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Blackmail her for a blow job
then rat her out to your bud Too messy. Travis
Trump being classless,tasteless and clueless as usual. Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit. My young wife decided to play the field and had moved several dudes into my house
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Campfire Oracle
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It's like this,..
If ya tell him, he'll feel obligated to end the relationship right now.
If you don't,..it'll go on for 3 or 4 more months before it peters out.
Tellin' him now will deprive him of 3 or 4 months of that all important commodity known as puzzy.
The situation will find its correct path without your help.
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Campfire Outfitter
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I accidentally slept with a woman once, Travis laffin.. How do you accidentaly do that? Is like your shoe lace comes untied going down a set of stairs and kicks off a stream of uncontrollable events?...
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Campfire Ranger
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Hi Lynn. Hi Travis.
You're both sexy as ever.
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Campfire Outfitter
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How about telling her what you saw. You can tell her to fess up, or you will tell him.
Bitch. This. That's not a bad option. That is a REALLY BAD OPTION. Forewarned is forearmed, and trust me she will cover her ass in the blink of an eye, and if that does not work, an absolute tear filled meltdown leading to hot sex might just break the ice between them, long enough for her to come with another angle. The perfect option of course will be for her to convince him it was all his fault one way or the other. Not all women pull this crap, BUT KNOW, all women have the crafty ability.
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Hi Lynn. Hi Travis.
You're both sexy as ever. Is this a prelude to something ?
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It's like this,..
If ya tell him, he'll feel obligated to end the relationship right now.
If you don't,..it'll go on for 3 or 4 more months before it peters out.
Tellin' him now will deprive him of 3 or 4 months of that all important commodity known as puzzy.
The situation will find its correct path without your help. You are missing the point once he tells him he will then have his choice from a selection of puzzy, a la carte if you will... Not telling him now will set him back 3 or 4 months from getting new puzzy, what kinda friend would do that?
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Campfire Ranger
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Should have sat down at the table with her and asked when she got back. I would have turned the table over, then told her she has 24 hrs to tell him herself.
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Campfire Oracle
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Hi Lynn. Hi Travis.
You're both sexy as ever. Is this a prelude to something ? He's prepping you for me to start schmoozing....
"...the left considers you vermin, and they'll kill you given the chance..." Bristoe
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Campfire Kahuna
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It's like this,..
If ya tell him, he'll feel obligated to end the relationship right now.
If you don't,..it'll go on for 3 or 4 more months before it peters out.
Tellin' him now will deprive him of 3 or 4 months of that all important commodity known as puzzy.
The situation will find its correct path without your help. He's not getting the pusssy. The guy in the restaurant is.
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The perfect option of course will be for her to convince him it was all his fault one way or the other.
Is there EVER any other plan of deception?
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Campfire Kahuna
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Should have sat down at the table with her and asked when she got back. I would have turned the table over, then told her she has 24 hrs to tell him herself. Flying [bleep], why would you give some bittch who is [bleep] your buddy over anything? Sometimes doing the right thing ain't easy, but it's always right.
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I'm not telling the OP what to do here, but... How do you think the friend would feel about you later down the line if he finds you that you knew about this and didn't tell him much earlier? Well there is another side. I once was in this position and I told my friend, I thought for sure he'd send her packing. But he didn't, and instead he swallowed his pride. Well the fact that I knew he couldn't man up made it unbearable for him to be around me, so it wasn't him and his wife that went separate ways.
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Campfire Kahuna
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You say he's your best bud. You're best buds for a reason, whichever the both of your reasons are.
What would your best bud do were the situation reversed? What would you do or feel if he did not tell you?
Were it one of my best buddies,as I personally define true friendship, I'd tell the wife she has 3 days to tell him or I would.
The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails. William Arthur Ward
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Campfire Ranger
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okok, you got 10 pages (so far) of advice.
Do the right thing...
go back to Steelhead fishing.
Epstein didn't kill himself.
"Play Cinnamon Girl you Sonuvabitch!"
Biden didn't win the election.
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Hi Lynn. Hi Travis.
You're both sexy as ever. Is this a prelude to something ? He's prepping you for me to start schmoozing.... Schmoozing will cost you big time
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Campfire Oracle
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Campfire Oracle
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Hi Lynn. Hi Travis.
You're both sexy as ever. Is this a prelude to something ? He's prepping you for me to start schmoozing.... Schmoozing will cost you big time It always has...why should this be any different?
"...the left considers you vermin, and they'll kill you given the chance..." Bristoe
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okok, you got 10 pages (so far) of advice.
Do the right thing...
go back to Steelhead fishing.
That brings up the most important question that needs to be answered in this thread ... Catchin' any?
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I'm down in Oregon Steelheading for the last 10 days at my best Buds house. He has to work during the day, so I'm mainly fishing and playing with the Dogs. My best buds wife is in the UK on a business trip, so I thought Here is where it gets slimey...I had to make a trip to Fred Meyers (sort of like a Target store) to pick up some Molley screws. When I entered the store, there is a Peets Coffee cafe, low an behold I see Leslie and some other dude being all lovey dovey They both had their elbows on the table, both leaning over about 6" apart. I'm just SHOCKED! I thought they had a really good marriage?? I feel physically sick to my stomach, and don't know what to do? She was suppose to arrive tomorrow,infact my bud is suppose to pick her up at the airport. I'm almost 99% sure that she didn't see me. I sat in my truck for several minutes comptanplating to go and introduce myself...but chicken out. Now I don't know what the hel! to do? Should I tell him? or pretend nothing happened. I'm leaning towards telling him, that won't be easy to do. They have been married for close to 20 years, no kids. Any advice would be very helpful. GDTFH!! stay out of it Stay out for sure. He may already know. If not, he doesn't want to hear it from you.
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okok, you got 10 pages (so far) of advice.
Do the right thing...
go back to Steelhead fishing.
That brings up the most important question that needs to be answered in this thread ... Catchin' any? One.
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