Obviously you have been offended in someway, I apologize to you for being offended for views that are not of your own.
On the other hand, I find myself not offended at your intentionally offensive remarks and hope that you are not offended at me for not taking offense to them....
I also may ad that wink was totally and intended as an unoffensive wink and will offer apologies if you have taken offense to my unoffensive wink.
So now can we please get back to the OP's situation at hand instead of creating and offensive hijacked thread? (No offense intended)