Nobody want to hear a dad speech, I know.



I have often told my girls decisions you make create the problems you have.

Trouble very rarely comes knocking on those who didn't send an invitation.

Several years ago I took the family to the NJ beach, durimy their bike rally.

Hanging out with Warlocks, Vandals, and Pagans, I was uneasy.
The bars overfill the party spills onto the sidewalks and streets, we didn't know that.
One evening we were walking and found ourselves with the party between us and
The motel. It was soon apparent they didn't want us to pass through, so we finally
found a way around.

We will never go back there that weekend again.
Nothing happened, no threats even.
But, you hang around with 1% gangs, ok can be an "innocent bystander".

A co-worker just got back from Ocean City Me.
He has went that week for many years.
Their bike week. He doesn't even have a bike. Just like to party with them.
Told me he was drinking in a bar with 7 Pagans.
"They don't bother you if you leave them alone."

No doubt. Funny that way.

Unless, something goes sideways.
Then you are in the middle of a [bleep] show.
And everyone can say you were innocent, just eating wings and enjoying a beer.

I say your dumb ass put you in that situation.


Parents who say they have good kids..Usually don't!