Steve, don't know, but it may help to try setting your sizer die (a FL I presume?) out a bit long, and then turning it 1/16 of a turn at a time until the sized cases just chamber chamber easily with the faintest "feel" to them.
Also, I wonder if you're using the cases interchangeably between the Marlin and the other gun? One's chamber may be longer, and I'd guess the Marlin's in your case, which can result in the splitting you're getting. Just set up the die for the longer chamber, and your case splitting may go away. Of course, then you have to either reset for the shorter chamber, or have another die set dedicated to the shorter chamber. I think someone (Hornady?) makes reasonably priced non-custom order dies for the .256 still, don't they? All you'd need is just the FL sizer die, I think. Sure would be a lot better option than those split cases!
Chamber specs and reamers can vary, and if you have two guns in any caliber, and one's at the short end and the other at the long end, the longer chamber's gun will split cases sooner than those dedicated to the short chamber, if the shorter chambered gun is the one you size for - which is the only reasonable thing to do, since setting your FL die for the longer chamber may not allow the shorter chambered gun to fully accept the longer rounds.
One other option would be to get some 2" wide metallic tape (THIN here!) or a spacer made of thin steel shim material, and try putting that between the press and lock ring of the die. If you can find just the right thickness of spacer, that sould aleviate your problem, or at least minimize it. Combine that with some neck anealing and your problem may largely just go away. Make sense?
Just a thought and a possibility, anyway?