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Whatever he looses he gains getting away from the hag. Celebrate that aspect
"I can't be canceled, because, I don't give a fuuck!"
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too late now, but in future, all men are insane, in the West, at least, to not get a vasectomy. Too bad your daddy didn't before he spawned you... too late now, but in future, all men are insane, in the West, at least, to not get a vasectomy. Too bad your daddy didn't before he spawned you... aint my fault you're too ignorant and lazy to learn anything.
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As said it is almost impossible for the Fed pension to not go 50/50
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I sure could go for some $2.50/gal gas and a mean tweet!
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No advise, just a small prayer,
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the pension is what I would try to protect
He will be surprised at how quick he can recover from losing a house
Pension is another story
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She has not worked for years, claiming that she has chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia and who knows what else. But is it true? People really do get those things. I know it always looks suspicious, but it's possible she might actually be sick. I wouldn't call her a liar without having the facts. With being sick and not working she will get alimony so that she will have some sort of income.
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They have been married 16 years.
I suspect she does have medical issues but am not certain.
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too late now, but in future, all men are insane, in the West, at least, to not get a vasectomy. Too bad your daddy didn't before he spawned you... too late now, but in future, all men are insane, in the West, at least, to not get a vasectomy. Too bad your daddy didn't before he spawned you... aint my fault you're too ignorant and lazy to learn anything. Yeah, you mean like learning to quote properly.............
Paul
"I'd rather see a sermon than hear a sermon".... D.A.D.
Trump Won!, Sandmann Won!, Rittenhouse Won!, Suck it Liberal Fuuktards.
molɔ̀ːn labé skýla
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Hate to say it, but I hope he doesn't end up having to buy a van.
Wishing your bro the best of "luck".
Digital Dan is quite a knowledgeable fellow.....................It might be prudent to follow his advice. Very prudent.
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The desert is a true treasure for him who seeks refuge from men and the evil of men.
In it is contentment
In it is death and all you seek
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too late now, but in future, all men are insane, in the West, at least, to not get a vasectomy. Too bad your daddy didn't before he spawned you... too late now, but in future, all men are insane, in the West, at least, to not get a vasectomy. Too bad your daddy didn't before he spawned you... aint my fault you're too ignorant and lazy to learn anything. Yeah, you mean like learning to quote properly............. an spel aint kerrektlee. Geno
The desert is a true treasure for him who seeks refuge from men and the evil of men.
In it is contentment
In it is death and all you seek
(Quoted from "The Bleeding of the Stone" Ibrahim Al-Koni)
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I say sad because he and I (and supposedly his wife) are Christians and we know that God hates divorce.
Since you have some sort of inside line, how does God feel about slip and fall accidents?
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Who cares what it costs. I live in a cardboard box, sucking dick for beer money. Than live with that thing he calls a wife..
Then STFU. The rest of your statement is superflous bullshit with no real bearing on this discussion other than to massage your own ego. Suckin' on my titties like you wanted me.
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the pension is what I would try to protect
He will be surprised at how quick he can recover from losing a house
Pension is another story These things can be negotiated. I've seen guys giving the house up for his pension, or medical or just cash. A really good lawyer will help tremendously. Try to leave the emotion out. That can lead to saying or doing really stupid things that can cost later. A financial planner can help make good choices going into and through a divorce. Scorched earth can bite you in the ass. If a judge decides you have hidden any assets he can really hammer him. Request a full medical work up so she has to prove she is really sick too.
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They have been married 16 years.
I suspect she does have medical issues but am not certain. I’ve watched a lot of friends go through divorce I’d always recommended a great lawyer I knew to them, at least 6 or 7 guys used him. They all, to the last man, came out “winning” more than they dreamed. They retained full custody of their children. One friend of mine got full custody of his 3 young daughters which is nigh on impossible in this state. He retired a year ago or I’d put you in touch with him. My friends wives couldn’t find a local attorney that would represent them once they found out he was the fathers attorney, they had to go a county away in one case. Generally, from what I’ve witnessed for those WITHOUT children is the 50/50 applies only to what was acquired DURING the marriage and financial support for a non working spouse is 1 year of support for every 5 years married. A good attorney is a must UNLESS he and her can come to a reasonable agreement.
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I see a terrible accident in her future.
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Sounds like both my brother and my son. Both got hosed good. Illinois is, besides the second most corrupt state, probably the most anti husband state in the Union. Lawyer up and then bend over. She can be the bitch from hell and still get half or more.
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During the divorce, my son was his own lawyer. This way, He could deal direct with her lawyer. No waiting around for answers. It worked out pretty well. When the final agreement was drawn up, he did hire a lawyer to look it over b/4 he signed. This was in MN.
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Not in Washington state, he's screwed. Rode it out with a couple of friends and neither ended well.
Postpone divorce proceedings, liquidate, move to a state that isn't as rough on a guy in a divorce then proceed with a well thought out plan that ends in divorce.
Could take a couple years but might save him half that government pension as well as whatever else he can safeguard while liquidating.... This! Dont do it in haste. Make up with her then plan it very ,very finely.
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