She is trying to normalize her behavior. She is out. Start walking slowly and carefully towards the door. Tell her you want to go shooting today and start unloading the safes. Slow is smooth and smooth is fast. Everything has to be deliberate.
Even though its technically sloppy seconds man its hard to walk away from the phenomenal sex when I don't pass out drunk.. Also I have a 15 yr old step-son as well. been raising him since he was 9 or so.
Originally Posted by Bricktop
Then STFU. The rest of your statement is superflous bullshit with no real bearing on this discussion other than to massage your own ego.
She is trying to normalize her behavior. She is out. Start walking slowly and carefully towards the door. Tell her you want to go shooting today and start unloading the safes. Slow is smooth and smooth is fast. Everything has to be deliberate.
Even though its technically sloppy seconds man its hard to walk away from the phenomenal sex when I don't pass out drunk.. Also I have a 15 yr old step-son as well. been raising him since he was 9 or so.
Like two sparrows in a hurricane Trying to find their way With a head full of dreams And faith that can move anything They've heard it's all uphill But all they know is how they feel The world says they'll never make it Love says they will
If you have sex with her, usually it means you’ve forgiven the adultery, so don’t. Read that again!
None of that matters anymore. Every state is some form of "no fault" divorce. She could screw every player in the NFL, and she still gets the same amount of your stuff. That is unless she has kids with a few of them and manages to pass them off as yours for long enough, in which case you also get to pay her child support on kids that are not yours.
That’s correct. But having sex usually restarts the clock, so to speak. Getting shed of her ASAP is Job One, at least it would be for me. The situation as he described can‘t be fixed. It’s beyond repair. A girlfriend that behaves like that might be tolerated for good sex or whatever else you get from the relationship, but a wife? No fugging way, no how, never, not ever.
Ah, you mean the psychological clock, not any legal clock.
Yes, no resets, unless you're just playing nice while conspiring with your attorney.
You didn't use logic or reason to get into this opinion, I cannot use logic or reason to get you out of it.
You cannot over estimate the unimportance of nearly everything. John Maxwell
If this is a serious post, then I am genuinely sorry Friend.
No matter what, you can never trust her again. This is not the first time. If you "forgive" her, then you have (in a woman's mind) just given her the green light to continue to screw around. She will never ever respect you. She will just use you. She will bang whatever she wants, and the fact that she knows that you are gone for extended periods of time makes it incredibly easy. Plus she will likely end up giving you some nasty STD to top it off.
As tough as it is, no matter what your emotional side is telling you, bail out now. Don't say a word to her though. Quietly take all your guns and anything of value and get them out of the house and to a trusted friend's place. Make sure you have your finances in order and take her name off of as many things as you can, like credit cards, car titles, etc. Sell anything you can live without and turn it into cash in the next couple months before you serve papers on her. Don't ever let on that you are going to do this or she will screw you over big time.
You never truly know a woman until you are divorcing one and then they turn into the greediest animals on the planet.
Think objectively and rationally, not emotionally.
Hope this helps.
This plus 10 you been told and really are screwed if you don't think so.
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Even though its technically sloppy seconds man its hard to walk away from the phenomenal sex when I don't pass out drunk..
So she only has sex with you AFTER banging another dude?
Do you normally watch, or are you only watch if it's a black dude?
I don't make in front of you for being a covtard and the 6 booster shots you got. I'm in a real pickle here, Im not going to lie I lost my virginity to this women. Their it out their for all to see.
Originally Posted by Bricktop
Then STFU. The rest of your statement is superflous bullshit with no real bearing on this discussion other than to massage your own ego.