob