Please tell me how to balance my life with my kids? I adore them all and we have great relationships. I cant imagine not living in the same house----not afraid to say that tears are rolling down my face.
If it comes down to it, ask for custody.
As for balancing your life with your kids? I will pass on the best advice i ever received from a member here.
Your life is no longer about you. The children come first. You need to do what is best for them. If that means they go with mom, then so be it. Do your best to be a good father regardless. They will thank you for it in the long run. And the advice regarding keeping the bitterness out of your relationship with your kids is crucial. I saw that with my father all my life. Its screwed up.
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