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I’d probably start crying if I told all the mistakes I’ve made. Hasbeen
hasbeen (Better a has been than a never was!)
NRA Patron member Try to live your life where the preacher doesn't have to lie at your funeral
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Buying chia pets is never a good long term financial goal.
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Do we mention the time I took a "vacation" to head to Lake Placid in 1979? A long roundabout trip, visiting old "girlfriend" and partying a lot along the way. With intentions of getting to the Olympic Village construction, earning some money, and getting to watch the HOCKEY tournament. You know, the Miracle On Ice one? The one I missed because I was completely broke when I hit Harrisburg PA.
I did that instead of using the cash I had on hand for a down payment on the house across the street from my folks. The one that sold a year later for $19000 more than I would have paid for it. 19 Grand in 1979 wasn't a bad wage for a full years work, not to mention a tidy profit on a small house.
Of course, I could have bought cheap land in any of numerous "rural" areas in SoCal, which quickly became suburbs. Think Moreno Valley, Temecula, Ramona, Antelope Valley.
And I could have thought more highly of computers and gotten some training in using them, or even just invested in some early computer stock. But no, I had a good paying job, turned 21, chased girls, bought new cars, etc etc.
Didn't get back on track until I was in my mid 30's. Then was a starving student for 4 years, and a low pay scale employee for a few more. Eventually, I did OK, but boy would I like to do it over again sometimes.
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The desert is a true treasure for him who seeks refuge from men and the evil of men. In it is contentment In it is death and all you seek (Quoted from "The Bleeding of the Stone" Ibrahim Al-Koni)
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One of the businesses I started second official day of business was 9/11/01.
Forgive me my nonsense, as I also forgive the nonsense of those that think they talk sense. Robert Frost
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Do we mention the time I took a "vacation" to head to Lake Placid in 1979? A long roundabout trip, visiting old "girlfriend" and partying a lot along the way. With intentions of getting to the Olympic Village construction, earning some money, and getting to watch the HOCKEY tournament. You know, the Miracle On Ice one? The one I missed because I was completely broke when I hit Harrisburg PA.
I did that instead of using the cash I had on hand for a down payment on the house across the street from my folks. The one that sold a year later for $19000 more than I would have paid for it. 19 Grand in 1979 wasn't a bad wage for a full years work, not to mention a tidy profit on a small house.
Of course, I could have bought cheap land in any of numerous "rural" areas in SoCal, which quickly became suburbs. Think Moreno Valley, Temecula, Ramona, Antelope Valley.
And I could have thought more highly of computers and gotten some training in using them, or even just invested in some early computer stock. But no, I had a good paying job, turned 21, chased girls, bought new cars, etc etc.
Didn't get back on track until I was in my mid 30's. Then was a starving student for 4 years, and a low pay scale employee for a few more. Eventually, I did OK, but boy would I like to do it over again sometimes.
Geno It's all a part of the learning process and adventure. If we'd have done everything right, we'd have some pretty boring stories to tell.
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One of the businesses I started second official day of business was 9/11/01. That isn't a bad decision. That's bad timing or more accurately, bad luck.
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Buying a bass boat. They're definitely money pits. Damn boat, been lots of fun, but damn sure a money pit. Buying a boat, selling it and not learning my lesson so I bought another boat. The biggest mistake was letting my wife (now my EX-wife) have access to the investment account. I dumb cause I still have the boat. Tell me about the dumb ways to buy a boat and if there’s ever a smart way. We are threatening to buy one as soon as this coming spring. Our kids are still pretty little at 1 and 3 so I could definitely make an argument to put it off. But the financial part, was it financed or bought cash? Just piddling money away on constant repairs and maintenance and not factoring that into your budget? Spent too much on a toy? Don’t use it enough?
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My first and repeated mistake was buying new vehicles on credit. My second and repeated mistake was living above my income means with credit cards. My third mistake was not paying myself first (10% off the top) that my dad always said was important. I think that Dave Ramsey has the blueprint for all young couples on how to build lifetime wealth, from the get go, by following the Seven Baby Steps.The system encourages buying unaffordable things on credit so they have to work until death.
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I've spent too much on vehicles over the years. Even when I was single I had 4 vehicles, nice truck, hunting truck, nice car, beater road trip car. I'm always getting a hard time about vehicles. I should have been putting most of that money in retirement accounts.
There were some vehicles I made money on but most were a loss. Even now I have a 19 ram crew, my old 2 door 94 hunting Yukon, a 19 Cherokee trail hawk, and a 14 sienna. If I could only keep one it would be the 94 Yukon.
My other 2 financial weaknesses are guns and gold&silver. Luckily I've made money and am still ahead on the metals hobby and the guns have probably at least held their value overall.
Bb My finances are in pretty good shape and I max out my 401k along with having a pension, but I have a weakness for vehicles as well. Typically always have three, kinda shake when I only have two and more often than not have four. Usually flip a half dozen a year after buying them with various issues, but have two kinda garage trucks at the moment that don't really get used as much as they should and the two I typically drive were project vehicles that are wroth 2-4x what I have in them. Oh well, worse problems to have.
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Opened a used car tote the note lot.Worked 80 hrs a week at my oilfield job chased cars in the bad part of town on my day off.
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Give it enough pages, someone's bought a Peloton. Haha Saw the commercial the other day with the cute gal who got one from her hubby. Asked my wife if I should get her one. She laughed. So I guess it won't be me you get to chuckle at. Geno expensive thing to hang clothes on
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Buying a Bristol Bay gillnetter sight unseen,,$200.000 mistake,,,,,,,
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With out a doubt my first wife... almost ruined me
Originally Posted by Judman PS, if you think Trump is “good” you’re way stupider than I thought! Haha
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
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Not selling thousands of shares of CLRN at $175, because it was closed to employee trading at the time. Not an illegal act, but one that would have had me terminated.
Dave, a fellow employee that also had some angel investor shares, said WTF and sold at least 50K shares at that point. A lot of us co-workers were shocked. "How could he do such a thing?". Now, he's my hero, and I tell his story to my kids. "Ain't no job worth $X,XXX,XXX if you're a good employee. Take the sure money and move on to the next gig"
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Ping pong balls for the win. Once you've wrestled everything else in life is easy. Dan Gable I keep my circle small, I’d rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies.
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Yep, that first marriage was 7 years of hell, emotional and financial, that took the next 20 or more to get over. Probably wouldn't have survived it without Mrs. number two! 43 years and counting this time around! Jerry
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Buying a bass boat. They're definitely money pits. Damn boat, been lots of fun, but damn sure a money pit. Buying a boat, selling it and not learning my lesson so I bought another boat. The biggest mistake was letting my wife (now my EX-wife) have access to the investment account. I dumb cause I still have the boat. Tell me about the dumb ways to buy a boat and if there’s ever a smart way. We are threatening to buy one as soon as this coming spring. Our kids are still pretty little at 1 and 3 so I could definitely make an argument to put it off. But the financial part, was it financed or bought cash? Just piddling money away on constant repairs and maintenance and not factoring that into your budget? Spent too much on a toy? Don’t use it enough? I gave around 2 grand for my aluminum fishing boat about 5 years ago. I've spent a few hundred on routine maintenance, and have really enjoyed it so far. It should be worth a bit more than I paid for it. A boat doesn't have to break the bank.
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Buying cheap batteries at dollar general instead of energizer,s for my Ronco pocket pussy.
Lesson learned....
Had ta take matters into my own hands when those DG batteries petered out.....
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As I mentioned on another thread - selling a 1966 Shelby GT 350 in 1974 for $2500. Also, turning our investments over to an investment professional at Paine Webber in 1999 who loaded us up with a bunch of tech stocks just before the tech crash. We've done much better since due to my wife took over our investments. Helps to marry an economics major.
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Seems many mention boats, I'm like gregintn, buy quality aluminum boats with four stroke outboards, very little maintenance and tons of fun, with great resale.
Again bad wives, the most expensive thing a guy can do by a long shot....
Originally Posted by Judman PS, if you think Trump is “good” you’re way stupider than I thought! Haha
Sorry, trump is a no tax payin pile of shiit.
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