I'd propose that she come and gets what she wants, because by [insert date] the rest of its going to Goodwill.
Yep, this
I was lucky when my mother died my brother and I lived close by and for the personal stuff like furniture, kitchen stuff, jewelry and clothes we just had a meeting at the house and came to a consensus that if he took some item then I would take some item, whether we wanted it or not, until most everything was spoken for and ready to move out of the house. What little was left was donated to charity. By doing this no one person was burdened with moving and storing the stuff so we could continue with the sale of the house and we each could later give it away in our own time.
