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I dropped 100% of everything in mid February to care for my dad... he passed...
I am 100% with my mother now... she is in the final weeks, days... hours in her losing battle with Pancreatic cancer.
A life with few regrets is a good life.
A life with no regrets is a perfect life.
I have had many regrets in my life... but hope to add no more.
I sincerely Pray the same for each of you. 24 Hour Campfire has been a Blessed distraction. Deacon DeFlave (...and others) have sustained me from deep dark rabbit holes... ‐-------------------- Best of luck to you... ...and in truthful loving honesty... GFY to the rest of you.
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If you are not actively engaging EVERY enemy you encounter... you are allowing another to fight for you... and that is cowardice... plain and simple.
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I'm not a big believer in beating cancer. My take is if you survive treatment live you were mis diagnosed. Cancer is a money making disease for everyone involved besides the family. And the family will do whatever it can to to cure the sick member. I think there's already a cure for cancer and the elite are protecting their investment. A license to steal.
Life is good live it while you can.
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Dam sorry to hear this Roy ,Prayers sent!
Deer Camp! about as good as it gets!
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That's rough. Sorry to hear that your Mom has to go through all that again. Prayers sent to you and yours.
l told my pap and mam I was going to be a mountain man; acted like they was gut-shot. Make your life go here. Here's where the peoples is. Mother Gue, I says, the Rocky Mountains is the marrow of the world, and by God, I was right. - Del Gue
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when my mom got cancer, I enclosed my garage added a full bath and a bedroom for her and my dad. My wife doesn't work so she was here to take care of her while my dad was working. She lasted 7 yrs, no cure for multiple myeloma, that was 6 yrs ago my dad still lives with us. He has prostate cancer and is being treated for it, he's 82 now and still works. Have any idea if you can move them in with you, but I'm glad I did.
God bless Texas----------------------- Old 300 I will remain what i am until the day I die- A HUNTER......Sitting Bull Its not how you pick the booger.. but where you put it !! Roger V Hunter
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I’m sorry to hear of this. Going through this once is bad enough......dealing with the same cancer is hard to fathom! Prayers for Jim, yourself and your families! memtb
You should not use a rifle that will kill an animal when everything goes right; you should use one that will do the job when everything goes wrong." -Bob Hagel
“I’d like to be a good rifleman…..but, I prefer to be a good hunter”! memtb 2024
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Over the last 35 years or so, I have lost beloved family members and friends to pancreatic cancer. The only good (?) aspect of it is that it usually doesn't take long to prove fatal.
Prayers and offered for you, your family and friends. I absolutely hate the damned stuff!
Ben
Some days it takes most of the day for me to do practically nothing...
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https://www.sanoviv.com/this place has kept my sister in law alive for 25 years with multiple cancers not cured but held at bay. Pancreatic is a rough one. my heart goes out to you Roy. my mother passed in 1988 in mill city. i was in business and working for the Sheriff's dept in LA at the time. shut down my contracting, closed my gun shop, took a leave from the dept, and went and cared for mom and dad. tough year but i would give anything to do it again as both are long gone. had some of the closest times of our lives those last few months. it may seem like you are sacrificing everything to go help but the gain out weighed all the "loss". may God give peace and comfort to you all. God bless my friend.
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the consolidation of the states into one vast republic, sure to be aggressive abroad and despotic at home, will be the certain precursor of that ruin which has overwhelmed all those that have preceded. Robert E Lee ~Molɔ̀ːn Labé Skýla~
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Pancreatic got Grammys 3rd husband. Good guy. Dunno what cancer got #2. #1 got smoked in a fiery truck crash when my mom was little.
Grammy lived to about 90, had leukemia and justbsaid ahe was ready, quit treatments.
Good Christian lady that was ready to go.
Did say #3 had pancreatic but for some reason his last months were pain free.......a blessing.
He was a good dude
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Even when things are bad sometimes things work out kinda sorta.
Just relaying that.
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Fake deacon you have no idea what you're talking about in this instance so STFU with the stupid remarks. Wish the man, his family and his father the best and offer a prayer.
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Fake deacon you have no idea what you're talking about in this instance so STFU with the stupid remarks. Wish the man, his family and his father the best and offer a prayer. You're right and I apologize. Fireballz, Good luck with your incurable situation. Best wishes.
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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I'd take him to the Mayo Clinic and get a real opinion.
I doubt that diagnosis was given by anybody worth a fugk in their profession.
I have a friend who was set to fly from Albuquerque to the Mayo Clinic in Phoenix this past Wednesday and got word the day before that due to corona influx, all noncritical admissions had been cancelled. Fireball2, I'm sorry about your bad news. Norm
Norman Solberg International lawyer, lately for 25 years in Japan, now working on trusts in the US, the 3rd greatest tax haven. NRA Life Member for over 50 years, NRA Endowment (2014), Patron (2016).
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I'd take him to the Mayo Clinic and get a real opinion.
I doubt that diagnosis was given by anybody worth a fugk in their profession.
Honest question. Do you think there is a doctor somewhere that would fight for a mans life in their 90's with stage 4 cancer? I honestly don't know. I could add he's beaten other types of cancer at least three times before! Super positive, move forward kind of guy. Best of luck to all of you.
Broncos are officially the worst team in the nation this year.
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dang sorry to read this, and without a doubt, you have my support and prayers.
Sam......
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Prayers sent from here.
Cancer is evil. Ditto.
It is irrelevant what you think. What matters is the TRUTH.
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I just posted this on my Facebook page.
"A true story that happened just now... for people that do not believe in God.
Haven't been able to get out much, taking care of my mom and family and all... walked down to the pier with Laura to pull the crab pots. They have not been baited in 2 weeks... just sitting in the water empty... plan to wash them this week.
Walking to the pier I thought how nice it would be to go fishing and catch some fresh rockfish.
We pulled the four pots and they contained 5 fresh rockfish, 7 nice crabs and for dessert... one soft shell.
Once again, thank you Jesus!
I swear every word of this to be the Gospel truth."
If you are not actively engaging EVERY enemy you encounter... you are allowing another to fight for you... and that is cowardice... plain and simple.
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Roy... the best you can... and you will never have to look back in any way but happiness.
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If you are not actively engaging EVERY enemy you encounter... you are allowing another to fight for you... and that is cowardice... plain and simple.
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Prayers for you and yours.
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Of course Roy, May our Lord Jesus give you all the strength, and courage to fight through this. This.
Ecc 10:2 The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but that of a fool to the left.
A Nation which leaves God behind is soon left behind.
"The Lord never asked anyone to be a tax collector, lowyer, or Redskins fan".
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