Too loose? Please - no offense intended - but I find it difficult to imagine how you can tell or feel that it's "too loose". Think of it this way - factory ammo - it always chambers (or should) with zero difficulty. If it's a bolt action rifle it would difficult if not impossible to dectect "too loose".
If you're full length sizing brass there shouldn't be any resistance when chambering a round. Even if your only neck sizing. When you start feeling resistance it's time reset the the die or full length size.
The only exception to having zero resistance when chambering resized brass is if you have set up your die set up to achieve a very slight crush fit. This is something requires being able to set the die to within tolerences of a thousandth of an inch (give or take a fraction). The crush fit should be so slight that you should only feel very slight resistance on only the last little bit of the bolt throw.
There's a sticky at the top of this page that's a good read on setting up dies - "Hand Loading for Long range 1:Brass case prep". Also the article by John Barness here.
http://www.24hourcampfire.com/reloading.htmlThere's a lot of varying opinions on what method of resizing is best - neck sizing, FL resizing or PFLR (partial full length resing). For me, I PFLR and set the shoulder to exactly fit the chamber with that ever so slight crush fit or with a minimum of shoulder clearance - less than a .0015" or so.
If you have concerns that you're oversizing your brass compare a piece of resized brass to an unfired piece of factory brass. You'll have to be able measure it in exactly the same places so I'd suggest using something as spacer to find the same distance from just forward of the case head and just behind the shoulder/neck junction. The taper in the brass is what makes it important to measure in the same places. The outside case dimensions should be within a few thousandths. Maybe .002" or .003" + or - a little - depending. If it was beyond .005" or .006" then I might be concerned. I'm guessing a little bit on the dimensions as it's hard to say exactly due to manufacturing tolerences.
I'd be willing to bet that everthing is fine with your new dies. Of course there's always the chance of having a defective die but that's a very rare occurrence.
I'm trying to give you some info to inspire some confidence. I've been there where doubt makes you wonder "Am I going blow myself up?". That's not always a bad thing either.
It's a good thing to question and double check your reloading procedures.