I don't know what's going on, but I'd stop until you find out.

I got a set of these primer pocket gauges and wouldn't be without them. Saves guessing about primer pockets and provides some peace of mind. Yeah, I know, "everybody" doesn't use them, but I don't follow the crowd.

https://ballistictools.com/store/swage-gage-small-primer-pocket

Out of stock right now, but seems to be available as part of a set of gauges. See their "Original Products" link. Brownells carries them too.

Stupidity has its way, while its cousin, evil, runs rampant.