Probably not a bad time to put up a direct quote from the apparently not so esteemed Mr.Tibbe, made here, not all that long ago.
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...It's your funeral
...funny how things work out sometimes, ain't it ?
Chit, this is supposed to be a solemn occasion, isn't it,...sorry to have cracked wise.
GTC.
Member, Clan of the Border Rats -- “Sometimes I wonder whether the world is being run by smart people who are putting us on or by imbeciles who really mean it.”- Mark Twain