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Don't tell nobody, huh? You'll go ruinin' my rep...

I'm MIA for the weekend; but I'll PM ya Monday or so.

Hey, it takes a village...

You have it half right. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> It takes a village to RAISE a child, it take a dad to pay for one.

Dave
Hope it all works out the way you want it!
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So far, it is....

I have absolutly ZERO use for people that shirk their obligations. Now till I find you are not serious, you are and will remain on ignore 'cause if this is the real you you are a LOSER and I don't associate with losers.

That's a shame...as I've always looked up to you....

"I wouldn't mind a couple hundred bucks a month, or something like that, TOTAL....but a significant percentage of my income is unreasonable."

I think what T. Lee is saying is: Don't expect us to join your personal pity party. This is the second post you've started with the same topic: ME ME ME.

What about your responsibilities? There is no ME ME ME in "father."

You say you wouldn't mind a couple of hundred bucks a month. I calculate that at $480 per year for the five people you've either brought into the world or left as single parents. THAT's the unreasonable part.

Why don't YOU try living on $480 per year?

Who do you expect to pay for the costs? We taxpayers who mind our own business, do not sire kids with unwed mothers, and in general behave with moral character?

Frankly you've gotten what you deserve. Your life is over, at least the part that can be bought with savings and investments. It's just a shame that three kids have been brought into the world with such a lousy father--one whose only reason to obtain joint custody is that he might save money, not that he cares one whit about their futures.

So go find some drunken floozy if you want to have a pity party.

And remember..."If you can't do the time, don't do the crime."

As for me, I pity the three kids.

Good luck. Hope it works out the way you want.

Paul

Methinks you'se yanking our chains Dave.

But just on the 1% chance you're not, you're approaching the problem all the wrong way. You just got a figure out how to make an extra $50-60K per year and you'll never know the difference hardly. Stick can prolly get you a job logging on the side, or you could start a porn site, buy a 6-plex or offer male enhancement through email ( hey my email is not on my profile is it Rick?) Any number of things you can do to make a little extra cash and still have roughly the same disposable income you do for yourself now.

Consider yourself lucky dude, I have 3 and I love em to pieces so I spend far more than 36k per year, on them. You get where you don't even think about the cost. Besides you're not looking to the future, one of these days you ain't gonna be able to pack game off the mountain, but a kid you raised will be able to. See you wasn't looking at the bright side. Glad I could help. Now get off yer azz and go make some more moolah, have another kid or two, cause once they can drive it's hard to get them to pack game for ya! Good luck, I'll pm my lawyers address so we can get the house in my name pronto! 1ak

My opinion is this is a ruse and as such is an asinine thread. On the other hand, if it is the truth, you are a f-u-c-k-i-n-g idiot!

<img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> TFF!!! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

Yank any harder and you're gonna have to pay ME child support (grins)!!!!!!

LOL <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Make sure you dont send money to her, get a hold of the child support program. If you just send the money to her she will take it, and she will get money from the government to. Then the government will get come after you for the money they gave her. There will be no trace that you paid her, so you pay double time.

Sounds like you might be speaking from experience

It will only happen 1 time though.

Dave,
I am a lawyer in Barrow and can help you out of this one literally. I deal with child support cases all the time and should have no problem getting you cleared on this one, especially since you never married either woman.

Finally, someone solution oriented...rather than judgemental. Please PM me your contact information...!

Pay the lawyer above, you may win. Who will loose if you win?
Did one of your parents abandon you in the name of money? I hope not. Are your children as you put it worth a pittance? If you want these children to grow up to have some kind of a worthwhile life you need to be involved above and beyond paying support. I do not know if 3K is unreasanable, however you need to raise thes kids one way or another. Just my 2 cents.