Idaho Shooter,

Condolences on the loss of your father. Sounds like it was a blessing, too. It is tough having to watch a loved one suffer, especially a best friend like your father.

I lost my mother to cancer almost 13 years ago at 69, way before her time. I still think of her daily. My father is starting to fail now with overall fragility and neuropathy. He is still fairly sharp mentally but hates being housebound. It's getting harder for him to find things worth living for which is painful to watch. I suspect he holds on mostly for his kids and grandkids. I dread the thought of not having him around in my life.

Life marches on. Be thankful for the good memories and the fine example of a tough life well lived from what you have described.