Originally Posted by nemesis
Originally Posted by SnowHunter
Stayin for the kids is a crock, no matter how well the parents can "hide" the underlying problems. Been there, done that. It still effects the kids.



No doubt kids are affected Nic, but perhaps over the long run, not having a daddy in the house at all affects them a lot more.

Ya' know?

I can tell you, in the interem, and for us, its been 10 months...its effected them POSITIVELY. They're THRIVING! And thier Dad will be as much a part of thier life as HE Makes himself...its up to the PARENTS to be a part of thier kids lives, whether they're married, divorced, or whatever.

Kids know...and you don't realize the damage till the situation cracks. I've seen it first hand. Had I known how bad it effected them, I wouldn't have stuck around so long.



Nic
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